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My mistake. It looks like I commented regarding a different Turkish escort who is now based in NYC: https://rent.men/TURKISHTOPMANXXL. The guy who's the subject of this thread (https://rent.men/TURKISHBULLXXL) listed NYC as a future visit in July, and due to their very similar stage names, I got my wires crossed. Sorry for the confusion.

I concur with the posts above from @Hung_Cody and @hotmusljckbtm . Mascdude is legit and super fun! I almost don't want to give him good press so I can keep him a secret just for me ?

I met this guy about a month ago around late March or early April of 2021 in NYC. So, he's definitely real, and he's actually in the U.S.A. That being said, we didn't have an actual session because we got our communication mixed up, and he arrived to my hotel without us confirming the appointment, so I'd had plans to see someone else. We spoke for maybe 5 or 10 minutes in my room before he left. I found him very handsome and his pictures were accurate. He was the sweetest guy, apologized for the mix up (English isn't his 1st language), and absolutely refused to take any money that I offered him for his time. We've been unable to coordinate a makeup session since then, but I'd like to.

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I think he's referring to it's thickness. The length is certainly manageable, but that circumference looks huge. ?? Some people's holes just don't stretch that wide. ?

I saw him in 2019 when I last visited California. It was a wonderful experience. I reached out to Bill last year during the height of the pandemic and quarantine orders, and he was sweet in response to my concern. The next time I'm in San Francisco, I'll definitely look him up.

When I first met Jimmy years back, he was very slender and looked like he was barely in his 20s. Obviously, his body was due to fill out as he matured, but he's also really dedicated himself to working out, and he's put on quite a bit of muscle. I don't get the sense he wants to be a bodybuilder, but he definitely likes being cut and muscular and the greater attention that gets him. I don't know what Jimmy's sexual orientation is. Admittedly, I've got crappy gaydar, but while Jimmy's not uber masculine (whatever the heck that means), I don't get a particularly strong gay vibe from him. For what it's worth, we've had several encounters, both lap dances and having a meal once or twice, and we conversed quite a bit each time. Just my 2 cents...

I haven't hired Jimmy as an escort, but I've had many a lapdance with him at the Adonis Lounge in NYC. He's pretty much straight, or so he's told me for years, but whether or not that's true, he's a total sweetheart. If I thought that he was gay, I'd say that he's boyfriend material.

I can vouch for this assessment.

In my experience, with this mindset, you're going to be frustrated a lot in this hobby. It's kind of like the construction industry, where delays are so commonplace that courts will rarely, if ever, accept the failure to complete a project on time as a breach of contract. It's just a part of this business which may not be compatible with certain personality types, like @former lurker's father. In another message board for international hiring, it's a running joke amongst American & European posters that Brazilian escorts are regularly "late" for appts. Cultural notions of scheduling and timeliness vary widely. All of the above being said, to echo @Justin7402, if the bottom you're going to top requests extra time to prepare, you REALLY should give him that without hesitation. I mean, unless you're into scat, which is also perfectly fine, of course. ?

Garrett Haake https://images.app.goo.gl/hBdpeJZ9xuNfeZZu5

*swoon* Looks like my instincts in buddylisting Tyler's ad were on the nose. I can't wait to hire this guy once my COVID-19 vaccination is complete!

His ad came up as "not found" when I clicked on the link.

It wasn't my query. But that recommendation of Tyler Roberts sounds wonderful.

My experience has been mixed. I've found quite often, and some guys have admitted, that a lot of escorts keep their profile's "available now" feature on all the time so that they'll stand out in general browsing. I've had guys simply not respond, and others say that it was too late or they were out with friends or having dinner. It obviously wasn't worth it to impress upon them the inherent contradiction in displaying themselves as "available now" in such situations. It could be the specific type of guys I reach out to, or maybe I'm inquiring at times of peak interest when providers would be less likely to be available. I've never thought that deeply about a potential pattern. In most locales I wouldn't think much of it, but I've just found it surprising in NYC, which literally has over 500 active profiles at any given moment, how often I've encountered difficulty trying to hire on the spur of the moment. Having alternate options is always a sound strategy, but it can often be fruitless, even in the city that never sleeps.

I agree that @MscleLovr had some good fortune with his alternates, which isn't always common and will vary with the season and market. I usually hire in NYC, which has the largest selection of male escorts in the country. Yet, I've found it to be pretty difficult to book providers on short notice, even when they have the "available now" feature on their rentmen profile switched on. Being stood up often means that you'll be unable to book a replacement, even in the Big Apple. I imagine that it's also quite frustrating for escorts when clients pull a "no show" or cancel at the last minute. Those are the perils of this business, right?

The OP "put this to bed" nearly 2 hours before your post when he gave us his last update and said that he's over the incident and will be taking a break from the forum for a while (see post #72). So why take this parting shot at him? For those of us who hire escorts to fulfill deeper needs for extended companionship and emotional intimacy, it can be really significant to have arranged an entire evening in hopes of finding a regular provider. Unfortunately, it didn't work out for this OP, so isn't this the right place to vent and/or commiserate? After all, one of this forum's main purposes is for clients to seek, and also provide, support and advice from/to one another regarding this hobby. It's a new year, we're still struggling with a once in a century global pandemic that's so far infected over 20 million and claimed close to 400,000 lives in the U.S. alone, our democracy is hanging on by a thread, and things are only going to get worse in the short term, despite the promise of the 3 recently approved vaccines. The need for emotional support and companionship will likely only increase for most of us as we weather this brutal winter stretch of the pandemic. Could we please be a bit kinder to each other in 2021?

I met him last year and had a really fun time with him. I really needed to get nailed, and he delivered.

Thank you. I thought that was Boulevard Man, but I couldn't be sure. He wasn't as friendly as I wanted when I reached out over rent men a year or more ago, but I should probably reconsider given your positive experience. Take care.

I have been head over heels in love with Alexander Skarsgård for the better part of two decades. He's ruined other men for me, to be honest.

Hot clip! Who are these providers? I think I'd like to see one or both of them in person, especially the top.

Because people who are pushing 40 can't be very slender or otherwise look like they've skipped a few meals? If the guy is smoking hot (by whatever criteria floats your boat), and you can't tell his age unless he tells you, then it shouldn't matter whether he's 27 or 40. I'm willing to bet that this escort looks better in his late 30s than most of us do now, or did when we were in our 20s. It's a fleeting encounter, not an arranged wedding. We're all shallow in various ways when it comes to this hobby, so I'm not not saying that my sh*t doesn't stink. I'm just recognizing the obvious -- that most, if not all of the selection criteria we hold these providers to is shallow as f*ck. We're so judgmental, and at times unforgiving on this board, but this is mostly a wish-fulfillment hobby so, whatever, right? Within this context, it makes total sense IMHO for escorts to also play the game, so to speak, and market themselves as able to fulfill whatever fantasy clients want. If they can pass for an age that's a decade or more younger than they really are, then more power to them. Each of us will do, say, and feel whatever we want with respect to enjoying this hobby. I just won't knock the escorts' hustle.

That actually doesn't bother me at all, but that's a pretty significant shaving off of years. I guess if clients are shallow enough that it matters to their hiring practices, we can't knock providers for fudging on their ages so often.

Oh. My. Goodness. ??

Mature, hung, hirsute, and a ginger? I think I'm in love. ? Give me a call me, boo. I'm only half joking. The other half is planning our honeymoon... ?