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This guy is quite attractive, but his ad is so sparse on details of what he does with clients. He doesn’t even give a position, and his publicly accessible photos don’t show a bottom like myself what I’d be working with. As handsome as he is, and I do love gingers, there’s too much uncertainty about the type of experience he offers for me to feel comfortable going through with a booking. But I hope other clients have a great time with him!

Same here. I don't even remember viewing his profile. What a strange business model.

As you can see from just the few responses so far, forum members (including yours truly) would be happy to help, but you’ve got to put us in a better position to do so. You’re far too light on the details for us to make decent recommendations. Tall, muscular, and masculine are all relative, so tell us what you want in specific terms. What’s the minimum height you want your guy to have? Approximate age range? Racial or ethnic background? Hairy, smooth, or in between? Endowment size, cut or uncut? (I don’t recommend a largely endowed guy if this is your first time bottoming, but that’s just my personal opinion.) I know you said that you want someone who’s “super chill,” but you also don’t want anything “super hardcore.” I’m sorry, but that’s just way too vague. Are you looking for a tender, boyfriend-like experience; a “wham bam thank you ma’am” hook up; someone who’s aggressive and takes the lead; a more organic, naturally developing experience, etc. The possibilities are virtually limitless in NYC, which is the largest escort market, by far. But that’s something to be excited about, not scared of. The more specific you are, the more helpful our recommendations can be. Once you say a bit more about what you’re looking for, I’d be delighted to help out, as I’m sure many other forum members would be, as well. Welcome!

I had a fun time with Danny last week after he arrived in the U.S. I found him to be a handsome and very sweet guy.

I found one of them (the first guy, Furry_wolf, I think, who’s based in Atlanta, GA) on the Scruff app in the central NJ area this week. Per the link to his Instagram page, he has a twin brother (apparently identical), who’s based in Ft Lauderdale, FL. So, the mystery may have been solved. Fascinating that it looks like they’re gay twin brothers who are both sex workers.

JasonVesper and I texted back and forth quite a bit on my last trip out to Los Angeles back in September. He was very nice and professional in our attempts to schedule a meeting, but we just weren’t able to work something out. He said to look him up on my next trip, and I plan to do just that. Hope this helps, for whatever it’s worth.

I met him one winter before the pandemic started on one of his trips to NYC. We had a good time. I’d like to see him again, but since I’m mostly bottom, it’d probably have to be a 3-way with another top.

I love that your ad lists you as versatile now, so a bottom like myself can finally partake of your services, handsome! Can’t wait until your next trip to NYC!

Thanks @dutchal That thread was very helpful!

Thank you, @KeepItReal! I’ll drop him a line.

Does anyone have any experience with the following NYC-based masseurs? https://rentmasseur.com/NYCDominicano https://rentmasseur.com/CharlieSzary https://rentmasseur.com/MassageArtsNYC https://rentmasseur.com/Essentiall https://rentmasseur.com/AchillesMasseur https://rentmasseur.com/Alex_NYC I found the first guy on Twitter, of all places! Some of these guys have been asked about before, but I’m hoping to find some more recent info Relatedly, I’m looking for an erotic but still competent massage. I wouldn’t mind some *extras* being included, but I can always hire an actual escort for that. Ideally, I’d love to find a professional who does both so I can hire him for a combination session, but that could be an entirely separate thread! 😁. Thanks in advance for your help, guys.

Thanks @dutchal and @Wanderoz. Liam/Disco Dick and Alistair are the two guys I was referring to when I said that some of the escorts had been asked about before, I may end up treating myself to one or more of these guys if Santa delivers my presents early this year! 😁

Does anyone have any information and/or experiences that they can share about these newer guys I’ve seen advertising in NYC? https://rent.men/Mikerogers_tx https://rent.men/XLVers_Liam https://rent.men/LapotenciaXXL/#platinum https://rent.men/ITALIANXLFF https://rent.men/Classinsession https://rent.men/Damien_Wood https://rent.men/JewishMike https://rent.men/Alistair_LDN I know that one or two of the above guys has been asked about on the forum, but I’m hoping to learn whether anyone’s had any experience with them. Thanks in advance!

Okay, now this is us a guy I’d want to hire! 😍 I’ve had varying degrees of success with initial texts. I usually say that I’ve seen their rent men ad, and that I’m looking to hire on a particular day/night or over a span of a few days if I’m available and have a super open schedule. More recently, for newer guys without much of a reputation here or elsewhere, I’ve been telling then my RM profile and asking them to review it to get a better sense of what I’m into. Some guys seem to appreciate that, and others might think I’m a flake because they don’t respond at all. It’s all a crapshoot, in my opinion, because it seems like some guys respond really well to certain approaches endorsed by providers here, while others are turned off by the same things. Who can tell? 🤷🏽‍♂️

It depends on what I’m looking for at the time. I’m mostly bottom, so I’m usually looking for tops or top/versatiles. I then sort based on if I’m looking for guys of a particular racial or ethnic background for that romp; or if I want a tall & large-framed guy, or a shorter, more slender guy. Sometimes I’ll sort for more well-endowed guys when I want to get impaled; and at other times, I’ll look for average-sized guys when I just want to have intercourse without a whole lot of prep work or getting the breath knocked out of me with each thrust. I try to search by certain interests too, but so many providers are careless with their selections, that I find that to be less helpful. One thing I preferred with the old rent boy site was that it allowed you to do really precise searches based on specific physical traits, like hair or eye color. Rent men doesn’t seem to allow that. The restrictions RM puts on users in the U.S. make it impossible to read reviews without using a proxy to obscure your IP address. That makes it difficult to do searches based on review scores if, like me, you don’t place much faith in RM reviews that aren’t written out. The good thing about being based in the NYC-metropolitan area is that we have such a large number of local and visiting providers that there’s almost always a great variety of choices.

Happy birthday! I’m very sorry that you have to enjoy it without partaking in this hobby, and perhaps without other forms of intimate human touch. I hope you find a way to enjoy yourself soon within acceptable risk parameters.

The Paul is definitely not a fancy place, nor is it the type of hotel I’d choose to spend my vacation at. But it’s decent, and one of the few hotels left in NYC that doesn’t require a keycard to use the elevators. That makes it perfect for the debauchery that the original poster is looking for.

Try the Paul hotel on 29th Street.

Thanks for the info. Interestingly, he doesn’t list anal among his interests, and for position, he put “Ask me.” If he’s not going full Greek, then my interest in him drops to zero. Such a shame.

I was just going to respond that I’d seen him at several shows at the Adonis Lounge in NYC, and he looks pretty much like the photos on the RM ad. I’m pretty sure I used to follow him on Twitter too, and he had quite the entertaining personality. Unfortunately, I can’t comment on his lap dancing or other talents, because I’m generally shy at those events, and he never approached me. TylerGrovesNYC’s post makes me wish that JV_Marx or I had been more bold. Oh well,… But the guy’s real and the photos are accurate, so if he’s your type, go for it!

What are his rates for massage? Did you learn his escorting rate?

Sounds like Fabio is a good time. Those of you who’ve hired him, can you divulge his rate structure? Here or by private message is fine. Much obliged

His ad says “text only,” so that might be why he didn’t respond.

Just met with this guy this week and had an amazing time. I know we can’t do reviews on the forum, but I’ll say that he’s total boyfriend material, and I hope he becomes a regular. Thanks @Coolwave35 for bringing him to our collective attention.

I echo this recommendation, with one small, but important, caveat. Jake is very well endowed, so I wouldn't enthusiastically suggest him for someone who's new to bottoming, or has little experience with it. I've no doubt that Jake can be gentle and patient, but I wouldn't call that a beginner's dick. Just saying...😉