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It depends on what I’m looking for at the time. I’m mostly bottom, so I’m usually looking for tops or top/versatiles. I then sort based on if I’m looking for guys of a particular racial or ethnic background for that romp; or if I want a tall & large-framed guy, or a shorter, more slender guy. Sometimes I’ll sort for more well-endowed guys when I want to get impaled; and at other times, I’ll look for average-sized guys when I just want to have intercourse without a whole lot of prep work or getting the breath knocked out of me with each thrust. I try to search by certain interests too, but so many providers are careless with their selections, that I find that to be less helpful. One thing I preferred with the old rent boy site was that it allowed you to do really precise searches based on specific physical traits, like hair or eye color. Rent men doesn’t seem to allow that. The restrictions RM puts on users in the U.S. make it impossible to read reviews without using a proxy to obscure your IP address. That makes it difficult to do searches based on review scores if, like me, you don’t place much faith in RM reviews that aren’t written out. The good thing about being based in the NYC-metropolitan area is that we have such a large number of local and visiting providers that there’s almost always a great variety of choices.

Happy birthday! I’m very sorry that you have to enjoy it without partaking in this hobby, and perhaps without other forms of intimate human touch. I hope you find a way to enjoy yourself soon within acceptable risk parameters.

The Paul is definitely not a fancy place, nor is it the type of hotel I’d choose to spend my vacation at. But it’s decent, and one of the few hotels left in NYC that doesn’t require a keycard to use the elevators. That makes it perfect for the debauchery that the original poster is looking for.

Try the Paul hotel on 29th Street.

Thanks for the info. Interestingly, he doesn’t list anal among his interests, and for position, he put “Ask me.” If he’s not going full Greek, then my interest in him drops to zero. Such a shame.

I was just going to respond that I’d seen him at several shows at the Adonis Lounge in NYC, and he looks pretty much like the photos on the RM ad. I’m pretty sure I used to follow him on Twitter too, and he had quite the entertaining personality. Unfortunately, I can’t comment on his lap dancing or other talents, because I’m generally shy at those events, and he never approached me. TylerGrovesNYC’s post makes me wish that JV_Marx or I had been more bold. Oh well,… But the guy’s real and the photos are accurate, so if he’s your type, go for it!

What are his rates for massage? Did you learn his escorting rate?

Sounds like Fabio is a good time. Those of you who’ve hired him, can you divulge his rate structure? Here or by private message is fine. Much obliged

His ad says “text only,” so that might be why he didn’t respond.

Just met with this guy this week and had an amazing time. I know we can’t do reviews on the forum, but I’ll say that he’s total boyfriend material, and I hope he becomes a regular. Thanks @Coolwave35 for bringing him to our collective attention.

I echo this recommendation, with one small, but important, caveat. Jake is very well endowed, so I wouldn't enthusiastically suggest him for someone who's new to bottoming, or has little experience with it. I've no doubt that Jake can be gentle and patient, but I wouldn't call that a beginner's dick. Just saying...😉

I first contacted Tommy Albright this past winter and we had good communication, but when I reached out after completing my COVID-19 vaccination he ghosted me. I've been with California Boi and had a really fun time. He sounds like just what you're looking for, so I vote for him. I reached out to Big Muscle NYC just once earlier this summer, but he didn't respond. I'd definitely like to make a connection with him, though, so he'd be my second choice. I find Muscle Shawn/Built Greg to be very sexy as well, but he's never responded the few times I've tried to set up a meeting. Good luck!

Okay. Well, I'm interested, but I'm not going to jump through hoops to get an escort to respond when I'm trying to patronize his business. Since my first message was some time ago, and we're now closer in time to his expected NYC trip, I'll send a follow-up message and that's it. There's no reason that any professional should make it too difficult for prospective clients to hire him.

His phone option is disabled on rent men. Is there any way to reach him besides via that site's message service? I sent him a message a week ago about his trip to NYC later this month, but it's been all radio silence.

I had an escort in LA tell me during the afterglow of our 1st session (which went really well) that he was surprised I'd booked him because he didn't think he was my type. This wasn't based on my RM profile (which is pretty detailed, and reads almost like a personal ad), but on the kinds of escorts I'd previously reviewed. As far as I know, he didn't contact any of my former hires, nor did he say what he thought of the reviews I'd left (I do not always give 5-star reviews). He just thought he was very different from those guys. I wasn't at all offended, but it just goes to show that even if you do your due diligence, that doesn't mean that the conclusions you've drawn from whatever you've found are accurate.

I'm based in the NYC area and would be open to test-driving this particular man-mobile. How do we reach this amateur courtesan?

I saw him at the very end of 2020, back when I was gently exploring returning to the hiring scene. I m found him to be a really nice guy, despite his RM ad and Twitter/OF persona. The guy's got pretty good stamina, and I had a good time. I didn't see him again because I got apprehensive about hiring since I hadn't been vaccinated yet. I'd see him again, but I've since found a local regular who's taken up most of my hiring attention.

He was based in Los Angeles, and his RM profile name was HungGingerLA, until just a few days ago. I contacted him this past Saturday afternoon of Pride Weekend (back when he had the old name, but appeared under the NYC listings), asking if he was in town and available. He confirmed that he was in NYC for the weekend, but when I asked for his rates and availability, he went radio silent. I've found that some escorts tend to be noncommittal or difficult to get ahold of during prior Pride Weekends, so perhaps this guy was busy enjoying himself, or overextended with professional commitments, or maybe he was finalizing a spontaneous move to the east coast. Who knows? I would've loved to have seen him, but he apparently declined to take steps to nail down the potential hire. I'm still open to seeing Mr. Kennedy, but I'm not going to bend over backwards pursuing him. Take my experience for whatever you feel it's worth.

Shots fired! 🤣 It's funny because it's true

I haven't met with Mr. Dalton, but I just wanted to chime in to say that when I've experienced a provider's inability to maintain an erection, it's messed with my confidence too. So, you're not alone in dealing with that psychological malady. I've also been interested in Mr. Dalton over the years, so I hope to read that you get some positive feedback here. Good luck!

He definitely had an ad up before, and he even alludes to it by saying that he's back from a hiatus. But it looks like he's created a brand new profile, even though this stage name seems very familiar. I could've sworn that I had his old ad buddylisted, but I just can't remember who this guy was before.

Had a 3-some with Kiddo and another escort just this month. He was fantastic, just like when we met a few years before.

His ad lists him as being in Ft Lauderdale, Florida now. Since the ad doesn't say that this is a visiting location, I wonder if this sexy fellow has relocated. Or, maybe, he's one of those escorts who likes to change the "home city" on their ad to match whichever locale they're visiting.

Thanks for this @crazyivan. I had no desire to derail this thread, nor do I have an interest in starting a new one about the other Turkish escort. I just erred in confusing the 2 based on their similar stage names and claimed heritage. If you, @lonely_john, have any questions about the guy I met so briefly, I'd be happy to address them privately or in a new thread if you choose to start one. Cheers!

That's a tough thing to tell a client who has developed feelings for you, but, as the saying goes, sometimes the truth hurts. The fact that you feel bad at having to articulate the transactional nature of the client-escort relationship, even if it's necessary in that moment, shows that you have a kind heart. That empathy probably helps to make you a good escort to begin with, but it can certainly have its drawbacks. It's a fine line you walk, and I wish you the best with it.