PiSquared

There was a strip club called SWINGING RICHARDS in Atlanta back in the day. It closed last year. MOST of the guys there were VERY straight and would upsell the FUK out of you in the backroom and you got NOTHING, usually.
So, I did not go a lot unless I was with with friends who wanted to go. 
One night, a particular guy caught my eye. I chatted him up and found out we actually had a lot in common. I went back to see him several times. 
One night, I may have had a little more liquid courage than normal, and I just asked him "So, how much would it cost for you to bottom for me?"
He seemed taken aback at first, and I apologized profusely, "I'm sorry man, I didn't mean to offend you." To which he replied "no, no, it's all good. I've never done that. Kinda new here. And I've only JO'ed with another guy. Not saying no, but how about you text me and we can discuss it via text."
Long story short, my next trip into Atlanta, I got a hotel room and he came to see me for an hour. I WILL NOT ADMIT to how much I paid for this VERY STRAIGHT GUY to let me inside him...but it was WORTH EVERY PENNY. The strange thing is, I could tell he was NOT having a good time but he was VERY intent on ME having a good time – it was a weird dynamic but weird in a good way, in my favor. 
 

I had 5 dates with new prospects this weekend and there were 5 fails. 
 
boy one was 40 minutes late to dinner and talked incessantly about himself with long detailed tangents that I couldn’t follow. 
 
boy two invited me to breakfast at a very nice restaurant but doesn’t eat breakfast. I thought he was immediately not into me and told him it was ok to go. He said that wasn’t the case he legitimately doesn’t eat breakfast. Why invite me to breakfast?  He watched me eat an avocado toast. 
boy 3 simply no showed
boy 4 was the best. He was a gorgeous Brazilian. We went shopping and he tried on clothes in the fitting room, was hung, fun etc. and then walked for 40 blocks around NYC. We walked by an electric scooter. He goes “that’s JUST like the scooter I stole from Central Park last year, well I didn’t steal it. It wasn’t locked up and the charger was in the compartment so the universe gifted it to me. Karma came back though cuz someone stole it from me in the Fall.” 10 minutes after that as were walking back to my car garage, a woman in a rush bumped into him on the phone with ear buds. He looked at me and said did you see that. I said yeah. He screams out “excuse me is what you say to someone you bump into you RUDE BITCH”. 
 
boy 5 “got the dates confused” and cancelled. The weekend cost me just shy of $2,000 but made for interesting stories.
I did dare boy #4 to run into McDonald’s shirtless, go into the second story room bathroom and come back down for $100. He did it. 
 
Back to the drawing board  

Is it still possible to “win the day” or is that an obsolete feature? 
 
can you do another site statistics post?  
 
I enjoyed that unless it’s a lot of work. 

Early in my hiring career I spent a week with a provider in Orlando.  As part of our negotiations, he asked for a few hours a day to manage his business leads. I thought it unreasonable so I pushed back. He explained that if he went dark for 7 days he’d lose more income than he was making. I disagreed but understood and relented. 
 
The first three days were eye opening about the number of inquiries he received and how time consuming the management was. Day 4 and 5 he ignored the phone and took a break from it and confessed to feeling burnt out there and wanting to stay present with me. 
 
On day 6 when he checked back in, he jokingly said “you know me by now, why don’t you answer these.” and laughed. I said ooooooo can I?  And he let me. I loved it.  We snuggled up together in bed and I’d craft these riveting responses and bait the hook while he reviewed before I hit send. It was thrilling to confirm appointments with him and I imagined him in all the scenarios he had agreed to with other clients. It was one of the most fun times I have had with a provider. 
 
He complained that the level of kindness and attention I was replying with was unsustainable, and I’d be burned out after a week of answering with such care. I lasted two days. On day 7 as we waited in the airport he gave me another shot.  It was exhausting and lost its magic.  There is a lot of energy coming at hot guys all the time. 

Even if it's not planned I still would like to know it's possible if the mood strikes and the chemistry is there

I didn’t ask the first 25 or so escorts that I hired to fuck.  Now I do, but I didn’t for a very long time. 

There are four of us in Suffolk county that look for guys that like generous men. It all happens in the private conversations. Then when we get a bite or have a pleasant experience, we say “explore in this zip code, and look for this profile.”  Tell them coolwave said he had a great time with you and that you may be receptive to generous men. Or with permission, we share an Instagram and approach the guys like that. 
 
I agree that there is no way to find guys receptive to generous men without these bread crumbs.  Desperate horny men are very resourceful. 

Yes. So many men so little time. We would lock 🔐 the front door when the porn stars started the show. During the course of the night we would close all the lights so the dancers could do naked lap dances in the dark. Good times👍

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Ahhhhh, Cupids in West Palm Beach. LOTS of fun there. I recall once that they locked the front door so that a Porn Star, Shane Rollins and his buddy could put on a show on stage. WOW. The location in Miami was scorching HOT. A big, inked Brazilian stud , Eddie, picked me up and carried me to the lap dance room. SO many incredible men.😛

I wish everyone did that Vegas. Yes we are getting fewer and fewer. You know what I have found in all the years I'm doing this. When a place closes those that complain the loudest usually haven't patronize the club. Trust me what I'm saying. Then they wonder why Clubs have let in ladies. Ladies 🍷 drink 🍻. Yes they are annoying but a club can't survive on selling bottles of water and lurkers in the back of a club looking for a free show.🤷‍♂️. I hope Matt and Johnson's makes it. But Tampa is a tough market. You don't have the East Coast I 95 clients. Last weekend I had Axel Rockham and his BF Damien in Philadelphia doing my private party. They worked Johnson's the week of coming to Philadelphia. It was tough for them. But if they wanna work Ft Lauderdale they may have to take a trip to Tampa now and then. 
BTW. Who remembers Cupids Cabaret in West Palm Beach. I co managed with Andrew Cross in 2007-2008. Those were good days😘. 

Just to be honest don’t count on any specific dancer being there.  IN MY OPINION It seems like quite a struggle for dancers to make money there and as a result it is quite a struggle for the owner to keep good talent despite his best efforts.   There have been some high quality guys come through but they don’t stick around.  The club is beautiful, the VIP area is outstanding but he simply hasn’t been able to recruit and keep the number and type of dancers to really get it going.  

If I am in any city with a male strip club, I make it a point to patronize the business if only to keep them open and hopefully stir demand for even more.  There are so few as it is.

Swords, pistols, water balloons; the choice of weapons is yours...

Go for married men. 
 

I used to have a regular fuckbuddy like this ..but it's hard to find gay men who want more than a quick hook up.
You're in a difficult midground between those looking for love and those looking for their next anonymous conquest.
In my experience this is a very small community . I wish you luck.
Definitely not gonna find more than annoymous hookups on  Grindr but some of my  friends claim to do well on Tinder

I remember one time I was ‘using’ a gloryhole (is that the right term?). ‘Using’ as in my cock was through the hole. The guy the other side was doing a fine job. Then he stopped, and I was far from cuming. I think that’s fine because I was keen to try a few different techniques through the hole…so I waited and it wasn’t long before the next guy started.
I knew he was different because the technique was very different. Then he stopped too, although it was only a brief stop. But this time it felt kind of different, less wet, slightly tighter and I suddenly realised he’d backed his ass onto my cock. I pulled out and was really annoyed he should assume I’d want to bareback him. For me that’s a definite etiquette breach. In fact it’s more than that, it’s totally unacceptable. If he wanted that he could have offered his ass up at the hole. That’s why I don’t use gloryholes now, and of course I prefer to see the person I’m having fun with (and of course be seen….by them and by others…if my sexual partner is cool with that!!!)

Yeah you do gotta be careful. When the guy did it on me he went really slow and we used a lot of shaving cream.

Thanks fellas. As always your input is helpful. 

OMG I did that for someone one time (not as a paid gig) and nicked him on the shaft and balls. It was like a scene from a hospital documentary. He wasn’t happy. It’s very different doing someone else to doing your own because you can’t feel when there might be risk of a cut. 

It's fun as well to pay someone to shave it for you down there!

Why would I do that?  I pay him not to care where my scraggly hair grows. 

We had a key lime tree in the backyard where I grew up in Miami. Made key lime pies all the time. This looks delicious.  To eat and to wear…. 😉😂🥧

Anyone here fan of Key Lime Pie?  This is an outstanding recipe. I’ve made it numerous times and have gotten tons of compliments on how good it is. 
https://preppykitchen.com/key-lime-pie/