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I just wanted to say thanks for the tips and for sharing your experiences! I think the menu option seems to be a NZ thing, though of course, being a sparsely populated country, their provider optioms are a bit sparse. I think my gut is telling me to try elsewhere. I may end up going with this other provider despite the even sparser pics, because his sole review seems compelling and the rate is a bit better.

https://rent.men/Noa_American Probably unlikely, but does anyone have any experience with this provider in Auckland, NZ? I’m wondering whether I should risk seeing someone relatively new with no reviews (although he did say he’s relatively experienced in the industry). The only time I’ve seen a provider was a few years ago (who has a few reviews), and unfortunately it wasn’t a good experience for me as he didn’t seem like he was attracted to me (he was soft most of the time and moved to end the session after 30 mins, but that’s another story).

Did JonahWheeler stop providing his services? His profile on Rent since to have been disabled. I was curious about potentially engaging with him. thanks!

Ah dang, looks like that profile has been disabled.

Have you ended up visiting Istanbul or trying yourself? I’m planning a visit sometime next year.

A no repeat from me as well. I’ve described my experience with him in the aforementioned past thread.

I can relate to this as an Asian guy. I don’t think I’m bad looking, but I struggle to pull in dates from Grindr and related apps, whereas my friend who’s white has dates lined up literally every day in a single week, sometimes twice in a single day. (He had just undergone a breakup and was diving headfirst into the dating pool.) My partner who’s also white has more frequent chats with people from Grindr than me. I’ve grown to accept this pecking order in American society and be content with the quality few friends I’ve made through the apps, but it doesn’t mean it doesn’t sting when I see non-Asian friends who have significantly more successes meeting on the apps than I do. It’s also why I’m starting to explore hiring tbh.

He doesn’t seem to have any reviews yet. Does anyone have any experience with him?

I just returned from Oman and the UAE with my husband and we had booked rooms with king sized beds in Western hotel chains. We didn’t have any issues there, but obviously, no PDA.

Is installing another WhatsApp an Android thing? Cos it wouldn’t be possible to do that on an iPhone, if I understand you correctly.

Thanks for the recommendations everyone! MikeAustin seems like my type. I’m terrified of his dick though. 😅 Actually, you’re right! In thinking about this, I realized that it’s actually a narrow girth that would’ve mattered. Perhaps I should rephrase my question. Would anyone know of a provider with a thin dick / narrow girth?

I’ve generally been a top but I’m curious about trying bottoming again. The last time I bottomed a while back was with someone with a small tool, and that was an amazing experience. I know I’m probably not like many other clients, but I’d be interested in hiring a provider in NYC who has a small or below average dick. Does such a provider exist, and if so, could you recommend them? I know those with big dicks are usually more in demand but I would not interested in them. Thanks!

Thanks everyone for taking the time to respond! Four hands doesn’t seem as appealing to me, based on your responses, so I’ll stick with two hands for now. And @Jamie21, that 10 hands session sounds like quite a handful (ha)!

I’m a bit of a newbie and have been seeing the term four hands thrown around a lot. I know that four hands means two masseurs, but I’m wondering why that’s more appealing than just one and what typically happens in a session? Thanks a lot!

Thanks! I think the fantasy in my head was hotter than it actually was. He actually somehow managed to make me feel worse than before the session with him (because he made me feel unattractive). But I’m over it now and I’ll hopefully have a better experience with others in the future. This interest is expensive and I probably won’t be doing it beyond once or twice a year. I’m sorry you had the same experience too. I had heard that someone’s experience with him was rushed, but didn’t think that meant that he gave the impression that he wasn’t into it or the person hiring. I actually liked that he’s a little shorter than me. As long as you’re OK that he might try to end the session as soon as you’re done. I had to speak up and asked if it’s ok we just chat also after I was done in 30 minutes. Seeing that it was my first time hiring, there’s no way I was going to pay $350 for 30 minutes, ha. I didn’t share my experience initially cos I usually don’t like bad-mouthing people and the fact that he might be doing this for a living full-time and his income might be affected. But on the flip side, he does need to improve if he wants to continue getting clients.