EastbayMike

You dodged a bullet. Always trust your gut and stay away from the crazies.

I meet a guy in LA once (I live in the Bay Area) who was cute and the hookup sex was great. He asked for my phone number and address. (This was back in the early days of email and texting, writing that seems so quait now.) I gave him my address but something told me not to give him my phone number so I changed the last digit.

Within three days of my return I had three different letters from him saying he tried to call but the number was wrong. Without time for me to respond, the fourth letter came handwritten in all caps where by he cussed me out for not responding to him, called me a drug addict, insulted my friends and parents for the way I was raised, and said our relationship was over and I was never to contact him again!

So glad I never gave that psycho my real phone number.

I did. Effeminate is a hair too a strong word. Again I actually think that’s a fine thing; it just surprised me in this instance.

Effete: adjective - lacking in wholesome vigor; degenerate; decadent: an effete, overrefined society.

Did you really mean to use "effete"?

I feel like this is a name-change

Maybe he thinks the 7th time will be the charm?

While there are a few dirty bookstores on the peninsula, the Nob Hill Theater in San Francisco is the only gay strip club in the entire 9-county Bay Area. It's a relatively eady walk from the Powell Street BART station. The BART station closest to Burlingame is in Millbrae. Keep in mind BART starts to shut down at midnight.

Burlingame used to be known as Boringame. Most of the peninsula is still a bedroom community for SF on the north and the tech industry on the south. You're best bet is SF.

This is why I like my Apple Watch. I can check it very discreetly during sex.

That's what I look for in my sex partners. Men who can multitask rather than being able to fully engage themselves in a single activity.

And enter the entire name of the city. LA, SF, NYC, and airport codes (really? who started that nonsense?) are all unsearchable.

If I am close to coming, I will come first. If he is close to coming, I will definitely stop and answer the call and then start again getting him close again.

If I was having sex with someone and he left in the middle to answer his phone (especially if I was about to cum) I wouldn't be there when he finished his phone call.

At any time, have you seen this "great friend" outside of his massage studio? Do you two ever hang out together off the clock? It sounds like you need to concentrate on developing relationships with other guys that don't include a financial transaction. I'd stop seeing him.

As Mario Cantone said in Sex and the City: "Ugly sex is hot!"

It's not a public facility. Their wifi, their rules. Happens to me all the time at many, many businesses. Turn off wifi and use cellular, problem solved. I never get bent out of shape by it.

When it comes down to it, rentmen is a site that facilitates illegal activity. You really can't fault Disney for blocking access to it and similar sites. And no, I'm not a prude; I do hire. I also sat on a jury once for a prostitution-related case after telling the judge during jury selection that I thought prostitution should be legal.

Actually yes. This was not from any of these website most of us hire from. This happened from a reputable spa. So I do know where he works. I’ve tested since and still negative in case you’re curious.

Oh, it was reputable. Well I guess that makes all the difference. <sarcasm>

He disclosed first that he’s negative so I mentioned that I’m negative as well. It was a nice hot session but I’m glad he said it first because I was ready to ask. I think ot makes it an even hotter session not having that in the back of your head.

A total stranger told you he was negative and you believed him?

I was out in the back yard all day Sunday. No squirrels this time but the wild turkeys were really loud!

Have you masseurs notced any drop off in clients since all these draconian changes to the sites?

The locals will think you're a rube if you stay at the wharf.

He's very cute but his rate for a massage is too high for me. At that rate I usually go the extra $20/$70 and just hire an escort.

Any info/experience to share?

https://rent.men/XXLMAXXDUTCH

Thanks.

I was gardening in the backyard today. I saw 4 squirrels!

It sounds like you're looking for an escort not a masseur.

WTF?

The use of "that" as an article.

Masseuse!?! You're killing me. :-)

Search Marcos in the deli and the spa. Been discussed before.

Use the search function.