Not to beat a dead horse but has it escaped you that citing MikeBIDude (emphasis on BI) to make your point kinda undermines your very point LMAO. Sorry couldn't resist. Carry on.
Interestingly I've been asked my orientation several times at the men's spa where I go for massage and I think it's because I always got a high score on straightacting.com back when it existed 😂😂😂. I think they were trying to figure out my story. So when I told them I was a gold star gay they were really surprised. Lol
In the USA is it common, yes (a large percent of gay men are on prep). Do they allow the top to breed them? Yes. Do escorts charge extra for both of these actions? In my experience no, but I suppose a few do.
It's my understanding as well. My understanding is that when you schedule or make contact with him you let him know if you want a standard therapeutic massage and that's one price or if you want a sensual nude massage with HE AND that's a different price. I've DM'd with him on IM regarding his posts and responded to the suggestive posts with sensual/erotic emoticons and he has responded in kind so I doubt he's therapeutic only.