starman05

Thx NYCMAN
 
I’m mostly alone and don’t have people to talk to about this stuff
 
I feel better ty

worst case scenario? the guy had a cut on his hand and a fingernail tore at my butt lining or whatever it is and I got infected with HIV.
 
It's unlikely, I know.
 
Again, all I can say is I came of age in the '80s and fears were put into me that have never gone away.

Gheez. So, just as I was fixin to obsess over this, you step in and remind me to be an adult. Is that how you are going to be.

Been to him; he's great, very healing.
 
Legit.
 
YMMV.

Unlikely.
 
Any chlamydia and/or gonorrhea that gets on your finger is going to have
to come in contact with another “mucous membrane” (e.g. asshole, piss slit,
or mouth) in order to infect another person. Most people sticking their fingers
in someone’s ass don’t immediately stick those fingers into one of the above listed
places in another person.....hence the low risk of transmission.
 
Of course...if you’re fifth in line as a fisting bottom in an all night Pigfest...
 
.....your mileage may vary.

I'd be worried about carpal tunnel syndrome.

Been to him; he's great, very healing.
 
Legit.
 
YMMV.

+1, I totally concur.
And you should also thank Guy Fawkes for providing this platform. A good way to express that is to send him a donation, I do.

this message board has saved me so much heartache; thanks to all the posters who share their experiences both good and bad

this message board has saved me so much heartache; thanks to all the posters who share their experiences both good and bad

Bitter? Not at all. You've misunderstood my post. You're more than welcome to hire whomever you want. I was just trying to give you a heads up, as were others. For myself, he tried to scam me, it didn't work, and that was that. My "Good Luck" comment was sincere. It might work out for you. One never knows...

Don't LaBrea and Hauser run parallel?

His ad says “I’ve been caked sexy.” I’m sure he means “called sexy” but being caked sexy sounds fun too.

For $380, the massage better be the best damn massage anyone can offer and it better lead to pound town, otherwise too many good looking guys with better rates to choose from.

Jesus. Just share the necessary info on this thread. Be discreet but clear and if people need more, THEN PM them.

interesting; ty

it's odd; we're living in a world where if you got to a site to check something out, you'll find an ad for it on your FB page; (let's hope THAT doesn't start happening with massage ads!)
 
I've had a past provider reach out to me ever six months or so asking if I want a massage; but I haven't liked him enough to repeat.
 
It's probably best when the contacting is done by the client.

Yup, all that is pictured now is a droopy penis.

I've had multiple friends die of AIDS in the 90s. Now as of then I take the same approach. I don't ask anyone not to have sex or just keep it confined to themselves just so that I can feel better.
 
I treat everyone like they have HIV and it's done me well through out life.

such a tough situation.
 
I knew a guy who fell for his massage therapist; I implored him to keep it professional and my friend would actually do that, but the more he did the therapist kept clouding things, giving my friend, as Debbie on Queer as Folk said about Brian and Michael, 'extra little tidbits of your affection - just enough so that he'll think maybe someday...'
 
It's a cruel thing to do to another person.

well, this sucks; your blog was a big help in informing folks who's a solid provider and who's to be avoided!
 
good luck getting it on another site/platform

well, this sucks; your blog was a big help in informing folks who's a solid provider and who's to be avoided!
 
good luck getting it on another site/platform

one guy I was looking to try moved away; any recommendations on big guys (6'2" or taller; 210 lbs. or more) who give a great head to toe massage?

You have to walk away and not see the person; don't think that you can still see them if the crush is developing and you can control it. You can't. You can't control your feelings, but you can control if you reach out to see the person.
 
I wish I had the answer, but I think it just takes time for crushes to go away. It's not easy, that's for sure.

such a tough situation.
 
I knew a guy who fell for his massage therapist; I implored him to keep it professional and my friend would actually do that, but the more he did the therapist kept clouding things, giving my friend, as Debbie on Queer as Folk said about Brian and Michael, 'extra little tidbits of your affection - just enough so that he'll think maybe someday...'
 
It's a cruel thing to do to another person.