starman05

geez; the football hunk you wish your college paired you with as a roommate. 
 
 

Im sure he’ll rush to provide you with more info after that boorish response. You contribute nothing to this board by being so combative. Your other posts harbor this same tone as well. Not a good look.
And no, I won’t just scroll past or mute you. It’s your job to be a better person, not mine to overlook your general rudeness. Have a nice day.

Except the private pics don't add up to the main photo 📸 
Unless they were taken a number of years apart and he got a nose job. 

I though the same thing, that at that height and weight, he would have a much more massive chest and legs.  Nice body but for me, should be beefier with those stats.  

Thank god for this site. I need to mail in a cash donation 

I'm leaning more towards that direction myself these days. This guy wasn't on my list but there are others I'm just saying no to. 
Better to take the money and work out with a private trainer. It's company and my body's in better shape at the end. I get so effing lonely at times but being with someone and having a shitty experience makes it worse. I don't mean to single this guy out; he's probably just fine. 
 

I get a little suspicious when there's not even a hint of being a real, trained therapist -- no table in pix.
It falls under the too good to be true...
I've got a milestone b'day coming up; would love to treat myself to a BF experience but it's sooooo awful when you get your hopes up and they're dashed and crushed. 
 
 
 

...Which is kind of ironic. 

Well, per the single review, Meryl Streep paid the $275 for 70 minutes!

I have had both types of surprises. As good intuition as I have, as intelligent and independednt-minded that I am, sometimes I am just wrong. The times when I have been pleasantly surprised is when the masseur doesn't look like "my type", and the times when I have been unpleasasntly "surprised" was exactly what you describe, not trusting my own guts or ignoring the signs of the possibility of an dissappointing/unpleasant experience.
I can only speak for myself, so in my case I blame it to haveing "a type", emaning that when I look at a provider that looks right to me, I tent to want to believe that the experience will be perfect, and sometimes it hasn't been.

"even when it's not" -- that's a great way to put it! I feel the same way. 
 

My gut is always right….. even when it’s not.
Trust your gut.

There are enough sexual predators out here who provide such a service for free….. 

It's the price that is the rape.

The “gut” is usually right. 
it’s when we think with our dicks that we wind up saying….. 
“I knew better.” 

2k for a rape fantasy? 
Hard (no pun intended) PASS. 

I'm mulling over trying out two new masseurs. While one of them has good reviews (and the others none at all), I've read comments that are telling me to think with my big head, not my little one. 
I can easily lie to myself and ignore the signs to stay away from them, or try them out and live and learn, or try them out and be happily surprised. 
Has anyone ever tried someone they "shouldn't" have and been happily surprised? 

Reviews on RM and MF tend to be useless garbage. Yeah, there are some honest ones but fake ones prevail IMHO.
Reasons to be extra careful: (1) too many rave reviews obviously written by the same person, especially if the profile is recent and (2) profiles that have been around for a long time and have no reviews.
As far as new profiles, they could be a better bet if they are genuinely new, but there's always the risk of them really being old, just under a new name, and these are toxic. It's always a good idea to ask this forum whether someone recognizes them, but you may not be alerted on time.
Also, avoiding new guys who charge a lot, especially if their pix reveal modeling aspirations, is a good idea. These are the most important "use your big head" situations. 😅

Great question. I have seen a few guys who were new or not reviewed often on here or RM and had very pleasant reactions. They were guys who are just getting started or coming in and out. On the other hand I also had one very bad experience. So I don’t know how helpful this is - but a little bit of both and always take standard precautions especially with first time meets. 

I'm mulling over trying out two new masseurs. While one of them has good reviews (and the others none at all), I've read comments that are telling me to think with my big head, not my little one. 
I can easily lie to myself and ignore the signs to stay away from them, or try them out and live and learn, or try them out and be happily surprised. 
Has anyone ever tried someone they "shouldn't" have and been happily surprised? 

Trust your instincts. If something doesn't feel right, it's best to walk away.

Reading the reviews his pricing is way up there, 800 -2000 for an hour?  Think I can pass.

I mean...sure, it might 'sound' hot. That feeling when you are totally submissive to someone who's going to ravage you and make you feel 90% safe and 10% scared at the same exact moment. I can't describe it, but I was lucky to have it once or twice in my life. It's mind-blowing. 
Then again...it could go south in a bad way really fast and you feel 100% scared and you shut down, thinking what do I need to do to survive and then later you think oh, yeah. I have to pay this guy for hurting me. 
You'd have no one to blame but yourself if things got out of hand given the provider's title. 
I've asked guys at times if they know their own strength; some understand the question, some don't. 

He’s prepping for the future after he has a change in space and can set up a proper massage area. He’s outcall only right now.

I've always been in some sort of sales business, and if I'm having an off-day, I don't schedule client-facing appointments. Of course, if I had the option of collecting my commission up front perhaps I'd keep the appointment! That shiny penny has lost its shine.