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Wait, how do we know his statement about working Hawaii is false. Oaktown, did you see him? thanks

WOW.

you're right EastbayMike; thanks. I was thinking with the wrong head.

anyone have any encounters/experience? thanks! https://rentmasseur.com/AWolfman

this site is extremely helpful in making sure others don't waste time and money; thanks for sharing your experiences. Ultimately, YMMV, however, sometimes I'm on the fence and posts like these help save me some time and money. TY.

he leaves tomorrow, but does anyone have any experience/intel? TIA https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/31207/

thanks guys; I've always wanted to try Ben. thx for recommendation.

I've had a recent death in the family and I'm looking for some TLC. Who's out there who's compassionate? TIA !

Anyone have any experiences? TIA! https://rentmasseur.com/PersianArab

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/big-mark-los-angeles.138669/#post-1548790

he looks like a young Billy Abbott (Miller)

almighty....some of us OPT for massage because it's supposed to be safer and uncomplicated. it's terrible that these things happen.

my quote might not have been clear -- I was on my back on the table (at full mast) and HE rode me; slid on so fast I didn't know what was happening until he was ...I guess until I was in him, but I immediately told him to get off and he did. I know it was 'less' risky for me, but I still didn't want it.

Marylander, I KNOW; I freaked out; the whole thing must have lasted mere seconds, but I couldn't believe he was being so careless; he didn't know my history and I could only guess his. They say it's less risky for the 'top' (though I didn't feel in charge) I couldn't get the guy off me fast enough. (Yeah, it wasn't a friend; it was me).

RainyDay, this sounds horrific for you; I"m sorry you went through it. Did the therapist wear a condom at least? A similar thing happened to, I'm going to say, 'a friend of mine' -- when on his back, the therapist hopped up on the table and sat on my friend's condom-less erect dick. "Get OFF; that's not safe!" He got off immediately. This was back in the late 90s or early 2000s and my friend is still healthy so nothing happened, but it was an unnerving experience. Sometimes all somebody wants is a massage and a HE; not full out sex. Can you say whether or not this was in Los Angeles?

from his ad: "I work on table, I provide 69/90/120 min sessions..." typo, or....?

Candle Spa for Andy

Thx NYCMAN I’m mostly alone and don’t have people to talk to about this stuff I feel better ty

worst case scenario? the guy had a cut on his hand and a fingernail tore at my butt lining or whatever it is and I got infected with HIV. It's unlikely, I know. Again, all I can say is I came of age in the '80s and fears were put into me that have never gone away.

Been to him; he's great, very healing. Legit. YMMV.

Well, these responses have been both informative (thanks FTM Zachary) and humorous. Thanks everyone. This was a massage that got really erotic and was most likely safe; I came of age in the '80s and gay meant AIDS and AIDS meant death. I saw a lot of acquaintances die. It was horrific and affected me in ways I don't even know. I suppose this is progress, though. I used to think that the most causal of encounters would lead to AIDS. It was foolish of me. I've always been of the mindset that if you avoid any potentially unsafe contact then you'll be okay. Ultimately, time will tell, I suppose.

Thanks, guys especially Kris

I’m, umm, asking for a friend

this message board has saved me so much heartache; thanks to all the posters who share their experiences both good and bad

anyone with recent experiences? TIA