this is tough; the temptation to be go and see him often is real. Think about pulling back when you start draining your 401K. Seriously, try to keep it all in perspective. It's tough emotionally and financially. I hear tell.
I don't get out much, but a few times guys have wanted me to fuck them or wanted to fuck me and the second I say 'how about a condom?' they've gotten this totally confused look on their faces -- as if I've shown for a New Year's Eve party on Thanksgiving Day.
In town for Comic Con. Anyone know of any good massage therapists near Convention Center/Downtown? Ubering and Lyfting so trying to keep it nearby.
Thanks!
In town for Comic Con. Anyone know of any good massage therapists near Convention Center/Downtown? Ubering and Lyfting so trying to keep it nearby.
Thanks!
all good, BostonTom, I tend to overcompensate re: being understanding as we're on the web and we don't all know each other.
Also: meant to type hope I 'wasn't' coming off as unsupportive...
be well, OP.
hey BostonTom, hope I was coming off as unsupportive to OP; just trying to share how easily things can get out of hand.
Again, I came of age in the era of AIDS and it changed how I lived my life. While there's treatment there's still no cure. I think everyone needs to be just as cautious as ever. Going for massages was a way of feeling SOME kind of intimacy (and bonus when you got a great massage).
Everyone be careful out there and trust your gut.
These recollections are scary. It's making me recall the 80s. I came of age back then and just as I'm realizing 'well, I like guys' this thing called GRID (what AIDS used to be called) was being reported on.
Keeping good thoughts for you OP.