starman05

yikes; I almost saw him when he was in LA, I think. I don't get these scammers; they're hoping to make a career out of seeing so many different people once and developing a bad rep instead of, gee, I don't know, going to massage school and building a clientele that would tip well. Nice abs in the pool pic.

I meant to write he's playing 'masculine jock bro' not 'straight' but a lot of straight guys are masculine jock bros- it's interesting b/c he plays to his gay audience but says he's str8. He must be making a fortune. I don't believe all gay guys are effeminate but I believe most effeminate guys are gay. Except, Lyle, the effeminate heterosexual.

that Zacattack Zach Beech? kid - who has a KILLER smile. He is either straight or is a brilliant actor 'cuz he acts straight and sweet and almost innocent. There was this escort I knew...he was putting himself through school and he's since completed his education so he's gone but I swear it was like hanging out with the star quarterback, a Navy SEAL, and your best friend's big brother all rolled into one demi-god. He GOT me. I'd pay anything to see him again. Alas...he's gone.

I'd be a little more tempted if there was a picture of him with a massage table ... that said, he's pretty gorgeous.

His ad has other services ‘assisted shower, body scrub’ that sounds more intimate than a massage!

I used to have a trainer and occasionally, he'd have to take a call because he was also managing the gym he was training me in; he'd take his free hand and put it on my shoulder while he was taking the call, as if to reassure me and say, 'I'm still here.' Later, he went all cray cray on me but I felt, well, at least you're letting me know you're still here.

I've been unable to reconnect with David; I saw him several times years ago; incredibly strong and I am a wimp but it didn't hurt. he's a man of few words. Interesting comments; this is like watching an episode of The Bachelor. "Do you accept this HE?"

I see Zac all the time on social; what he should really sell on OF is that killer smile of his.

If he’s that good, then try releasing before you go 🤷🏼‍♂️

Thank u! I have it in my head that this is going to be great but it’s important to go in prepared and be clear. Thank u!!!

okay. First, I want to thank everybody for their input. I communicated with a guy with great reviews and I also got some private feedback. It appears to be aces all around and he's said we can call it at an hour if I'm not feeling it. I thanked him for keeping additional time open after an hour (which is considerate of him.) I'm getting a good vibe. Does anyone have additional input on what I can do to prepare and/or what to expect? I realize every encounter is different. I'm not into being penetrated anally. Other than that, I'm wide open (no pun intended.) TIA.

I'd be screaming 'daddy please don't hurt me' pretty quickly.

All great continued input; thanks to everyone. The provider told me we can play by ear. He has time budgeted to extend if I'm into him. Frankly, this instills me with some confidence. He doesn't seem strict or demanding. I'd be far more concerned if he insisted on scheduling a certain amount of time in advance. It tells me he's not trying to just take advantage of me. Fingers crossed!

6'4" and 200 and he can split like that? impressive.

This is all very helpful and greatly appreciated. I agree with most of what's been said. An hour for a massage is enough. However, I am looking to have a BFE -- after covid (which isn't even over), the deaths of family and friends (due to covid and other horrible ends), and the full realization that life is short and you just never know when it's going to end. I'm going to ask the provider about two hours; that way I won't feel rushed when I arrive; we can hopefully establish a connection. I've heard nothing but great things about him; our interactions by text are polite and professional; he's over 30. (That is so important.) If it turns out to be a bust, it's nothing that I can't get back someday. Thank you all, good people.

I think it's smarter, generally, to have first-time meetings with providers be an hour; if it doesn't go well, then you're out as little as possible However, I've been communicating with this one guy and all the texts have been great and feedback and reviews are all aces. When you're having fun, seconds fly by like minutes... Thoughts on initial meetings being 2 hours, anyone?

In Todays crazy world sweetness is better than a HE. well, no but yes you know what I mean!

Thanks. My massage budget has to be used more sparingly these days; it's not 'just' the money, it's the heartache later of having an unfulfilling experience. He does check a lot of boxes. But that can get me in trouble.

hey MikeyT, what about his personality turns you off? He's back in LA this weekend I believe; was thinking about it. He's certainly got the body and well, the hair. But does he have massage skills?

when I was a young 'un back in the 1990s (afraid of having sex due to AIDS crisis yet desperate for human touch, contact) I'd peruse the massage ads in Frontiers (remember that publication?) I remember finding quite a few qualified therapists; there'd be a connection with some more than others but I could almost always count on a trained therapist. Nowadays, LA seems to be pretty sparse in terms of talented therapists. H/E etc. aren't really necessary if the tension in my muscles are worked on.

once again, this site has saved me heartache, money, and, in this case, gas. did a deeper dig and this came up on guy in pic above: "Troy and Marco were pics from the same masseur profiles on Massage M4M and turned out to be a total misrepresentation of who he is. He’s at least 50 lbs heavier and older. The Ed Hardy shirt is a dead giveaway that he’s using an old photo too. But I would skip."

geez. I'm in LA so he's almost 40 miles away; I'm tempted to take one from the team but I might end up driving down there and just asking him to watch Netflix with me and if I can rest my head on that chest #dreamy

well, I see his ad is back or maybe it's been around and is just popping up for me. It's mostly good reviews here but the few negative ones have me cautious. It's not just the money but shelling out some bucks for an unsatisfying experience is just the worst.

I'll take massage skills over looks any day; but I have found that someone using outdated pix generally has little to no massage training skills. They're using the old more attractive pix as the draw -- not their skills.

anyone have any experiences with this hottie you can share? TIA! Male Massage by Julian - massage/bodywork in New York, NY - masseurfinder WWW.MASSEURFINDER.COM