Reputation from CD_garc - The Company of Men

CD_garc reacted to relax man in Suggestions for Vegas Yesterday at 08:44 AM

Yes, Jay is by far my favorite in Las Vegas.

CD_garc reacted to relax man in Suggestions for Vegas Yesterday at 08:44 AM

Jay https://rentmasseur.com/JayMassageSpa

CD_garc reacted to Nightowl in Massage on table, bed or floor? May 28

Massage on a table, fun on a bed.

CD_garc reacted to + Jamie21 in Massage on table, bed or floor? May 28

I offer massage on the table or on a futon (floor) at my in call studio. It’s possible to do proper massage on the floor; some of the techniques are same as on a table but some are different and only possible when done on the floor. I think the floor massage can be very intimate with lots of close body contact. I always massage naked and welcome reciprocal touch so it can be quite intense too.
If it’s an outcall I take my table because it’s much better than using the bed. However some hotels don’t have the space for the table or the client is happy that we use the bed, and it’s more of an escort type session.

CD_garc reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in Dallas - Ft Worth Mature May 9

Dann is the best in Dallas!
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/37362/

CD_garc reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in Older Providers? February 2

Dann in Dallas
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/37362/
He only advertises for massage, but he is one of the sexiest providers I have ever met.

CD_garc reacted to liubit in Long bottoming session January 19

Very hot experience, thanks for sharing and making us horny, @uclablueyes 👏👏👏 A word of caution, though: you say that you took Viagra and used poppers. Be very careful in the future, because that combination can be fatal according to everything I’ve read. Cheers!

CD_garc reacted to pubic_assistance in Are subsequent sessions different? January 18

Even after thousands of sexual encounters I still prefer to let things flow organically on a first meet. Once we've hung-out (and had each other's dick in our mouth), there is an innate camaraderie that follows. This afterglow moment is when its easier to discuss sexual interests/fantasies and preferences. Setting up the potential for a more customized encounter next time.

CD_garc reacted to Mark_fl in Are subsequent sessions different? January 18

I hope they'll be different. My first session with someone was really my first male interaction as an adult. Next time I will know more of what I want, and not be as cautious about asking for it. I expect it to be a much busier and fulfilling experience.
Hopefully next month.

CD_garc reacted to pubic_assistance in Are subsequent sessions different? January 18

MY own personal way of hiring generally leads to a better and more interesting session each time.
I generally hire for an erotic massage session, (whether the provider is a masseur or an escort).
On the first meet, I let them do their thing and worry NOT about what I am going to end up getting. It won't be my last massage before I die (at least I hope not ! ) so doesn't matter if it's all bells and whistles at the end. If I DO genuinely like a person's natural repertoire, I will request another session, and possibly request something more than what was included. So booking # 2 is "better" because it's more customized. I always tip well to show my appreciation. At booking session #3 I find that most providers are eager to please a now, potential regular, so will often UP the fun themselves. Sessions #4 and 5 will therefore often ascend into full-on sex ( with appropriate substantial tipping to equal escort fees). After we have moved to fucking and sucking, the dialogue is way open to wants and desires ( from both parties ) so I find that if all this develops in this natural progression, you end up with a very nice friendly fuck regular. I would have kept all these guys around for decades, but for the fact that I prefer young men and these sorts of fellows aren't nailed down and often move on to other destinations or other opportunities in life.

CD_garc reacted to Frog in Are subsequent sessions different? January 18

Speaking as a regular client of one particular provider over the past 8 years or so, all I can say is that (for me, at least) it just gets better & better. In some ways spoiled for any other meet ups (although I have tried), sadly, they just don't cut it. My guy's a keeper and I'll keep seeing him for as long as I can. Under no illusions about the nature of our relationship, but for those hours that we're together, nothing comes close. Count myself very fortunate to have stumbled into his bed all those years ago.

CD_garc reacted to + JamesB in Professional photos? January 18

To be honest, I tend to pay more attention to selfies than to professional photos. In my experience, they’re usually closer to what someone actually looks like and are often more up to date than polished shots. That said, I don’t see anything wrong with having both types of photos in a profile.

CD_garc reacted to mikefl81 in Professional photos? January 18

I think a mix of professional pics and regular selfies are fine. Personally, I prefer selfies because they’ll show your regular, every day look and closely resemble how you’ll actually look when you meet a client, versus professional pics that might be touched up, better lighting, etc.

CD_garc reacted to Mark_fl in Professional photos? January 18

Nothing wrong with them, but not a value add for me. Just a few natural pics, smiling, shirtless, natural and a humble attitude in the text is all I need to see.

CD_garc reacted to Muscleking in Anybody else fall for the men they hire? January 18

You’re not the only one mate, I’ve been going to the same masseur for 4 years and even though I’m married and can never actually have anything with this guy, a part of me has this fantasy that I’m the kind of guy he would actually go for in real life even though I know I’m far from that. But for me our time even though it’s only a massage is something I look forward to every time I hire him, it’s a break from my real life I suppose. And even though In the moment with him it all feels so real I know that as soon as I leave his place it’s all over and he becomes just a figure in my mind.. I don’t think anything is wrong with having the fantasy but I often remind myself that it’s not real so I stay in reality and not get to attached.

CD_garc reacted to + nycman in Anybody else fall for the men they hire? January 18

We’ve all done it to one degree or another. Don’t beat yourself up about it, but do learn from your mistakes.
Feelings are ok. Losing grip on reality is not. It’s a fantasy. Nothing more, nothing less.
You have always been and will always be wrong when you think "a mutual thing" is developing.
This really shouldn’t be a newsflash for you. Still, don’t let it ruin your fun. Learn to enjoy the fantasy.
What rooms? Where? Are you stalking him?
I hope I’m misreading this statement because it sounds creepy and unhealthy as fuck.

You need to remember that this is a "hobby". It’s not real life. Don’t let your heart get involved. If you start developing real feelings for a provider, I suggest you disclose that to them immediately. Then stop seeing them. He may be fond of you. He may even "like" you. But in the words of Avenue Q, he doesn’t "like you, like you, like you like him". I know it hurts, and yes most if not all of us have had to go through the difficult phase you’re going through right now. The good news is, if you can learn to navigate it and stay in control of your emotions, this hobby can be damn fun. Like REAL fun. But if you need or want love, look somewhere else. You’re fishing in the wrong pond.

CD_garc reacted to + Rgsnva in Anybody else fall for the men they hire? January 18

Just wondering if anybody else does this dumb thing or if it’s just me. I only started hiring about 3 years ago, but I can see a pattern. (Okay, only twice, but still…). When I hire a man repeatedly because there’s great intimacy (at least from my perspective, I start to lose my grip on the reality and develop feelings. I misread cues and think there’s a mutual thing developing. Then the reality has to hit home that I’m not a romantic interest or even a hookup interest and I wouldn’t be there if I wasn’t paying. The man I currently see regularly - he pushes all my buttons physically and emotionally, and I could fall head over heels for him. But I see him in rooms with guys who are hookups, not clients, and he talks about trips in which he meets someone in a room, they chat and are hot for each other, and travel to meet. And it has to hit me then that I’m not one of those guys he met because he was attracted to them. Big blow on both my ego and my heart. Anybody else? Thoughts? Suggestions? And you don’t need to tell me it’s all my own fault - I already own that.

CD_garc reacted to dutchal in 411 SouthernStudTop January 17

Yeah, for all you bottoms, they say he's handsome, looks better than his pics, and is a great kisser.

CD_garc reacted to + Jamie21 in Do masseurs text about regular customers? January 17

Only about time wasters and troublemakers. It’s based on the phone number. There’s no site where we rate and comment on clients or bitch about them. That’s kind of pointless. I discuss a few mutual clients with other masseurs who I’m friends with but that’s just work talk.