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Dann in Dallas
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/37362/
He only advertises for massage, but he is one of the sexiest providers I have ever met.

Very hot experience, thanks for sharing and making us horny, @uclablueyes 👏👏👏 A word of caution, though: you say that you took Viagra and used poppers. Be very careful in the future, because that combination can be fatal according to everything I’ve read. Cheers!

Even after thousands of sexual encounters I still prefer to let things flow organically on a first meet. Once we've hung-out (and had each other's dick in our mouth), there is an innate camaraderie that follows. This afterglow moment is when its easier to discuss sexual interests/fantasies and preferences. Setting up the potential for a more customized encounter next time.

I hope they'll be different. My first session with someone was really my first male interaction as an adult. Next time I will know more of what I want, and not be as cautious about asking for it. I expect it to be a much busier and fulfilling experience.
Hopefully next month.

MY own personal way of hiring generally leads to a better and more interesting session each time.
I generally hire for an erotic massage session, (whether the provider is a masseur or an escort). 
On the first meet, I let them do their thing and worry NOT about what I am going to end up getting. It won't be my last massage before I die (at least I hope not ! ) so doesn't matter if it's all bells and whistles at the end. If I DO genuinely like a person's natural repertoire, I will request another session, and possibly request something more than what was included. So booking # 2 is "better" because it's more customized. I always tip well to show my appreciation. At booking session #3 I find that most providers are eager to please a now, potential regular, so will often UP the fun themselves. Sessions #4 and 5 will therefore often ascend into full-on sex ( with appropriate substantial tipping to equal escort fees). After we have moved to fucking and sucking, the dialogue is way open to wants and desires ( from both parties ) so I find that if all this develops in this natural progression, you end up with a very nice friendly fuck regular.  I would have kept all these guys around for decades, but for the fact that I prefer young men and these sorts of fellows aren't nailed down and often move on to other destinations or other opportunities in life.

Speaking as a regular client of one particular provider over the past 8 years or so, all I can say is that (for me, at least) it just gets better & better.  In some ways spoiled for any other meet ups (although I have tried), sadly, they just don't cut it. My guy's a keeper and I'll keep seeing him for as long as I can. Under no illusions about the nature of our relationship, but for those hours that we're together, nothing comes close.  Count myself very fortunate to have stumbled into his bed all those years ago.

To be honest, I tend to pay more attention to selfies than to professional photos. In my experience, they’re usually closer to what someone actually looks like and are often more up to date than polished shots. That said, I don’t see anything wrong with having both types of photos in a profile.

I think a mix of professional pics and regular selfies are fine. Personally, I prefer selfies because they’ll show your regular, every day look and closely resemble how you’ll actually look when you meet a client, versus professional pics that might be touched up, better lighting, etc.  

Nothing wrong with them, but not a value add for me. Just a few natural pics, smiling, shirtless, natural and a humble attitude in the text is all I need to see.

You’re not the only one mate, I’ve been going to the same masseur for 4 years and even though I’m married and can never actually have anything with this guy, a part of me has this fantasy that I’m the kind of guy he would actually go for in real life even though I know I’m far from that. But for me our time even though it’s only a massage is something I look forward to every time I hire him, it’s a break from my real life I suppose. And even though In the moment with him it all feels so real I know that as soon as I leave his place it’s all over and he becomes just a figure in my mind.. I don’t think anything is wrong with having the fantasy but I often remind myself that it’s not real so I stay in reality and not get to attached. 

We’ve all done it to one degree or another. Don’t beat yourself up about it, but do learn from your mistakes.
Feelings are ok. Losing grip on reality is not. It’s a fantasy. Nothing more, nothing less.
You have always been and will always be wrong when you think "a mutual thing" is developing. 
This really shouldn’t be a newsflash for you. Still, don’t let it ruin your fun. Learn to enjoy the fantasy.
What rooms? Where? Are you stalking him?
I hope I’m misreading this statement because it sounds creepy and unhealthy as fuck. 

 
You need to remember that this is a "hobby". It’s not real life. Don’t let your heart get involved. If you start developing real feelings for a provider, I suggest you disclose that to them immediately. Then stop seeing them. He may be fond of you. He may even "like" you. But in the words of Avenue Q, he doesn’t "like you, like you, like you like him". I know it hurts, and yes most if not all of us have had to go through the difficult phase you’re going through right now. The good news is, if you can learn to navigate it and stay in control of your emotions, this hobby can be damn fun. Like REAL fun. But if you need or want love, look somewhere else. You’re fishing in the wrong pond. 

Just wondering if anybody else does this dumb thing or if it’s just me.  I only started hiring about 3 years ago, but I can see a pattern. (Okay, only twice, but still…). When I hire a man repeatedly because there’s great intimacy (at least from my perspective, I start to lose my grip on the reality and develop feelings.  I misread cues and think there’s a mutual thing developing.  Then the reality has to hit home that I’m not a romantic interest or even a hookup interest and I wouldn’t be there if I wasn’t paying. The man I currently see regularly - he pushes all my buttons physically and emotionally, and I could fall head over heels for him.  But I see him in rooms with guys who are hookups, not clients, and he talks about trips in which he meets someone in a room, they chat and are hot for each other, and travel to meet.  And it has to hit me then that I’m not one of those guys he met because he was attracted to them.  Big blow on both my ego and my heart.  Anybody else? Thoughts? Suggestions? And you don’t need to tell me it’s all my own fault - I already own that.  

Yeah, for all you bottoms, they say he's handsome, looks better than his pics, and is a great kisser.

Only about time wasters and troublemakers. It’s based on the phone number. There’s no site where we rate and  comment on clients or bitch about them. That’s kind of pointless. I discuss a few mutual clients with other masseurs who I’m friends with but that’s just work talk. 

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Rimming a hot hole is pure bliss. I literally go into a trance especially if I do a big hit of poppers and am under my rim seat. Proud to say I've got a great reputation in NYC for my tongue skills and have several built hot dudes w fine muscular athletic asses who come over regularly. When they moan and make noise and push their hole deeper in my mouth I nearly shoot without touching my cock. I love making them do that so the cum drips down their balls into my mouth. Nothing hotter. Here's my go rimming video..it's only 2.5 minutes but play it on loop and blow a big one. https://xhamster.com/videos/how-to-properly-rim-a-guys-ass-14705461

Yes, book in advance. I’ve someone booked for next May! That’s extreme. If you leave it to ‘hey are you available today?’ I probably reply with ‘sorry I’m busy’ because I plan things ahead. I’ll probably have someone booked, or another commitment. Last minute rarely works. Last minute clients are usually flaky anyway; they haven’t mentally committed to it, it’s a whim. ‘Hey, free now / next hour or so’ is a big red flag. 

Reporting from Spain. What a treat! 
We met yesterday morning at 10am (I know it feels early but my provider told me it works to keep stamina going as you are fresh) and we finished past 10pm when everybody went home. 
Thank you all for your advice! I followed all the tips and it worked like a charm. 
It was a very intense yet amazing experience and I’m still thinking about it. Once the session was over I ate something as I hadn’t eating in two days (only liquid diet with protein), took a shower and went to bed and slept like a baby for 9 hours straight. I was beat. Walking up now in Madrid and my hole is still pulsating from yesterday’s marathon but so proud of him because he did work out like a good boy. 
The guys arrived at 10am and all looking great. My provider was not lying. They are all friends and have a great rapport. We started getting naked and moving into the bedroom. I booked an Airbnb with a Cal King bed. They are not normal in Spain so I looked and looked until I found a place that worked for the five of us. We started making out with my provider being the ring leader (he told me he will take charge for a great experience). 
My provider knows that I love rimming so he instructed the guys to all go on their fours on the bed so I had a view of all their asses and I could go around rimming each of them. The guys were all in the bed making out with each other as I was eating one ass after another. I took some poppers and a viagra (so I didn’t lose my erection) and I went to town. Then a couple of them moved and starting sucking each other and the others turned around and put their legs up in the air so I could rim them and suck them at the same time. They grabbed me and started sucking me while I had a guy seating on my face. Then I noticed they raised my legs and started rimming me. It’s amazing to be rimmed while rimming someone else. My provider instructed the guys to take turns so I had one rimming me, one sucking me and one of them sitting on my face so I could rim him. And then they keep switching. They keep putting their fingers inside of me and opening me up. They gave me some poppers and I could send my ass opening up as I was in heaven with the attention. Then my main provider put a pillow under my back and the guys started lining up and the fuckfest begun. One after another starting giving me their dicks while my main provider fed me some poppers and his own dick. I used the pig snout for poppers and no spills which was great. One after the other they kept drilling my hole and I loved it. Then after don’t know how long they turned me around with my legs spread over the bed, my dick hanging out and my ass propped up. And one after the other gave fucking me as I was stroking my dick. I was a dog in heat. I don’t know why but the moment one of them took their dick out my ass was pulsating asking for more. I didn’t want them to stop. My dick was hard from the viagra and my main provider asked if I wanted to do some train fucking. We moved around and I buried my cock in my main provider’s ass while I had one of the guys fucking me from behind. I asked the others if they wanted to join and they agreed and we did a five man train fuck. The room had a large mirror so seeing the reflection of the train fuck was amazing. I don’t know what time it was but time was going fast. We had some sodas and protein bars and continued as my main provider was so kind not to let the party die down. We tried so many posturers. I went on the top of the bed grabbing to the bed frame with guy after guy drilling me from behind. The guys stood on the bed one next to each other and I went sitting in one guy to the next to the next. At one point my body was on the floor with my back against the side of the bed, my legs up in the air open wide and the guys entering from above. The more cock I got the more I wanted. It was pretty intense. I loved when they took turns fucking me on my fours while I was eating a guy’s ass. And then they kept taking turns so another guy to rim and another fucking me. By the time it was the last hour I was in bliss and it was time for release (they had been holding really well - one came at one point but recovered shortly after but the others are pros at regulating) so they put me once again with my legs spread on my fours with my cock hanging and my ass propped up and one after the other went to town in my ass until they came. I had all loads in me and they kept fucking me. They tuned me around and they all started sucking me and stroking me and fingering me until I blew a huge load. Fuck. That was insane. The guys showered, we chatted for a bit and they all left and I was left all spent and happy in bed. I went took a shower, left my children out (haha), ate something and onto bed. I just woken up and I won’t lie if I’m not a bit tired or sore but all pretty good and the memories will last a long time. Thank you all for your advice and for your help prepping for this session. I know it was a splurge but Spain is the place to do it as in the US that would have cost me 3 times as much. But it was pretty amazing. 

I’ll report back. Pretty excited! Thanks everybody for the advice! 

Fisters use imodium to avoid accidents - a first dose about 8 hours before play, a second dose about 3 hours before play.  And I would think about a thorough high-clean out with a hose, the way fisters do it.