Aamir

Thank you for the post @nate_sf.  I think two men paying for a provider is a really hot prospect. Not a couple, just two clients who normality hire collaborating on a provider. Hiring can often be lonely and isolating. No one to talk to about the experience. How much better to enjoy the time with another client. Looking forward to hiring you with another client soon Nate since I'm in SF too. And we promise to not make it twice the work. Hopefully it will be twice the fun for you. Again,  i really appreciate the insight.  And DM me if you know if more SF providers who are like you. 

I will be 70 in October, and with seeking playmates,  I really dont put an age on it.  Whomever I have some connection with is the guy for me.  My longtime partner was 10 years younger, and we had 22 wonderful years together.  And he NEVER called me Daddy  (I hate that)  
No matter how much you moisturize and take care of yourself, nature has other plans for you, and at some point you will look in your mirror and looking back will be sags and wrinkles, gray hair and age spots..  For guys consumed with Vanity, this will be a difficult reality check, and the impotus to stay young will come from seeking out "young guys"...   Bad approach....you'll NEVER be young again.
Stay active, stay visible, and surround yourself with people that make you feel good and understand you.  Leave your options and mind open and your expectations neutral.
Embrace who you are now, avoid "labels", and just DO YOU........