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You've all seen 'em -- providers who offer a video, swinging their hips back and forth and thus making their semi-erect cock swing back and forth like a sophomore in the locker room. Sincere question: is this a turn-on? Encourage you to look more, or maybe engage? (Not at all to me -- seems silly and not what I'm looking for in a provider, but I'm just one data point.)

No problem at all. Some, puzzlingly, take issue with others' preferences, but they're not spending their money, time, or pleasure. Ask their cat its opinion. Or, rather -- go fuck women. Because your sexual desire is determined by a stranger's baseless philosophy, so, make it easy. 🤷‍♂

It's neither a mystery nor complicated. There are scientific studies which depend on a set standard, and literally thousands of pages online that explain and demonstrate. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size

Will report back next week. Had to reschedule from tomorrow.

Indeed. And AI search engines reveal the dimensions of whichever household product is used to compare ("What are the dimensions of a 170g can of Arrid deodorant?" ~5.5"). Of course, a tape measure is the most obvious -- if they don't use one, presume size and claim are unequal, but you may be nicely surprised. Assume they're showing it to its best advantage, but remember we're not always at our very best. (Ignore those criticizing your interest. Providers post pics, and RM includes a filter, because legions of men (probably the vast majority) are interested. It's perfectly normal, and very common. Providers exaggerate because it's so common, just like real-life bottom-vers claim to be top on profiles -- it's what the market demands.) You know what your own hard cock looks like in your own hand. It's a rough guide: if provider's hands don't close around his girth, or his cock barely peeks out the closed fist, you have an idea that he's super girthy or pretty short. Beware dick pics taken from below -- favored because it looks bigger from that angle. Equally, ignore any dick pic without context (the disembodied cock, without hand or other comparand).

Data shows that the middle class in Brazil is over half the population -- it's not small at all (though inequality warps distribution still). (Using the Rio Times because it's in English, and most CoM members don't read/speak Portuguese. Of course, a middle class income in the US and in Brazil is quite different, but so is cost of living. I bought a healthy cart of groceries at Pão de Açucar in São Paulo day for about $50, and could have bought much more at a more middle class grocery (or much less at Santa Luzia or St Marche). Like the US, every day conversation is rife with anecdotes and personal experiences, but the Bolsa Familia and other programs have had significant success. Data show that better than a walkaround. Brazilian Middle Class Surpasses 50% for First Time Since 2015 - The Rio Times WWW.RIOTIMESONLINE.COM A recent study by Tendências Consultoria reveals a significant shift in Brazil's socioeconomic landscape...

In Brazil, people often describe themselves by the degree they obtained at university, even if they never practiced in the field. "Lawyers" may have a law degree, but not be a member of the OAB. I know several. (And, of course, the sophistication of law schools varies considerably, with very fine schools at the federal universities, and less prestigious private schools offering a less rigorous education.) I don't find it suspect, but do think the statement is being made from a Brazilian perspective, then heard from an American perspective -- and we don't always define our professional identities in the same way.

Pretty think on his "intos"

Yeah, this doesn't sound related to any provider. IMHO, sounds like one of the OF bots that pollute Grindr now, scamming users to subscribe to their 4-post OF account. And, @Postiche, remember, you can and should report the profile to Grindr. If it's one of the spambots, another will just reappear but Grindr has some admin to do. If it's an actual human being scamming, you've at least made his (or her) life more difficult.

Which provider was this?

He describes himself as an "NYC Jock"

Well, you can confirm if that account moves in harmony with his posted accounts with 350k+ followers. He travels tomorrow. And if it doesn't, you've found a catfish and can be done.

His travel schedule is on his Twitter and Bluesky.

Do a reverse image search (Google Lens) on the skateboard pics. You'll find the same model, clothes, backdrop, etc., posted by a photographer named Sierra Prescott to Tumblr on May 25, 2015. Or just google "sierra prescott freddy keith" and it'll pop up first. (Sorry, @BigK, mods removed my post with photos: said screenshots and links to social media aren't allowed. Anyhow, you can judge for yourself by comparing provider's profile pics to the May 2015 images. Appears he recently uploaded 10-year-old photos.)

For a dude using a 10-year-old pic? No thanks. Demand a Facetime call first, at the least.