TokyoNewbie

Thank you so much for so many comments.

I gave another try with the same provider and this time it was very hot. Thank you so much for your advices.

Maybe the biggest difference might be that at the first occasion we could not open the wine I brought because there was no opener, second time I brought a sparkling one, so no opener was necessary??? 

This is not the first trial for sure. Portugal started 20 years ago.

https://substanceabusepolicy.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s13011-021-00394-7#:~:text=Portugal decriminalized the public and,rather than public-order priorities.
 

Well, what I had in mind was, something like “to dine in a fine restaurant is not just for getting full, but an experience”.
Of course I don’t expect to feel like being loved or having a boy friends….. What I felt like missing there was some (pretended?) mind set like “we wanna have fun and let’s work together”, like at Grindr hookups or cruising…

Well but true, “to be wanted” is definitely a greedy wish….

Recently I had an opportunity to hire a provider, and after that I have been contemplating what we can expect from a professional provider….

He is really good looking, better than the photos in his rentmen profile, very responsive, not overrated etc. etc. also good conversationalist. He supplied what was expected, but I was kind of disappointed…. I felt like it was more like mere business transaction and my partner was trying to get to the goal as economically as possible.

Probably that is a right way as business, and also probably I was not his type…. But still I wished some qualities such as passion, horniness, lust etc. would be more present in our session, though I understand even for professionals, to pretend/act those would be not easy…

I wonder if I am to optimistic, naive or greedy…. If you would share your experiences/ ideas, I would be very grateful.

There is a huge demand always, also so many people like sex and good at it. Is it not a dream job to do what you like? Great body, equipment, face, health issue, emotional difficulty etc. so many requirements, so definitely not an easy job…. 

I paid, and I feel like it was a good decision. 

Though we can find so much porn on other venues, to watch potentially accessible guys’ videos/photos excites me quite a lot. Maybe I sound a bit desperate? 
 

anyway thanks a lot for responses.

13 hours ago, DynamicUno said:

I think OP mentioned he was in Tokyo, hardly far from the maddening crowd, lol.

Well, with ”periphery” I meant to be sarcastic about US centralism….. 

For me Tokyo’s crowd is somehow comforting. Though it is huge, somehow we know how to be together there, so not so stressful, once you get used to.

On 1/8/2023 at 1:05 PM, nycman said:

That’s more like it!

Can someone help me translate the symbols they use next to top and bottom?

My guesses…..

X = doesn’t preform this role?

O = does perform this role?

Double ringed O = really performs this role?

Triangle = sometimes performs this role?

Your guesses are right.

Tokyo is definitely not the best place for sec,  it here is a short list of Brothals where English seems like available.

https://www.dojo-spa.com/top/

https://kids-jp.com/en/tk/s/

http://lang.dgdgdg.com/index.php

https://topboy.tokyo/index.php

https://core-escort.net/

Well in my city there are not many providers and also not so many traveling ones, so in fact it would be more to watch inevitably, though occasionally I hire the traveling ones. 
 

It is a bit uncomfortable to be in a periphery of the world.

Thanks for your reply. A provider opened his private gallery for me, but still premium photos are closed… a bit complicated. Anyway I give it a try for one month. Thank you!

36 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said:

Are you talking about this as a provider or client?

As a client I like to upgrade my account when I'm actively hiring so I can see all the provider's pics and videos. And also so I can leave a review then. Otherwise I'm fine with just leaving my account in the basic free status.

Thanks a lot for reply.

As client, as my last hire was so good I would like to leave a review, but then I need to get a premium status (though I think it is a bit odd… it would be better for the site to get more reviews.), but because I don’t hire a lot(in Tokyo there are not so many providers anyway) so I wonder how other elements such as photos or videos are. 
 

thanks!

I am wondering if it is worth to pay for premium status on rentmen. Is it worth it?

I am not sure if this is a right forum, or if there is already another thread about this (to many results with “rentmen”….), anyway if you guys can share your opinions, I would appreciate.