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Hey there! I'm underway with starting a business that will work to optimize the profitability of men in the adult/influender/fitness/modeling industry.

I would LOVE to interview anyone who is a provider here, and I am also willing to do unpaid work for the first few months until I can prove success.

I have a MSc and YEARS of qualitative/quantitative research and I'm very hopeful I can start something great! 

5 hours ago, alexslaveboy said:

Vinny 

Tony 

holy fuck links?? where is he

I wanted SO badly to go to the last one but I had car issues that needed urgent attention 😕 cant wait for next time; loveeee the selection of guys at these events

On 9/16/2023 at 2:55 AM, domdom81 said:

Has anyone had dances or privates with Troy from Long Island? He's one of those model hotties with a perfect face and body that find their way to Adonis now and then. Wish he would come to the LA Nude party, I'd blow a lot (in all senses of that term) on him!

holy fuck whats his contact info?

On 10/16/2023 at 7:45 AM, pubic_assistance said:

Is it ?
Because if you're hiring a "straight guy" to have gay sex, I'm pretty sure there's some acting involved somewhere in that mix.

I have been told many times that I am outwardly "straight" in my demeanor. I am also married with kids...so again...seemingly "straight".

Just none of that's the case.

Am I "acting" ? Am I deceiving ? No.

People often see what they want to see. Doesn't mean your outward demeanor is deceitful. I see no reason to walk around like less of a man simply because I used to go to sex parties and let multiple men fuck me up the ass and cum down my throat.  People are complex creatures. Not everything fits into easily defined categories. I've known plenty of men who are married with kids, love their wife/ play football/drink beer and drive a pick up truck, who occasionally like to pick up a teenage boy at a road side rest and fuck his little white ass and cum down his throat.  Identity and biology don't always match up.

That guy in the truck and the teenager cruising the parking lot would likely never set foot in a gay bar..but because they are both "acting" the part of normative macho straight men, the gay sex is no longer "gay". It's just sex.

Bromosexuality is very exciting to some men.

 

amen to this ! so sick of all this identity police identity bullshit 

On 9/29/2023 at 7:39 PM, BenjaminNicholas said:

Perhaps real or perhaps bullshit.  That's for him to decide for himself.  It is, after all, his money to spend.

You're also assuming that he's telling us the absolute truth and not getting lost in the fantasy.

To suggest his behavior comes from 'self hate' is pretty snap-judgemental for not knowing the guy personally and just spitballing on a (mostly) anonymous message board.

It's also a goal it's not a current reality! lol 

But yea I'm fine with that. My goal is to find a long term sugar husband(s), and it's such a huge motivation and inspiration for me that its worth the price.

On 9/29/2023 at 4:47 PM, Unicorn said:

But, over half his income? I'm not sure that's showing control and rational behavior. Perhaps some introspection might be in order. Much as I'm sure some people would love to benefit from his spending habits, the spending amounts appear to me to show compulsion, rather than control. Is the man who spends a fortune gambling in control?

Well its always better to shoot for the stars! But spending half of your income on a relationship that is also your entertainment isn't THAT crazy tbh lol, like who really puts 20% of the income into savings really lol

I'm one of those that got called a gay fggot before I literally knew what sex or sexuality or gay or straight even WERE lmao so I definitely had a good while really exploring that question; I went from straight to bi to gay to queer, and THEN gender became the topic and I went from man to non-binary to "non-binary man" lmaoooo

but most recent fantasies have been about like finding long term doms into chastity/trans women who I like enough to get a full sex change lmao so WHO KNOWS. I'm at the point where all I know is I'm not a straight man lol 

On 2/18/2023 at 1:57 AM, studchaser said:

Iterations of this thread pop up time to time because many of us like straight guys and trade. All those who post on this thread should either have an interest in straight men or feedback on a straight provider. 

Also just because someone has listed straight doesn't mean that should be tsken at face value. Use your street smarts and common sense 

Anyone have great feedback on authentic straight providers?

fuck yea im obsessed with serving straight men. Definitely online at least half aren't really straight, but ive had some amazing experiences - straight ones usually cant get hard unless their watching str8 porn, some never got hard but just verbally abused me .

Next year will be the year of the straight man for me I want to start dedicating at least half my income to my Superiors. 

so what are these about!

ive moved to LA, so interested for sure

Another bump for this !

On 11/12/2022 at 8:19 PM, Emir said:

New name. Photos verified by Rentmen.

https://rentmen.eu/ThePROO

 

Ooh what’s his instagram ???

im in his city now I’ve GOT to see him

See my last thread for full story, but a warning to avoid 

 At all costs. He is a shameless thief with a terrible drug problem.

it was : https://rentmen.eu/tenmanwade

Hey there. So last night I had overnights with 2 guys, unrelated (didn’t know each other) we went to another place and at like 4am one of them disappeared. I found out later he took my keys, drove to my Airbnb and stole my wallet and 2 laptops
 

I have messaged and called and no answer yet. What should I do now ?  Help !

On 6/21/2023 at 3:23 PM, KennF said:

You have already gotten a bunch of good advice.  Sounds like you're in mid-Suffolk, so that could be the biggest obstacle.  We both know that people in NYC'ers are not likely to have cars.  They see someone from Suffolk County and don't bother. 

To overcome this, you may want to consider changing your approach and in your original contact let them know you'd like to bring them out to Long Island for a visit/day/trip/weekend.  Or, let them know you're willing to meet them in NYC.  Or, let them know you're arranging for car service.  

As for finding the right one or filtering... I leave as many filters off as possible.  Many guys skip over certain settings.  If you filter in Body Type: Jock, and a nice jock-type doesn't check the "Jock" box, then you'll miss them.  Look for guys that have had longer term active profiles by looking at the Member Since or Joined On dates.  Also, the number of profile visits will give you an idea on how long they've been around.  New profiles tend to be chancy and if you want a serious professional, you want someone who knows the industry.

But as for the which app... RM is probably the best place.  Just don't limit the area or distance.  At least half of the guys are traveling around the country.  In the hetero market, there are lots of choices next door, no matter where you live.  In our market, the guys are willing to travel more, but they need to see you as serious and direct.

 

Just my tuppence.

I second the leaving out filters ! idk how some of these guys decide if they're "muscular", "athletic" or "toned" and even the position filter doesn't help much as a lot are "ask me"

but yes, rentmen is the way to go! Unless you're outside the US, then also use hunqz or other local sites.

where can you get female escorts online? I've been thinking of doing an MMF thing

On 6/29/2023 at 6:52 PM, Coolwave35 said:

I’d be happy to bring you to the Adonis nude party next month in nyc. Since we live 15 minutes from each other, I’ll drive you and then give you the low down on who would fit your bill. Surely there is someone you’ll like and I’ll tell you if they’re a hustler or legit. 

awhhhh im jealous can you take me to Adonis for my first time also? 🥰 ill be in brooklyn from next month on and i just got the email with the lineup for tonight and holy fuck they are ALL so hot. if any of them are escorts id probably be trying to take at least 3 of them back home with me 😜 (any word on Valentino, Derick, Aneudy, or Ezequiel?)

On 7/12/2023 at 11:27 PM, KensingtonHomo said:

I know some people are very into this, but I'm not paying anyone so I can "worship" or blow them. Though I would think it should be cheaper than the full shebang. 

ahahaha yea ive always enjoyed psychological aspects of sex over physical aspects so for ME worship is a lot more valuable than sex. A lot of guys are very uncomfortable with it or dont understand what i get out of it /// how to play with me during a session like that, so when I find a guy who's n naturally dominant and confident and enjoys/expects to be worshipped, ill jump at the opportunity to hand him all my money ahahahha even in my actual relationships i always ended up sugar daddy to a slightly older, definitely more in shape narcissist lol 

57 minutes ago, blck37 said:

It feels like you alr have a (quite) clear idea of what you look for. So really just execution....put them $$$$ to use i would say 👀

Might need to watch out for you yourself being 'played' without any benefit though....its a pricey and mind/heart tugging game you are about to play.

Been there done that...imo, key is to always remember this is ultimately a transaction, consideration must be well delivered 😄

yessss thats always a tricky part about being a sub. I like being used/disrespected a bit for sexual kicks, but I still want to be treated like a friend to my doms - thats actually IMO a tell-tale sign that someone isn't actually dom/"alpha" at all and just play it for sex - in my experience, the real alphas can use me up like a piece of trash during a session and then still be nice and friendly to me later on.

BUT, if I'm into a guy then even just the act of paying him I consider a "benefit"   some people are into fancy clothes or restaurants or buying boats or whatever, but I genuinely get a lot of meaning and pleasure out of gift giving/spoiling. 

hes in my town - do I risk it? lol

2 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

^This. And consistency. I’m fully aware most clients can’t afford to do all the things @Coolwave35 does, and certainly not on a regular basis. BUT the basic principle applies.

Do your research. Post on the forums when there is no existing thread (use the search function first), or find the appropriate thread by searching and ask there. Try a few providers for shorter sessions. There is some degree of risk in doing this. You won’t click with everyone, and that’s normal. That’s just part of the process. Don’t give up.

When you find a provider you like, cultivate the relationship by hiring him with some regularity, and if you can afford it, for longer sessions should you really like something akin to a boyfriend experience.

Anything you can do to incentivize your regular guy financially will make him loyal to you and prioritize you over other clients. This is a business. Our time and attention is best spent on repeat clients. The best clients are regular ones.

Amazon wishlists and all the perks you can think of are great, but money paid directly is the greatest motivation.

love this also! but here's a problem, my current obsession lives in the UK (or Spain? lol) and so an introductory shorter session isn't really possible in the immediate future (although I will be visiting Europe in fall!) 

So far I've been consistent in sending money to his cash app/onlyfans, and I've explained that I'm looking for a regular findom. I'm hoping with time he'll notice that I'm providing regularly and large enough that I'm serious, and we could do a video meet and then just start planning a weekend trip - I know its not great to start with that, but I'm a person who enjoys a fair amount of alone time/privacy regardless, and all I would 100% want to happen is to be able to wear my chastity cage all weekend and do his chores

he also has a lovely hot girlfriend, so I was thinking of paying for the both of them to do a trip together, with or without me present! I find the idea of using my money to treat who he actually cares about soooo hot, and hopefully I could cut some of the costs of his video content production (flights, hotels, actors even)

19 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

I've learned that money doesn't always talk...in cases where the escort has an attitude. Also, young escorts tend to be more entitled (and thus believe good money is their due),  and less likely to realize how financially useful regulars are.

I kinda agree - I once was building something good with a guy and I bought him a new bicycle and told him when it would arrive - turns out there was a fraud alert (cuz I had recently moved back from Europe) and the payment didn't go through (although I had all the money and more for it) and when it didn't come the guy cursed me out and called me a time waster 😕 but to be fair, he deserves someone who would make sure he got his gifts on time - this guy is a real superstar. 

I looooove paying good money and I would like to think of myself as an unlimited resource for anyone who wants to take advantage, but maybe cuz of my age and general personality sometimes people don't take me seriously about that I think

21 hours ago, nycman said:

No more callers please…..we have a winner!

If nothing else it was a damn fun read, that made me rock hard!

it made me hard also ahahaha I just love the idea of spoiling my favs like he does  

On 7/13/2023 at 7:04 AM, Coolwave35 said:

I have since come to understand that the vast majority of clients hire a few times a year, budget for sessions and save up for them. They meticulously evaluate profiles and interview providers and gather additional information. Most can only hire when they travel. They carefully evaluate what a fair tip is and balance the quality of the session with the additional reward. Some expect a bit of aftercare. All of these factors affect your ability to find and secure a regular. Honestly, I have no idea how you would do that on a budget so I’m not going to be much help if that’s your situation.

I often meet guys at the Adonis nude party in NYC. If I am liking the vibe, I offer to match whatever they make at the party to go home with me afterwards. Sometimes a guy will make $700. Sometimes $2k. Psychologically, a guy knowing whatever he makes that night will be doubled by going home with me locks them in for the overnight.  Now I get to try them out for an extended session.  If we have a great time together, I’ll text them a week before the next nude party. If they’re coming I’ll ask them if they have a hotel. If not, I’ll offer to let them stay in mine the night before, the night of and the night after. I tell them I’ll get a two bed room and only be there the night of the party so they can use it to recover their travel costs and have a nice place to host. No one has ever declined this offer, and no one has ever not shown their gratitude by climbing in my bed after the nude party.  We all know what we’re doing.

The next month, the guy I am into commits himself to fly in knowing I’ll cover the room with the same offer and instead of me texting them if they’re coming, they text me and ask if I’ll be going. Really it means “are you gunna get my room” but I’m ok playing the game too. We banter a bit and I ask what flight they’re coming in on. Then I upgrade their flight. All of these guys fly the most basic economy ticket they can find. Often they’re tall and muscular and flying cheap sucks. I do this with the expectation that while the guy is in NYC, he will try a little harder to make time for me. They almost ALWAYS give me some bonus time as a thank you. They’ll invite me to dinner before the party or usually breakfast after, again knowing I’ll foot the bill and I’m ok with that. I get a quasi BF experience out of it and now we’re getting to know each other out of a king size bed. 

In between parties I’ll offer Venmo and cash apps for them doing silly things or sending me unsolicited pics and videos. It keeps them engaged throughout the month and the conversation flowing. We are getting to know each other and developing a relationship over text and I am keeping them engaged by sending a couple hundred dollars a week or sending shit from their Amazon wishlist.  Now the planning starts. They are more willing to come to nyc knowing they’ll make money with me. I’m excited to go to the nude parties because I don’t have to worry about kissing a bunch of frogs because I already have a hot guy that I’m into ready to spend the weekend with me. 

From here I offer a weekend trip. Once a guy gets to travel in a bit of luxury, they’re committed. Then the invitations get much easier and it goes to “regular” status. 

I am not sure ANY of this is helpful, but it is how I identify, cultivate and lock in the guys I want to consistently keep appointments with me and be regulars. 

omg no this was super helpful !!! I love your approach. I'm relocating to a bigger city with tons of guys next month, so that will hopefully get rid of my travel issues thank God. I am also DYING to go to Adonis. It would be so much nicer to meet someone in person first, to make sure the chemistry is there. 

I definitely don't have as much funds as you do (yet, ahahahaha) but I could definitely commit at LEAST around 30k a year on a regular - with that amount I have no illusions of being anyones "favorite client" or top of their priority list, but I think I'm a very easy/low maintenance client and on my current career track I'll have much more to be able to give to someone in a few years from now (and will have a LOT whenever inheritance comes in), and I would love a man to be loyal / subservient to. The joy and confidence and awe I get from some escorts is easily worth 150k or more so I would only gladly give them more and more (I'm a cash sub too, in my dream fantasy I have a man who completely controls all of my bank accounts at all times)

I don't even need to see a regular in person necessarily, in the past I've just paid their rent / gym memberships / etc monthly in exchange for texting/an occasional voice note or video call. For me its really more about the alpha/beta dynamic and I just enjoying being of use to alpha men!

One easy way to spoil someone on my budget could be to go all out (5 star hotels, nice gifts, etc etc) for THEM during a weekend/overnight, and then just stay in a hostel or something myself. Until now I've been planning on villas / rentals with multiple bedrooms but I would just be happy knowing someone was living in luxury on my dime, regardless of where I am.

On 7/13/2023 at 7:04 AM, Coolwave35 said:

This is going to sound arrogant and pompous but it isn’t meant to. I thought everyone hired like me. I budget north of $150k a year for escorts and indulge a few times a week. When a session with a new guy goes south or is subpar, I don’t pay it much attention and just get excited for my the next one. When I click with a regular I wanna go the distance with, I don’t give up.

ugh @Coolwave35 you are literally an icon you're so cool ahahaha I definitely never thought/never really cared if my guys "like me" (although I would hope they enjoy me as a client!" but yes I agree, income talks ! Thats actually one of the many reasons I like hiring; I'm super non-materialistic myself and so sometimes I find it hard to intrinsically motivate myself to hustle/go the extra mile at work. But if I know that my money is going to support a man I like then that changes everything and I'll work day in and day out if I must!