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What makes a great top? A bottom who flatters you, telling you how great you are so you'll strive to do even better.

This is GEN Z men we're talking about. Have you ever had any interaction with them over the past few years ? They ( 8 %) identify as 'bisexual' today. Check on that 8% in June. See how they identify then.

The chain restaurant, founded in 1983 and known for young, attractive, big-breasted servers and bartenders, closed forty 'underperforming locations' last year (in Rhode Island, Virginia, Florida, Kentucky and Texas) and what's left of the company is now preparing for bankruptcy. Hooters preparing to file bankruptcy after shuttering dozens of locations: report WWW.THE-INDEPENDENT.COM Hooters closed approximately 40 locations last year and owes $300 million in asset backed bonds

Obviously, I need to move to Florida pronto ! The only thing which appeals to me about FL are these providers, but I'll move there if need be. (We just don't get these guys often enough - or at all - up north in RI / MA).

I'm finding quite a few guys now want extra to cum. That used to be part of the deal before.

Me too! Please and thank you.

Must be in his private gallery which I don't have access. Thanks for telling me !

I'm not getting all the 'clock' puns. What am I missing ?

Here's a story about a much younger friend of mine, which you can say I was 'part of' his experience. (We texted the other night and a reminder of this experience came up, which I forgot to share before). In August, 2018 I was friends with a hot 23-year old recent college grad student who was originally from Colombia. I worked in the college library for a few years while he was a student (undergrad and grad), and he always asked me for help. He was handsome, with an incredible body when he first arrived as a freshman and just developed into a sexy young man as the years went on. He was also very flirty - knew how to use his 'Latino sex appeal' to get ahead with men and women (I wasn't blind to that). Once he left the college for good in May, 2018 he asked that we stay in touch over the summer, as he was going to need help with cover letters and resumes. I agreed, and got together a few times after that (both flirting with each other, nothing further). He applied for a number of jobs over the summer (financial institutions) and had a lot of interviews lined up. In July, I mentioned to him I was going to NYC for a weekend to 'get away' for a few days. He asked if he could join me as he had only been there once or twice. I agreed if he paid for his own transportation and meals, and I paid for the room (and I told him I'd be booking a room with a kinf size bed, not two beds - he was fine with it). On our way there, he asked if we could go to a 'famous department store' because he needed to buy a nice suit for the interviews he had coming up (and he had a brand new store card he could use). Off we went to the men's department, which was empty that Saturday afternoon. There was a rather petite, middle-aged 'sales manager' there ever so prim and proper. I must say my friend looked super-sexy in his tight jeans and fitted tee shirt. Mr. Manager noticed him right away. My friend and I started on the 'sales racks' and found nothing. We moved over to the regular over-priced 'designer suits' and Mr. Manager flew over to us, asking if we needed help to which we said 'not right now' but we would call him over if we did. (You had to see him check out my friend.) I then whispered to my friend, "I bet you can get some great deals on these suits if you play your cards right with him. He's obviously attracted to you." My friend knew exactly what I meant, and said, "Watch me". We pull out a shirts, slacks, jackets, and then asked for his help, so he brings us to a dressing room. My friend asks for me to go in the dressing room with him, so Mr. Manager brought us to a 'bigger' dressing room which easily fit the three of us. So in we go, and Mr. Manger calls someone over to 'watch the floor' while he helps in the dressing room. In we all go with armfuls of beautiful clothes to try on. Mr. Manager is trying to act 'professional and focused' as he sorts the items out, I'm winking at my friend as I take a seat, and my friend winks back as he starts to disrobe and rub his dick in his bikini briefs (he knew exactly what he was doing), licks his lips and runs his fingers through his wavy hair. He knows how sexy he is. Mr. Manager finally turns around and sees my friend and his raging hard-on in his underwear, his sexy legs and beautiful smooth chest / torso. Poor guy starts fumbling his words and hands him some pants and a shirt, sweating it out as my friend starts to try on clothes (I admit, this was the first time I had seen him without clothes on, and he was a sight to behold). Within minutes, Mr. Manager goes for my friend's waistband on his underwear and tugs it down. My friend's cock almost poked his eye out. Without missing a beat, my friend politely responds, "Before I let you taste that - what kind of a deal can you give me on all of this ?" Mr. Manager says he could give him more than half off the jacket and pants, and throw in the socks, three shirts and three ties 'complimentary'. It was an incredible deal. I wink at my friend as I still sit off to the side, and he says "Let's do it." Mr. Manager drops to his knees and starts sucking him off - to completion (I didn't join in, though my friend kept nodding me over to join, but I enjoyed watching). Not a drop of cum was wasted. Sure enough, we go to check out and it all costs my friend about 25% of what it should have for all he got at full price. Mr. Manager also throws in two packs of the underwear my friend was wearing, since he asked him in the dressing room if he could keep his. And he got free shipping, too, so we didn't have to lug it all to our hotel and back home on the bus. After dinner, we head back to the hotel and had the best night of our lives. Because of him, I now have a 'thing' for sexy Colombian escorts and masseurs that kind of remind me of him, and they're at the top of my list. Six and a half years later, I don't see him any more. He moved across country for a fantastic job (probably thanks to his 'suits' he wore on the interviews), and now lives with his girlfriend (yeah, he lives a straight life). We text each other every now and then, we connect on social media (my heavens, he's quite the specimen at nearly 30), but I haven't spent time in person with him since COVID hit and he moved. When texting, I end the conversation by asking if he has 'the suits' - which he does - and responds with a 'Best purchase I ever made and you know it !'. Says it still fits him perfectly, still has the shirts and ties and wears them to 'business events' outside of work.

I'm just repeating what he (the pharmacist) told me. Maybe he meant the RIDOH ? All I know is they get their updated data frequently and update the age restrictions as its suggested. Which is why I had to be 65+ on January 20, and 50+ on February 15 to qualify for the vax. (I should mention back in November, as I was approaching 61, I inquired and the age restriction was 60+).

Since my Shingles vax in December, 2023 I did receive my flu vax in October, 2024. I turned 61 in November, and my doctor recommended the RSV vax 'in the coming months' (meaning, 'this winter'). For some reason, he wanted me to wait about eight to ten weeks between flu vax and RSV vax. So in January (MLK Day, to be exact), I asked at Walgreen's to make an appointment for my RSV vax (I've been going to Walgreen's near my home for years - I have a little crush on the pharmacist who does the vaccines, even though he has the personality of a wet rag). I was told the vax was for 65 and older, and I was 'too young'. I went to CVS across the street and they told me the same thing. I was in a different Walgreen's the day after Valentine's Day, and went by the pharmacy to inquire again about the RSV vax, as I had read online that it was available to those over 60. The younger pharmacist told me that day I could get it, since I was '50 and over'. After the pharmacist gave me my shot, I told him I was told less than a month ago I wasn't old enough. He then explained to me that all the drugstores (every chain) follow the guidelines by the CDC. As more cases are reported across the country, they update their information on 'ages' of patients every few weeks. There was such a major increase with 'younger people' in January, they lowered the minimum age to 50 a week earlier. I also asked if this was a 'one and done' deal, and he said, 'As far as we know now, yes. BUT it could change going forward.' BTW, no side effects from the RSV vax.

His profile says he's a Scorpio (Oct 23-Nov 22) so he's probably 33, if he had a birthday in the Fall of 2024. Kind of cute, but not doing anything for me. Maybe being with him in person he could make me rise to his attention.

Some trivia I came across about a year ago... Back in 1977, when song-writer / film-maker Joseph Brooks was finishing production on the tear-jerker 'You Light Up My Life', he only wanted Flack to record the title song to be released as the single (and include it on the soundtrack). In the movie, Kvitka Cisyk provided the 'singing voice' of actress Didi Conn, but Brooks wanted Flack to sing a cover version to be released to radio. He sent the song to her record label Atlantic Records, and asked them to convince her to record the song. They tried, but she defiantly refused. She said she hated the schmaltzy song, and wouldn't record it - no matter how much they would pay her extra to sing it, or if they threatened to drop her from her contract. She was not recording it - and she didn't. The song, of course, ended up in the hands of an unknown singer named Debby Boone and it became a #1 hit for ten weeks straight, became the biggest hit of the 1970s, and won a slew of awards for Boone and Brooks. The movie becomes a box-office hit - and all credit it given to the strength of the single. A year after, Brooks produces the semi-quasi sequel to the film, 'If Ever I See You Again'. Brooks writes a 'theme song' for that movie, and offers it to pop sensation Barry Manilow (who declines the offer). He then asks Atlantic Reocrds once again if they can get Flack to do it, and the label works out a deal with Brooks (via Flack's lawyers) to record the song (realizing what a mistake she made a year earlier, Flack also records a few more songs for the film and its soundtrack). She records the schmaltzy ballad, and its released as a single. It hits the Top 40, but doesn't even come close to its predecessor as it peaks at #24 and then begins it's descent on the chart. Nor does the movie come close to its predecessor - it became a box office flop and drops out of movie theaters just when the single debuted on the Hot 100.

Anyone tuning in to watch the highly promoted 'Beyond the Gates' on CBS, weekday afternoons ? It started today, and I'm DVRing it for a while. I'll give it a month and then decide if I'll be sticking with it (so far, first episode, not too impressed). For gay guys there is plenty of delicious eye candy, starting with actors Jibre Hordges and Brandon Claybon). As a matter of fact, I don't think Hordges had his chest covered more than thirty second throughout the first episode (every scene was in the bedroom). Which begs the question...where or where can I find an escort or masseur who is as sexy as Jibre Hordges and Brandon Claybon ?

Ayman Mohyeldin is one of the sexiest guys on the network. He will be one of three cohosts anchoring 'The Weekend Evening' edition on Saturday and Sunday nights, according to reports. Capehart supposedly has been tapped as one of the new trio of cohosts anchoring the morning edition of 'The Weekend' once Sanders-Townsend, Steele, and Menendez move to 7 pm. There's a rumor that Eugene Daniels might be the second of the three cohosts.

Currently in it's 14th Season. I'm in America, but have PBS Passport, so I'm able to watch it streaming before it premieres on PBS at the end of March, 2025. No spoilers from me, but so far (three episodes in, and starting 1970) it's gotten off to a solid start and seems to be back on track (I thought season 13 / 1969 the show was becoming ridiculous). Anyone watching ? We can continue this conversation in detail in another month.

Haven't started Season 3 yet, but I'm reading criticism of the music they've used. Seems like no one likes it.

I guess you've never watched Sunny Hostin as cohost of 'The View' ?

I was always 'meh' with 'The Reid Out' - take it or leave it (if I was too lazy to click the remote, I'd keep it on in the background). Same with Chris Hayes - I'd sometimes leave it on in the background. As for Jen Psaki, not a fan of hers - wouldn't mind seeing her leave but they've invested too much money in hiring her and getting her show off the ground last year. I've been watching 'The Weekend' since it has premiered a year ago, and haven't missed an episode (I DVR the two hours each Sat and Sun). I find the show very informative and great chemistry among the three hosts. I've been saying (to other friends who watch this) since November they need to be in prime time. Smart to move them to 7 pm. Glad to see Wagner go. I could never make it to 9:20 without falling asleep. She's a complete bore. They need to get rid of Ari Melber, too, and his 'hip hop' show; that shtick is dated and he's past his likeability.

Reports are coming out today that MSNBC's new president Rebecca Kutler has dropped Joy Reid's "The Reid Out" from the weeknight 7 pm slot, and Alex Wagner will not be returning to the 9 pm hour to host her show. Reid's last episode could be as early as tomorrow. Reid's show has dropped in the ratings since the Presidential election last November. The successful the trio of Symone Sanders-Townsend, Alicia Menendez and Michael Steele, who host the weekend morning show 'The Weekend' will take over the 7 p.m. weekday slot Tuesday through Friday, according to two people familiar with the matter. The group on Mondays will lead two hours, 7 p.m. to 9 p.m. Kutler helped create “The Weekend,” the show led by Sanders-Townsend, Melendez and Steele, which has run early Saturday and Sunday mornings. In its first year on air, the program has seen audience for its time slot improve noticeably in both overall viewership and among people between 25 and 54, the demographic most preferred by advertisers in news programs. A month ago, MSNBC brought back Rachel Maddow to her former weekday 9 pm slot to cover the President's 'first 100 days', pushing Alex Wagner away from the anchor desk and into field reporting. Wagner is expected to be announced as an MSNBC 'contributor' while Jen Psaki is expected to take over at least one of the hours, according to one of these sources. Joy Reid and Alex Wagner Axed From MSNBC Lineup in Major Network Shakeup VARIETY.COM MSNBC will replace anchors Joy Reid and Alex Wagner in its evening lineup, some of the first big moves from new president Rebecca Kutler

So was he nude when he gave you the massage ? The review above said he was not. I'd want him nude !!!!!

I think he took that $100 for his time which was canceled by you, under the pretense he had videos to sell to you. That's kind of how I'm reading this.

This is true with any profession in which you deal with the public, it's not exclusive to escorts / masseurs. You just don't know who you will encounter in any business situation if you are providing a service of some kind, especially if you are in business for yourself. Anyone watch 'Baby Reindeer' last year on Netflix ? The victim was jus a friendly bartender.

I don't have any interest in the escort (not my type), but I followed this post every day with my morning coffee. It was very entertaining, as well as informative in many ways. I'm glad everything has been resolved. Now on to another thread to read daily with my morning coffee and bagel...much more to my liking than watching the morning news to start my day. EDIT: Here's a thought / suggestion : maybe we could have a page just for encounters such as these, where the provider has proven himself to be a 'know scammer' in some way ? Have it separate from the Deli / Spa pages buried in different threads. That way if you search a name, and the guy comes up on this particular page ('scammers') you know right away you need to choose someone else (whether you wish to read the whole discussion or not). Just a thought...

He used to go by the name 'CesarXX' or xCesarx' (different variations on Cesar) for a while and there were plenty of threads / interest about him, but not many connections. For the second half of 2023, he lived in my city. I hired him for massage (his ad was also on Rentmasseur, which is where I found him), but it became more BFE service (no penetration, fine with me) than massage. He has a great body, a truly handsome face (his pictures are recent and accurate) and he's a great kisser and charmer / seducer in his role of 'boyfriend'. His personality could be better, especially after the appointment and we still had time to kill. Could be it was just him being a little distant first time around, and maybe would've warmed up on repeated appointments, but he left the area soon after my appointment in December. At that time, he was heading to NYC for the first part of 2024. I do recall him saying he had family living in Chicago, and he was thinking of eventually settling there. (I also remember he had a part time job, and did this on the side - so that's why it took a while for me to connect with him). PS - he is a bit older than 29 (his birthdate slipped out in conversation) and he came across as rather spiritual in our brief conversation (if that matters to anyone).