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I think it's more of a generational change. As 'the silent generation' die off, and 'boomers' and 'Xers' age, the younger generations are taking over - Millennials and Zoomers, neither which the majority enjoy being 'out' for the night and socializing. That's not their life. Don't believe me ? Just ask anyone 20 - 45. Their idea of 'date night' is not going to the theater and having a nice dinner, but staying home with their partner, watching Netflix and ordering from GrubHub. That is why nothing stays open past 9 in any city any more. That's why so many movie theaters have closed. That's why so many restaurants have closed. (Grubhub to-go orders do not keep a restaurant in business - it's the bar and alcohol sales.)

I wouldn't expect less from MacDonald - her 'rivalry' with Lupone has been talked about for years. I'm certain she's not enjoying the comparisons this past season of her portrayal of 'Mama Rose' in GYPSY to Lupone's in 2008. (Most fans of both divas are saying Lupone was much better in the role).

In my area now - really sexy guy, but if he is limited in his eroticism, I think I'll pass. I won't take a chance to see if he gets a boner for me, or if oral is part of his HE on me.

I'll be meeting with this guy for the second time this weekend (WEATHER PERMITTING) and I can't wait. Lucky guys in Atlanta - that's where he is home-based when not traveling. Onyxforu - Male Massage & Bodywork in Boston, MA | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur Onyxforu in Boston, MA offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual, swedish, hotStone, deepTissue.

$220 is avg in my area for travel masseurs charging for erotic. I say go for it - if it's a horrible time, you chalk it up to experience. If it's a good experience - you have a new provider.

NOBODY has hired him ? Don't make me take one for the team, but if I have to, I will when he visits my area on the 20th...😝

He's in my area later next week. Anyone with experience on this guy ?

He is returning to my area this weekend. I did text him today to make certain (he changes his schedule frequently - first my city is listed, then it isn't, then it is...) and he said he will definitely be in my city. He installed a new app for taking appointments, but the day/night he said he'd be here isn't offered on the app. (I'll need to contact him via text again, to let him know). I'm so looking forward to seeing him again (even though he's staying in a hotel which offers no parking, and no on street parking at all). I hope the second time around will be as great as the first (I'm bumping up to his 'spa experience').

I agree with what you say, but the reverse of this is true, also (hence my op). When a guy is advertising as 'lightly hairy' and I meet up with him, I expect to see a few strands of hair somewhere on his body below his neck. If those few strands he naturally grows are under his arms, and are shaved or waxed off when we meet, he's no longer 'lightly hairy' (again, not that any of this is a deal breaker for me!) 😜 I'll suffer gladly.

Another young Latino guy caught my eye (he will be visiting in two weeks, supposedly) and advertises as 'hairy'. This guy would really qualify as 'light hairy' (to me); light hair on his arms / under his arms, legs, a little on his pecs, and a treasure trail which suggests pubic hair below (in one shot he teases with his underwear slightly down). Really beautiful body (ok face), but then it's tatted on one side which throws it off. But it's not a deal breaker...I will contact him when / if he's here. His 'lightly hairy' body is a huge turn-on for me.

Looks like he doesn't include kissing, even though he offers BFE and romance on his menu. Kissing would be part of BFE / romance. Hmmmm...may have to ask him directly when he visits (very interested in him).

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If I'm going for full service, I don't want a room-mate there (which is why I usually book with travelers who have a hotel room). There was a regular who I saw in his apartment, but he would always suggest a time when his room-mate was at work (the guy was a waiter, so it varied days and nights). He didn't want his roomie knowing too much about the work he did. It worked out beautifully. For a massage, I don't mind as much. If he hears my HE, so be it - he will know his room-mate is very good at his job. If the roomie is hot and wants to 'unexpectedly' enter the room, I'm all for it. (Though it never happened in the past 20 years).

Like I did at Christmas time (see above), maybe more clients should turn the table on a few providers when they are approached by the guys to 'borrow money'. If they should hit you up for 'a loan' , simply respond to them with: 'Hey, I'm glad you reached out to me today, as you've been on my mind. I need a new tire on my car and I'm pressed for cash right now. Can you Venmo me $300 so I can get the new tire ? I promise I will pay you back at our next appointment.' See how far you get. It should at least end any future attempts to hit you up for cash.

On another message forum I belong to, the discussion of this came up. The consensus was that precum is not ejaculation. (I didn't know that - I thought it was the same).

Thanks for letting me know about his pubic region - now I won't have to ask him. Exactly - shaves or waxes would indicate that he presents to the client as 'smooth' not 'lightly hairy'. That's where I'm confused (and not just with him, with others as well). It's odd (to me) to refer to yourself as 'lightly hairy' (which is a turn-on to me and I'm certain others) when in fact, whatever light hair you naturally grow is shaved or waxed off before you meet the client. I know through discussions on this forum over the past few years that hair / hairless in the pubic region is a concern at times. Some love a full bush (me), some like it nicely trimmed, some like 'stubble' to suggest it grows there, and some like it completely removed. It's too bad RM doesn't go into detail about the area for the provider to check off, as it matters a great deal to some clients. (Again, I will take whatever is there - it's not a deal breaker - but I have a preference of what I like on a guy). Again, thanks to both of you for the responses - much appreciated.

There's a masseur I've had my eye on for a while who travels to my area every few weeks (unfortunately, I have not been able to book him yet as he appears to only stay for 24 hours and I haven't been available within those 24 hours). In my texts with him, he's responsive and he's fairly priced for erotic (or full service, if I want to go that way). He's very attractive (to me) and he describes himself as 'light hairy' (which I like). However, looking at his shirtless photos, I don't see a single hair on him - not on his chest / nipples, not under his arms, no treasure trail, not on his forearms or legs. The only hair I see is on his head and some facial hair. (I don't have a subscription to RM, so can't access his 'locked' photos to see what he has / doesn't have on his dick - then again, if he had a bush when he took the photos he may not have one on the day of appointment). So shouldn't he be advertising as 'smooth' ? Or does facial hair count as 'light hairy' ? Does light hairy suggest some hair around his dick (which I prefer on a guy) ? Either way, I'm still interested in him. Would it be overstepping if - in my next communication with him - I politely inquire about his bush or lack of ? ( "In your ad you say 'lightly hairy' - you appear to be smooth, but do you still have hair on your dick ?" I don't want to turn him off with any questions he may feel offended by. Thanks in advance for any input ! Sensualista - Male Massage & Bodywork in Hartford, CT | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur Sensualista in Hartford, CT offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual, swedish, hotStone, deepTissue.

No one here has spent time with this hot Brazilian ? No one ? Damn, we got to improve our hiring for 2025...😄

We're patiently (or impatiently) waiting for your report ! 😜

He really, really should. A lot of the young guys I worked with over the years should be doing OF - but as been discussed before, this GEN Z are not really sexually 'open' that way. Hell, they won't even strip down in a locker room or be caught outside without a shirt on. Beautiful, hard, sexy bodies they don't want to share with the universe. Go figure.

Lucky for me in my department, we don't have to fire Zoomers (in the past year I have been at this new job). The zoomers just don't show up after a few weeks - so we take it they've quit. Of course, they then file for unemployment (saying they got 'laid off') so they can stay home and be a social media influencer while they collect the next six months, but my boss is not an idiot - when the paperwork comes in from UE, she let's them know they 'walked off the job' and they were not laid off. Before I made this switch to working in the health industry last year, I worked in university library for nine years (I had to leave - it was driving me crazy to have to 'pamper and coddle' these young adults). I can't tell you the number of student workers who we hired for the library who never worked a day in their life (never held a summer job in their high school years) and couldn't work a full schedule each week (we're talking 10 hours a week, max). They always had a reason to 'call out' on at least one of their shifts. Anyhow, once they became seniors and started looking for 'real jobs', many made it clear to me they wouldn't be taking a job which paid less than 'six figures a year'. One sexy / cute guy said, "It's not worth getting out of bed in the morning if I won't be making six figures a year." WTF? He also wasn't looking for room-mates, he wanted to live in an apartment (his first, out of the dorm) alone. This was when he graduated with a degree in 'financing' in 2021. He thought he was going to land on Wall Street for a job. I laughed to myself. I ran into him at Christmastime. Cute and sexy as ever, even more so as he's hit his mid-20s. Anyhow, I asked how everything is going and how his 'six figure job' was working out. He was a little disappointed - told me he's still living at home with his mother, and the only job he found was working at the call center for AAA, at $17/ hr. $34K a year doesn't get you too far in 2025 as it did fifty years ago. (With his looks and his incredible body he would make a great living as an escort, but I know he's not into that at all.)

My situations were a little different (I think I posted about one here a month or so ago)... The last two weeks of December, I was interested in some 'holiday fun' (I saved money by skipping parties and get togethers I really wasn't in the mood for this year) and contacted a few visiting providers whom I had met with in the past year or so (and enjoyed them). Unfortunately, the five or six I tried to meet up with didn't work out for a variety of reasons those two weeks (I didn't meet up with anyone and saved more money). So I ended each text conversation with 'Have a great holiday - looking forward to seeing you in 2025'. I couldn't believe it when a few responded back letting me know their Venmo 'accepted Christmas gifts'. WOW! Talk about balls. So I responded ... and let them know, 'My Venmo does, too !' And that was that.

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His site is finished ! This could be the reason for the lack of reviews, as stated on his site: REVIEWS What happens between us stays between us, da? No reviews, no gossip, no internet drama. You keep memories in heart, not online. Private, exclusive, just like it should be. Here is a link to his pricing: Consideration COMRADEGARCON.COM

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