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Surprised she didn't trash-talk Rita Moreno, as the two loathe each other from their 'Odd Couple' days. Maybe because Moreno is still with us ? Struthers looks great - she lost a lot of weight, it seems.

Having my share of both, I have to say 'growers' (for me) make the experience more exciting. Maybe because I'm a grower ?

Since many of these traveling providers don't bother to say how long they will be in a particular town for (they list the city as their 'hometown'), I did contact this guy this morning around 9 am for an erotic massage today - whenever was convenient for him. He got back to me in a half hour and asked how soon could I be there since he had to check out of his hotel (about 25 minutes away) at 11 am. Yet another brilliant young business mind at work.

Bump - Back in my area this weekend! Any experience ?

Anything new to add the past 18 months ? In my area now and he's looking good. For those who met him and did 'mutual touch' - was oral allowed (I know some / most say yes, others say no). PM if you want.

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Cher's memoir (part one) came out this past November, and has been sitting on the top of the NYT Best Seller's list for six weeks (take that, Barbra* !) Last night she was on Jimmy Kimmel, and she said that she decided to split her memoir (covering over six decades) into two parts, since a whole book would be too big to carry around, and no one would end up reading it (take that, Barbra*!). Her 'Part 2' will be out the end of this year (November, 2025) and pick up in the 80s when she became a movie actress (and resurrected her recording career). Part One was her early childhood, meeting Sonny, beginning their recording studio, and their TV success which made them celebrities. I read the book (about 400 pages) between Christmas - New Year's, and truly enjoyed it. I was hesitant at first, thinking it wouldn't reveal too much - just the same stuff she has said in interviews over the decades - but it was a nice surprise. (I do wish she really covered more stuff in detail, such as losing the role to Streisand in the 1976 movie 'A Star Is Born', and Neil Bogart trying to push Donna Summer into giving her the "Bad Girls" album when she arrived at Casablanca), alas she didn't.) I highly recommend. Last year I couldn't wait to crack open the Streisand memoir. I grew disappointed as the book went on (especially once she got to the 1990's and beyond) as I found it repetitious. I grew bored with it by the last few chapters, and still haven't finished it. Others found it wonderful and entertaining - go figure. (I've been a fan of Cher and Streisand for around the same length of time). *Barbra's book, released in November, 2023, is over 900 pages and peaked at #4 on the NYT Best Seller list - being kept out of the top spot by Britney Spears, Matthew Perry and Liz Cheney. It fell out of the Top 10 by mid-January. Many blame it was too much to read at once, and too cumbersome to carry around.

Have you seen his nude shots (when they were available online this summer) with his semi-hard dick ? You won't be stunned just by his eyes or smile anymore.

As someone else said on another forum, I miss the days when there was just PBS, CBS,NBC and ABC and movies were seen in theaters, so everyone had a chance to see the nominated TV shows and movies. Everyone knew - or at least heard of - the actors and actresses nominated. Now you have to subscribe to dozens of 'streamers' to be familiar with the shows, movies, actors and actresses nominated. Like the awards season itself, it's too much and too exhausting, and I fear these award shows will continue to lose viewers due to 'disinterest'.

Damn! I thought this would be about Cedric Hodges from this past summer's "Big Brother" reality show who also has a big cock. I thought, 'my prayers have been answered - he's escorting now!' Oh well...back to church to pray... Instagram WWW.INSTAGRAM.COM See Instagram 'Body🌠' highlights from Cedric 🫶🏽 (@officiallyced)

IIRC, when she visited the Vatican years ago and had a private audience with The Pope, he began his conversation in Italian and she was completely lost. He then switched to English, and she understood him. When the worldwide press questioned this, her handlers said 'she followed protocol in speaking to international dignitaries in English' (or something along those lines). That was a head-scratcher, for sure. Enough about her, back to the stud muffins we're talking about here...

The bottom line is: When you're booking an appointment with a new masseur, ASK what the price includes. I always do so there is no confusion or conflict once the appointment begins. I always opt for an erotic massage, because I want to engage in mutual touch and I want a HE (through my experience over the past 20+ years, those are not included in 'sensual'). So when booking, I ask upfront via text: "Are we both nude during the appointment ? Is mutual touching allowed during the session ? Do I get a HE included ? " If the answer to all three is 'yes', then I book. If the answers are vague (sometimes, not often) such as 'We'll see where the session takes us...' or 'I like to focus on the energy between us...' or some BS, I thank them for their time, and move on. Once I book, the masseur follows through with what was promised. On one occasion, where the guy didn't allow MT or HE, I went along with him but pulled out the text exchange and showed him when it came time to pay. He feigned 'No understand English well' and I reminded him that his English was fine during the session when we were chatting and he understood very well. I then offered him pay for a sensual massage since he didn't provide erotic as we agreed on. THAT he understood perfectly. He asked me to get back on the table, and we ended up having about 30 minutes extra of 'fun' - and he got paid for erotic. Happy ending indeed. As for upselling, the very first time it happened to me was about 25 years ago when I was in NYC on business, and found a masseur (through a back-page ad, as there were no iPhones, no sites such as this) in HK. I remember this like it was yesterday. The guy's name was 'Mark' and I lucked out - beautiful shoulder length jet black hair, dark eyes, sexy smile and a muscled body (I believe he said he was Samoan). Beautiful guy. He offered only sensual massage or erotic, so I went with sensual not knowing the difference between the two but it was about $100 cheaper (I was still very new to this). He massaged in a black bikini brief, and kept rubbing my ass getting me aroused. Overall, the massage was good but I couldn't relax - I was nervous just looking at his beautiful VPL, six pack and chest (he kept telling me to relax). When he flipped me over, he lowered his bikini brief to show me his semi-aroused dick, and he raised my arms upward to massage and suggested I feel his chest 'for me to relax', which only aroused me more. At this point on my back, I'm rock hard and he starts fondling my dick but not jerking me off. He tells me he has a bed available in the other room if I want to 'get the best fuck of my life'. I asked him how much that would be and he said, 'Not much - just another $250.' I thanked him and said, 'Maybe next time I see you'. He almost had another easy $250 in his pocket. I left with blue balls, and couldn't wait to get to my hotel room to finish off. I did call him again when I returned to NYC a few months later, but his phone was disconnected.

I've also used the 'auto-reply' on my phone for incoming messages when I'm at a meeting and have my phone in silence. It's really not that hard to do - technology has come a long way in the past 25 years.

Speaking of mouthwash, I wish providers would use it before meeting clients (mainly me). I can't tell you the number of guys who I couldn't wait to embrace close to me and kiss and all I can smell is garlic or bok choy from their veggie dinner / lunch. A total turn-off (mostly those under 40).

Melania Trump claims she's a polyglot, fluent in her native Slovenian, as well as fluent in French, German, Italian, and English (though the jury is still debating her 'fluency in English'), so I guess she's one of the prestigious 5%. 😀

1. If they're busy with a 60 or 90 minute appt with a client, why don't they update their status to 'not available now' shortly before the client arrives ? How difficult can that be ? 2. See #1 response. 3. Yes, I usually do if the phone is near me (happens quite a bit when I'm working as I have a different schedule than most). I simply text, "Busy right now. I'll call you later". It takes less than 15 seconds for me to text / send that message. It's 2025 - very easy and quick to communicate these days as well as update status info when your time will be blocked out for an hour or so.

"Available now" from a provider reminds me of many of my friends who say, "If you need me to help you with that (something I'm working on), I'm available!" That means, "I'm available until you need me, so don't call me to help you."

This reminds me of a friend of mine who - for years - would never go out to a restaurant and eat alone. There were plenty of times she would get home from work and not want to cook for herself, but she was afraid of 'what others' would think if she went to a restaurant she liked and 'ate by herself'. She said to me once that she feared others around her would be judging her, 'Were they thinking - poor thing, she can't find a boyfriend ? She has no friends to go out with ? No family ? No one likes her?' The fact was there were plenty of nights when no one was around to have dinner with, and she didn't want to stay home and cook after a long day (she was too tired). I finally convinced her to give it a try - who cares what the others are thinking? Have a seat at the bar, order a wine and a nice meal, and enjoy yourself - that's what they're supposed to provide you at a restaurant: good food and a nice time. They don't care why you're there. She tired it one night, went back another night the following week - and she does it regularly now, ten years later. She overcame her fear of 'what everyone was thinking' and now goes to her regular places on nights she's dining alone, sits at the bar, and has a wonderful time with 'the regulars'. Same with providers - they don't care why you're there. They're available to (hopefully) provide you with a great time (whether a massage is included or not), and forget about the rest of the world. They aren't there to judge - they're there to give you the time of your life; even if it's for an hour or so. They are proud of their skills, their looks, their bodies and want you to enjoy your time with them. Period.

A masseur who I met this past summer (wonderful guy) advertises on both sites, but makes it clear on RentMen he only offers massage. In conversation, this came up and I asked him why he advertises there when he's not an escort. He did say because many of the clients he had found over the years was through that site - most of them didn't go on RentMasseur or MasseurFinder. As he said, "I think sometimes they're looking for something intimate but not necessarily sex - so 'massage' catches their eye and they call me." Smart marketing on his part.

He's in my area this weekend. I was going to call to do an hour with him, but that interview turned me off - handsome guy with a great body, but he's too effeminate for my liking. And he lists his age in his current ad as 28 - I don't think he's seen 28 in the past 10 years (he looks much older - especially in his photos).

I remember when my mother died unexpectedly from pneumonia in the summer of 1997 right before her 64th birthday, one of the first things my dad did when he was home by himself (a week or two later) was to 'clean out the basement'. He needed to keep occupied and busy. My sister and I were in our mid-30s, so the basement was mostly filled with our 'stuff' which we hadn't touched in years (from childhood - college years) and had long forgotten about. Good riddance to all of that ! Aside from that, there was plenty of 'stuff' my dad had packed away down there and hadn't needed in decades. I would say less than 10% belonged to my mother. So my dad does a big clean-out and gets rid of about half the stuff down there. A few days later, he carries it all upstairs and lines the curb with boxes of junk for the trash delivery to pick up. One of my neighbors saw all the boxes of junk lined up on the curb (and she knew my mom very well), and came over to talk to me that day when I was getting out of my car. She asked in a nice way, 'Where did all that come from ?' and I told her 'The basement. My dad's been cleaning out the basement this week.' She responded, "Wow! I've known your mother for nearly 40 years. I never knew she was such a hoarder. She kept the house so neat and spotless." I let out such a laugh - I needed that. Then I had to explain to her it wasn't my mother's stuff - it belonged to me, my sister, and dad. My mother kept nothing (she wasn't really a 'keeper' of anything, which is how she kept the house so clean and spotless). My neighbor and I couldn't stop laughing. She said to me, 'Well you know, timing is everything - and it looks like you father finally got the chance to get rid of all the stuff your mother hoarded for years.'

Anything? Back in my area now.

Lavin's husband tells the whole story of what happened the past few weeks, and her final hours. VERY SAD.

I wouldn't tip a Rabbi, either.

A little trivia on how Tyne Daly was offered the role of Mama Rose back in the 1989 revival (according to an interview Daly did a while after the run ended)... According to Daly, someone (I believe it was Sondheim) saw Daly on the ABC / Dolly Parton variety show "Dolly!" which ran on Sunday nights for one season from Sept., 1987 - May, 1988. Daly guest starred on the 18th episode, which aired on April 9, 1988. There was a weekly segment called 'Dixie's Place' which Dolly played a diner owner named 'Dixie', and each week she'd sing with one of the 'customers' - this week is was Daly who played a truckdriver who stops in for a late night dinner. She tells 'Dixie' about the troubles with her husband at home, and sings 'If I Could Be There'. Sondheim (?) is captivated by Daly's performance, and calls Laurents - telling him he has found "Mama Rose" for the revival Laurents has been working on. Laurents is able to catch the performance (I believe someone had recorded it and lent him the tape) and agrees - there's something about Daly's performance which convinces him she's the next 'Mama Rose'. Laurents gets in touch with Daly, and the rest is history (she, at first, thought he was kidding when he proposed the offer to her). Chances are, if she wasn't invited to be a guest on Dolly's show, and if she (a non-musical actress) didn't get the chance to sing, she would never have been thought of for the revival. At the time, Liza Minnelli, Bette Midler and Bernadette Peters all said that they were 'being considered' for the role of 'Mama Rose' in the revival, but lost out to Daly. Laurents said he never ever considered any of them. He acknowledged that Midler had contacted him asking for the rights to the material because she wanted to produce and star in a remake of the movie musical (the original one was Roz Russel's 1962 movie). Laurents told her 'no', as he was preparing to launch a revival within the next year or so. He claimed she never expressed interest in the Broadway revival, nor did he express any interest in her.