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I can't believe he's still in business (I've had a few appointments with him in MA over the past decade or so, since I find his body very attractive, thinking the next one would be better...but no, so I gave up a few years ago). He's a constant name changer, so it's tough to find older reviews. And for the record, I know for a fact he hasn't seen his 'advertised age' in 15 years. JasonMassageVIP - Male Massage & Bodywork in Providence, RI | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur JasonMassageVIP in Providence, RI offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual, swedish, hotStone, deepTissue.

I have to say he has one of the better descriptions of what he offers in his 'about me' section. It's clear-cut and very enticing to a first-timer with him. Wish he was in my city !

I'm curious about how traveling providers determine their prices from one location to another. I'm in Providence, and I can't believe the number of travelers (for both escort and massage) who prices themselves right out of the market. For example, many of them visit Boston first, then hit the road and visit Providence for a night or two - yet they charge the same amount as in Boston, even though they are in two completely different markets. Some of my 'regulars' even comment on the world of difference between pricing at Boston hotels vs Providence hotels (under the same brand), as well as the price of take-out food, chain drugstores, etc. As consumers themselves in the two different markets, in which they see the vast difference in consumer pricing, wouldn't that influence them somehow in pricing of their own services ? Just a curious rant.

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And again today. How much does he pay to be man of the day ?

In another thread, I mentioned my most recent encounter with one of my all-time favorite masseurs. He has an incredible body, handsome face, provides a wonderful experience and really is a pleasure to be with for 90 minutes (interesting conversationalist). If I had any complaint, it's his lack of any body hair below his neck - completely smooth. Since he's very open about himself, I thought I'd ask about this when I met up with him a few weeks ago. He didn't mind the question at all, and wanted to share. (I can tell he loves when people ask him about him, and make a more personal connection with him - not just a massage and HE). He said that when he was in high school, and all his friends and classmates started growing bushes on their dicks, underarm hair, and hair on their chest, he had nothing. He admitted he was self-conscious about this when they were in the locker room after gym or track meets - being a senior in HS and no hair on his body (though he was growing facial hair). He talked about this with one of his friends, and his friend assured him he was a 'late bloomer'. He went through college the same way in his late teens / early 20s - getting dressed in the locker room and nothing but a few hairs around his dick, a few hairs under his arms and around his nipples (yet he was able to grow a beard / mustache). Meanwhile, his friends had nice bushes on their dicks and under their arms, and by then, they were even trimming them down. He then noticed the more muscled guys were shaving everything off, and even though he wasn't a huge muscle guy, he decided to do the same. Whatever light hair grew in, he'd shave it off clean. And at 39, that's what he's been doing (he said once a week) - shaving off the straggly hair which comes in under his arms, on his chest, or around his dick. He has a nicely trimmed beard / mustache. He advertises as 'naturally smooth', as the hair he shaves off is so light it leaves no stubble behind. He told this story so sweetly and innocently, it was actually erotic to me - and I got so hard on the massage table listening to him. What was ironic was that I was his first appointment for the day (mid-afternoon) and he told me he had just shaved all the stragglers off before I got there (which is why he was running a few minutes late). I told him next time if this happens, wait until I get there - I want to see him shave it off. (He just laughed, so who knows).

Repeats of "I Love Lucy" would get a 78% bigger audience than 'The Talk' these days. Let's see where the ratings are this summer, once the honeymoon is over.

He's in RI now. Anything new to report ?

After a while, I would book in advance with the agency - like three or four days before I got there and would request a centerfold I had my eye on. 90% of the time, they would be available for me (I would never refer to their name in the magazine, I would just ask 'Does Mr. July work for you ?' if the answer was yes, I'd say 'Is he available for me this Sunday night ?' Back then, the guys were $200 hour (which they did tell me that they split with the agency). None of them were ever rude or cold, they were all personable and enjoyable to be with. None of them ever minded that I would have their issue in my suitcase, and ask them to sign their 'centerfold'. (Most would sign their autograph on their erect dick in the photo, thinking they were clever - I loved it!). I miss those days. (I would always ask casually, in conversation, if they were straight / gay / bi. The majority of them said 'gay'.)

The agency I booked with back then (again, I think it was called 'Menhattan'; I know there was a play with the name 'Manhattan') must've had some 'exclusive deal' with PLAYGIRL at the time in which they recommended the agency to the models interested in capitalizing on their 'new fame'. I mean, they had at least a dozen models from the magazine at any time (not just one or two). Whatever they did - it was a genius marketing move on their part. I miss those agencies - you didn't play a game of 'will the escort ghost me ?' when you were in the mood for hiring. The guys showed up - or called you if they were late (usually subway delays).

I remember when I first started hiring escorts, it was only when I went away to NYC on business back in the late 90s (a friend of mine talked me into it). I was in my late 30s, and wanted to 'experience' some fantasies. This was waaaaaaaaaay before the internet and 'Rentmen' (or 'Rentboy'), so I had to pull out the Yellow Pages and peruse through the ads of agencies promoting 'gay male escorts' (I swear it seemed like there were more 'male for male' agencies than there were female-for-male agencies or male-for-female agencies.) I chose one (I think it was called 'Menhattan' or something like that) and after a few answers from me, the 'booking agent' on the other end (who was as nice as could be) suggested this one guy who was a former Playgirl centerfold. I nearly jumped out of my skin because I bought the magazine every month and remembered almost every guy and fantasized about most of them. The name the agent gave me didn't ring a bell, because he used his real name in the magazine and (naturally) a 'stage name' for the agency. He wouldn't tell me the name he went by in the magazine either, and just told me 'he was a centerfold in the past twelve months'. It was a nerve-wracking few hours before I got the knock on my hotel door, and when I opened the door - there was one of my favorite centerfolds in the flesh (don't ask, can't remember his name or month - just recall he had dirty blond hair and a nice lightly hairy chest). From that day on, I only booked through that agency (until they closed up shop) and trusted them to send me 'one of the new Playgirl hires' (and they didn't disappoint). The good ol' days.

Heading to my end for the rest of this week / weekend. Anything to share from anyone ?

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Here's the business model you and others are searching for... By any chance, are you familiar with the NFL, MLB and NBA ? Have you heard about 'star athletes' who sign contracts for million$ of dollars (often more than what these political commentators are making) with various teams, play one - maybe two - games, get injured during the game and sit out the rest of the season...and still get paid their million$ ? And their 'season' is about 5-6 months. Nice work if you can get it. Who pays for this ? The poor families across the country who ended up paying thousands of dollars in tickets (not to mention hot dogs, drinks, and ice cream) for a Sunday football game, baseball game or basketball game.

Sad news in the music world. Carl Dean, Dolly Parton's husband of nearly 60 years, died Monday at 82. No cause of death was announced, and funeral services will be private. Dean was said to be the inspiration of Parton's hit song "Jolene". In an interview 40 years after she recorded the song, she said it was inspired by a bank teller who was a 'little too flirty' with her handsome husband. Parton, 79, said her husband spent an 'awful long time each day to do his banking', and it was because of the pretty teller. The public never really saw Dean, as he was a very private person and shunned award ceremonies and other events in honor of his wife, just to stay out of the public spotlight and paparazzi. Only a few photos of him have surfaced from the first 20 years of his marriage to Parton. Carl Dean, Dolly Parton's husband of nearly 60 years who inspired 'Jolene,' dies at 82 APNEWS.COM Carl Dean, Dolly Parton’s husband of nearly 60 years, has died. The country music superstar says Dean died Monday in Nashville, Tennessee. He was 82.

Nearly a year later - these two hot guys are still located in the Boston area. Someone is paying their bills. Anyone here contribute to these guys in the past year ? Any experiences to share ?

He may be the first to get the death penalty according to a new law just signed into law by the Governor a few weeks ago, according to another article on line: The unusual case could also be one of the first to fall under Florida’s newest and controversial law, the automatic death sentence of any undocumented immigrant convicted of a capital offense. Gov. Ron DeSantis signed it into law just two weeks ago. https://www.miamiherald.com/news/local/crime/article300896619.html

Looks like he has relocated to Rhode Island, serving CT and MA as well. Anyone have any new experience with him ? Anything to share ? I'm kind of interested in him .

Looks like this guy has fled Providence after six months, and is now in New Orleans. A friend of mine tried making an appointment with him and he told him he relocated to New Orleans.

He's in my area this coming week along with Bodi. I'm interested, but since nothing is too clear on either guy, I'll sit this one out.

In my area this week. Anyone with experience ?

Sounds like this was a set-up. Someone close to him or the woman made a phone call. I don't think anyone else has anything to be concerned about.

Up until a year ago, I worked in a university's library for a decade. I worked with plenty of students one-on-one as well as student workers by my side. I gave up on their 'preferred pronouns' as well as their sexual orientation, as it changed day to day with each student. Actually, their sexual orientation could change in one conversation. I remember one cute senior who started a 90 minute shift with me, telling me all about his girlfriend of four years and their break-up the night before. She told him she was attracted to women, never attracted to him (I found this incredible, as the whole student body and myself was attracted to him). 'Okay....let's get back to work', I say with a smile. A half hour later he wanted to talk about the break-up some more, and declared he was gay. Until the break-up 12 hours earlier, he didn't realize how attracted to guys he really is (his words, not mine). He loves everything about the male body. 'Great - let's get back to work', I say. I see he's still 'thinking' and on his social media (no, he didn't do any work for that shift). About ten minutes before he left for the day, he tells me to 'Forget what I said earlier - I'm straight. I thought I was gay, but I'm into girls. Maybe I'm a little gay, but mostly straight.' Great - see you next week. (And for the next few months, until graduation, he kept fluctuating between being straight and gay - said he was definitely not bisexual - but as far as he told me, he never had a gay sexual encounter).

CONTINUED: Meanwhile, online media floods them with conflicting messages — be yourself, but also conform to the latest social justice trend; prioritize self-care, but remain hyper-productive; reject traditional roles, but somehow still find meaning in life. However, placing all the blame on media platforms misses the bigger picture. The identity frenzy is a perfect storm of cultural, economic and existential upheaval. When every traditional structure that once provided meaning has seemingly crumbled, young people are left to grasp at whatever semblance of identity they can find. Redefining oneself through sexual or gender labels becomes a quick fix — a way to feel part of something, stand out in a crowd or escape the overwhelming sense of hopelessness. But it’s a fleeting fix, like slapping a Band-Aid on a bullet wound. When identity is used to patch up an existential hole, it rarely works long-term. Labels might offer temporary comfort, but they can’t provide the deep sense of purpose that past generations found in more enduring things. This could explain why rates of anxiety, depression and loneliness remain sky-high among young people — even as they proclaim newfound identities. Ironically, what was once a form of rebellion has become mainstream. In some social circles, being straight or traditionally gendered is now the “boring” option — the new conformity. It’s less about who someone truly is and more about not wanting to be left out. When everyone around you is changing their label or announcing a new identity, staying the same can feel like you’re missing the party. This isn’t to say all these young people are faking. Human identity is complex. But when it becomes a bandwagon, something is clearly off. In the end, maybe the real crisis isn’t about how many Gen Zers identify as LGBTQ — it’s about why so many young people feel the need to reinvent themselves in the first place. John Mac Ghlionn is a writer and researcher who explores culture, society and the impact of technology on daily life.

This article yesterday from 'The Hill' has the percentage at nearly 25% and the writer has his doubts. For some reason, it won't let me link, so here's a copy and paste: Is nearly a quarter of Gen Z really queer — or is something else going on? BY JOHN MAC GHLIONN, OPINION CONTRIBUTOR - 02/28/25 7:00 AM ET According to a new Gallup report, nearly one in four Gen Z Americans identifies as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender or queer. That’s more than just a statistic — it’s a statement, and a troubling one, for reasons that will become clearer. Just over a decade ago, the number was a fraction of that. Are young people more open and accepting, or is there something deeper at play? I believe it’s the latter. Yes, times have changed. Being gay or transgender is no longer the social taboo it once was. However, newfound acceptance alone cannot explain these large numbers. Beneath the surface lies something far more complicated: a growing hunger for an identity in a generation that, paradoxically, has never been more connected yet feels more lost than ever. To be clear, there’s nothing wrong with self-discovery. Every generation has had its phases of rebellion — leather jackets in the 1950s, tie-dye in the ’60s and grunge in the ’90s. But something different is happening now. This isn’t just fashion or music tastes — it’s identity, something once considered deeply personal and relatively stable. Now, it is fluid, marketable, and, crucially, public. Obviously, social media plays a huge role. In a world where every thought can be broadcast to thousands in seconds, identity is part of a carefully choreographed performance. Declaring a new label becomes content — something to post about, something that earns attention and approval, likes and shares. When being “different” grants you social clout, why settle for being ordinary? The pressure is immense, especially for teenagers whose brains are wired to crave peer acceptance. Part of this sudden rush to redefine oneself stems from a disturbing broader trend. Specifically, a lack of solid foundations. Previous generations found identity through family, faith, nation or community — anchors that provided stability and a sense of belonging. However, Gen Z has come of age in a very different world. Religion has lost its influence, with churches emptying and traditional moral frameworks dismissed as outdated. Patriotism, once a unifying force, is often portrayed as naïve or even shameful. Families are more fractured than ever, with high divorce rates, an increasing number of single-parent households and children spending more time raised by screens than by parents. Real-world communities — neighborhoods where kids once played outside, and families knew each other — have been replaced by transient, disconnected living arrangements where people barely nod at their neighbors. But it’s not just these traditional pillars that have weakened. The economic landscape has shifted dramatically, leaving many young people feeling disillusioned. Homeownership — the cornerstone of the American Dream — is increasingly out of reach. Stable, long-term jobs have been replaced by gig work and unstable contracts. College, once seen as a pathway to success, now often leads to crushing debt with no guarantee of meaningful employment. Add to this the constant drumbeat of climate catastrophe, political dysfunction and media narratives painting the future as bleak, and it’s no wonder young people feel utterly disillusioned. Education, which could and should offer guidance, has, in recent times, become more about pushing ideological viewpoints than fostering critical thinking. Students are encouraged to focus on their feelings and identities rather than developing resilience or a sense of purpose beyond themselves.