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  1. rvwnsd

    ToooooCute

    My cats LOVE to play with each others' tails. Built-in cat toy!
  2. Who could that be?
  3. And I hope that's just what you did! Happy birthday, Tyro!!!!!
  4. Since Damon Andross is no longer in San Diego, folks who have hired him recently might not see this thread because they would not have seen him in SD. You might want to post a new thread about him.
  5. I don't know, but if it happened to me I would send a message to RM explaining the situation and ask them to delete the review for me.
  6. Sounds like a dream vacation - travel around the world to find blonde, built, very hairy men.
  7. rvwnsd

    JAMES XL

    All excellent points. For the third or fourth time in my 53 years on the planet I cannot think of anything to add.
  8. If you want to get shit organized and done correctly and timely, you hire me. If I want to spend quality, sexy time with a ripped, handsome stud I hire an escort. You get what you pay for.
  9. When I PM someone I am courteous and friendly - and I assume others will be the same. The overwhelming majority of PMs I've received, from both new and long-time members fit in that category. On the few occasions where a PM has not been friendly/courteous/etc I don't respond. I was one of the recipients of a message sent to a large group by a new member. The whole thing was odd, from the notion of sending a group message to the tone. I didn't reply.
  10. I agree with both of these posts. In the case of this escort, he might have changed his screen name because there are several Middle Eastern escorts in LA.
  11. I would, yes. Then again, I also subscribed to a handful of Only Fans guys whose content seemed interesting. I'm remaining a subscriber to one guy, not so much with others. We can pay $24 to a site like Sean Cody and see updated content every few days. Some Only Fans guys charge less than $10, while many are in the $15 - $20 range. Some of the guys in the $15 - $20 range post once or twice a week but only post teasers to draw customers to their longer videos they sell directly. I agree this is not an Only Fans issue - it is the guy who is advertising. Regarding the assertion that Only Fans is not paying its guys, I asked a guy to whom I subscribe whether he gets paid timely and he said that he does. That's not to say some guys might have an issue with their account. Some guys will post descriptions of their content underneath the content itself so a non-subscriber can see a description of what they would get if they were to subscribe. Many guys don't do that. Unless I know of the guy's work through other means, I won't subscribe if he does not describe the contents. Only Fans is a venue for guys to post their vids and charge others to see them. Like any marketplace, there are good and bad sellers. It is difficult to sort them out, but with a little bit of reasoning once can attempt to do so.
  12. MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM Man, oh, man I miss The Bagel. Used to stop at the one in Skokie when I worked near O'Hare and lived in Evanston.
  13. Certainly, hand washing with hot/warm water is the best way to get your hands clean. However, alcohol-based hand sanitizer (unlike anti-bacterial soaps containing triclosan) will not cause antibiotic resistance and/or superbugs because it does not contain antibiotics. Here are two articles on the topic: Mother Jones Business Insider
  14. The last few times I ordered "English" poppers (i.e. supposedly the "real" poppers) they ended up being isopropyl nitrite and had no effect but to give me a headache. Before that, they were made of isobutyl nitrite, which were better, but not the same as what you could find in the 1990's.
  15. I had a stomach virus right after the holidays. No symptoms other than the stomach, so my guess is it was not the flu. I also had a flu shot, which is recommended for asthmatics like me. I've noticed that I don't get as sick as I did prior to getting flu shots. Regarding a refusal to deep-kiss, I don't kiss my colleagues at work, deep or otherwise, yet I still picked up the stomach virus that was going around the office. I postponed on one escort and declined to hire one who contacted me because I was sick and did not want to get THEM sick. Three weeks of non-stop bathroom runs is NOT fun and I don't want to be responsible for getting someone sick.
  16. Even if you don't live "in the middle of nowhere" decent poppers can be hard to come by. In some areas, like San Diego, they are almost impossible to find. I've had good luck buying from a site called Buy from Ben.
  17. Are you suggesting [uSER=17596]@SimonL[/uSER], married (presumably to a woman) for 30 years with a family should tell his wife? Or were you speaking about @KyleS, to whom I stated: Based on the context of the second part of your post (quoted directly above) I'm guessing you thought I was speaking to @KyleS when I said it is best to remain silent. I was speaking to [uSER=17596]@SimonL[/uSER] who, based on being married for 30 years, fits in the category of older guys who married young.
  18. I downloaded the extension for Chrome and it works!! THANK YOU!!!!!
  19. OK, got it! Sorry - was being very slow this AM. It is possible (and likely) that the people who posted them to the torrent site did as I do and recorded from the screen.
  20. There's nothing wrong with being selfish from time to time. In terms of being "dishonest," I'd say your were not being completely open and, at this point, I think you should remain being less than completely open for everyone's benefit. One of the things we tell guys in our coming out group is that the only person to whom you need to come out is you. Everyone else is optional. It is easy for others to label you as being "dishonest." I'll use the same label with them, as they do not acknowledge the consequences of being "honest."
  21. I'm not following. Are you saying that you can see the videos the poster posts to OnlyFans in a torrent and not in OnlyFans?
  22. Welcome, @KyleS. I whole-heartedly endorse and echo what others have said in regards to labels. You are YOU. There is no need to affix a label like "gay" or "straight" or "bi" or "queer" to yourself. People like to put things in boxes and they want to do the same with other people. You do not have to buy into that. In fact, I'll go one step further and say you shouldn't. It is impressive to see that you have taken a thorough, analytical approach to understanding what turns you on sexually. Hold onto it and re-visit it on a regular basis, as your desires might very well change over time. You should also take that same thorough, analytical approach to understanding whether marrying a woman and having children is right for you. The following line is what drives me to say that: The question on my mind is the notion that it is "natural" to get married and have kids. You should explore that one a bit more and understand where that comes from. Not to be too nit-picky (well, OK, I'm being nit-picky - it is who I am) but who says it is natural and is that to say not getting married and having kids is unnatural? (Not trying to put you on the defensive - just something for you to explore.) You might also want to explore whether you actually like being around children and will like being a father. True story - my sister-in-law likes kids but does not like being a mom. She pretty much sucks at it. My brother likes kids, likes and loves his kids, and is really "into" being a dad (and a mom, too, sometimes). If he could be a professional father he and a bunch of kids would be better off for it. I, on the other hand, recognize the value of children in preserving the human species but honestly don't like being around most of them. My niece and nephew and wonderful kids (and I mean that - my brother and sister-in-law raised them well) and I like spending time with them, but thank God I can go to my home and they stay in their home. If you have kids you, unlike me, will NOT be able to leave them in their home unless you fathered kids with a woman and do not live with them. Which, of course, is an alternative to being in a male/female marriage where you, your spouse, and the kids all live together. When it comes to dating, I feel that being honest relatively early is the best option. No, I don't think discussing your desire to be with bodybuilders is a first-date topic, but when things look like they are moving into "dating" territory that conversation should be had. You might want to seek out dating venues for people who identify as bisexual, so as to find someone who will be more understanding of your wants and needs because they might have complimentary wants and needs. Oh no, this is NOT a solution. It is a recipe for disaster. Don't even entertain the idea. You are signing yourself up for a lifetime of guilt and the feeling that you are sneaking around. You also set yourself up for being found out and having to engage in a very difficult conversation that will NOT be fun. If you think having a conversation with a potential girlfriend/wife is hard, think about how hard that conversation would be in twenty years when she is your wife and the mother of your kids. Which leads to this question: Do you date women that turn into romantic relationships or do you do date-like stuff together, fuck around, and then when one/both of you gets bored go your separate ways? The question isn't intended to be a barometer of sexual orientation, but rather of whether you really want to have a romantic relationship with a woman. I know this has given you more questions than answers, but the ore questions one asks the more answers they receive. those answers, when stitched together, can be very valuable and insightful.
  23. I'd say they are about the same.
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