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Doubtful. It probably has more to do with: his previous publicly-stated views (many of which have been published in his ads) that even the most fervent member of the alt-right would shy away from his current publicly-stated views (many of which have been published in his ads) that even the most fervent member of the far, far, far, far left would shy away from his "outing" a CFO who hired him and had to cancel - after paying his fee and setting him up in a hotel; said CFO is the brother of a former Treasury secretary (the same "outing" was published by Gawker and contributed to their demise) his claim that he is the Russian dossier author Quite frankly, dude is nuts. So, if you would like to test his business model, make up some shit that even the National Enquirer wouldn't print, charge $10,000 per hour, and let us know what happens.

My first thought was exactly what @MiamiLooker said, but based on your comment I'll use a different term - sexual assault. In my opinion (and it sounds like @MiamiLooker thinks along the same lines) a person who uses their physical size to attempt unwanted sexual content with someone who is smaller than they are and is in a weakened state due to an injury has at the very least attempted to sexually assault the other party.

You might want to continue reading and then snip the parts about libel and not posting reviews in the message center.

Count me in the same column as @nycman and @maninsoma when it comes to providing details in the public forum. The rules are actually quite clear. The issue is that some posters choose not to follow them and/or see how far they can stretch them. There have been some who want specific examples of what they can and cannot ask in the public forum, which I equate with asking just how far above the speed limit one can drive before one will get pulled over for speeding.If you want to know or share details, take it to a "conversation" (i.e. what we call a PM.) @nycman makes an excellent point about "conversations." When someone I know asks me for details of an escort or masseur session, I am happy to provide details. When someone I don't know starts asking for details, more details, and still more details I provide general answers because I don't know their motivation for asking. When being asked about a masseur's level of interaction I am more general than when asked about an escort because I recognize that a masseur's comfort level at crossing the line between masseur and escort might depend upon chemistry.

Unless, of course, you meet them in a Walmart buying toothpaste or toilet paper.

I think it does. He's classifying everyone as either "beautiful" or "ugly." Seems like there is no room for "good-looking" or "pretty."

That says more about him than it does about the people around him.

That's right. You can tell us who he is and invite members to contact you via PM for additional details, if there are any.

I'm sorry to hear about your experience. When you say "stop" that means stop. Period. I don't think you are a fool for wanting to try again. I also don't think you are a fool for not wanting to use Rent Masseur, but it seems a bit unfair to paint all of their advertisers with the same broad brush. If you found a guy on Masseurfinder but he also advertised on Rent Massuer would you decline to hire him?

If you sign up for CBS's app you get a one-month free trial. After that, it is $10/month, so you could see all thirteen episodes for $20. I did that to see the Carol Burnett Show 50th Anniversary Special and intend to keep the app because they give you access to past episodes of several CBS shows in addition to live streaming the current shows.

You should definitely text him every 15 minutes. Escorts love that. But seriously...I would send a text along the lines of "Hey [name of escort] it's [your name]. Are we still on for Saturday? If I don't hear back by [insert a day/time] I'll assume you can't meet." At [day/time]:01 I'd start contacting other escorts. If Escort 1 gets back to you after you have already made plans with someone else, well, he lost your business.

Murphy Brown is one of my all-time favorite shows. So glad they are bringing it back.

Puppy! I lived in an urban neighborhood in Mid-City San Diego and would occasionally see a coyote ambling down the street at night. Closer to the edge of canyons one could see them during the day. Scary.

The payoffs could explain his high rate. Guy's gotta make some money after all.

An easy way to ascertain this before launching into details via text is to text "Hi, [insert name of escort] this is [insert your name] and I'm inquiring about your ad." Once he replies you can launch into the spiel about liking whatever you like. The probability of you reaching someone other than the escort who is running a non-escort ad is slim to none.

I especially like the part about him starting the Russia investigation.

@youngboldone, here is what I typically write in my first email via the Rent.men email service: "Hi [insert name of escort] Your ad caught my eye and I want to see if we are compatible and possibly hire you. I'm a very oral bottom and love to suck, rim, and lick; muscle worship is a huge turn-on as is gear and underwear. When the chemistry is right I like to kiss and cuddle and if we decide to go there I am a bottom. I'm thinking of hiring on [insert date or dates]. What are your thoughts? Thanks and looking forward to hearing from you rvwnsd" Fewer than five times since texting has become commonplace has an escort told me that he would only communicate by text. I contact guys who are in their mid-twenties to their fifties. Most will reply via email whether or not they would enjoy what I describe and more than half remark that they appreciate my approach. After this point I've had guys want to switch to texting, which is fine with me. This begs the question: why is your experience so different than mine and the others who use a similar approach? Not knowing exactly what you write, I can speculate: You are contacting escorts who are not, in general, good matches for you You are saying something that causes the escorts to become concerned and block your phone number You are catching them at inconvenient times They all have poor reading comprehension skills They are all assholes None of them want to establish commonality before meeting Some combination of the above You mentioned not being able to afford hiring "a toad." I don't think anyone can afford (or wants to) hire someone who will not deliver a good time. However, there are no guarantees that the playdate will be perfect. Based on commentary you have made in this thread and others, that seems to be your expectation. Here are a few suggestions to make your hiring experience more pleasant: State what you want and when you want it up-front. Don't make the escort wait for five emails, texts, or phone calls to figure out you want to blow him and cuddle afterwards on Tuesday. When you find a guy who interests you, ask about him in The Deli. When you ask, keep in mind that reviews are not allowed. To avoid that, invite guys to contact you via PM (formerly "Private Message," now "Starting a Conversation") with details. When you ask us about a guy, tell us what you like to do, the kinds of guys you like, and where you want to meet. That way, if you want a smooth, ultra-cut blonde in LA I won't recommend Raul G Manzo. Likewise, if you want an edgy, super-hung, brunette in Chicago I won't recommend Rod Hagen. (Both are fabulous, by the way)

A couple of comments: I've read and re-read the various posts in the thread and don't see any evidence supporting the notion that the escort in question is a non-native English speaker. Let's give non-native English speakers credit for being able to construct sentences in their own language and for having the ability to apply those principles to a language other than their own. We are not talking about awkward vocabulary, reversed subject/predicate order, or mismatched case. The wording sounds like it came from someone who is high, drunk, or is suffering the effects of long-term drug use. Would those who are criticizing the OP support him if he declared that he was visiting a non-English speaking country and would not make an attempt to correctly write/speak the language or would they criticize him for expecting the non-English speaking country to abide by his crappy usage (or non-usage)? It cuts both ways. Excellent point.

If you check out the FAQs of the review site you will see that you can send an email to [email protected].

Ridge, who has long since retired, used to live in Berwyn.

@kov78 I don't have any intel on either guy, but I also don't recognize the pics or the ads. Addamm has a beautiful dick. Not so into the other guy.

Even before I left Chicago in 2000, Edgewater and Rogers Park had a burgeoning LGBT community and Lakeview was waning. @LaffingBear, I'm with you on this. When I think about guys I dated and hooked up with back in the 1990's in Chicago, plenty of them lived in 'hoods like Old Irving Park, St Ben's, Roscoe Village, Printer's Row, and Logan Square and suburbs like Berwyn, Oak Park, Evanston, and Naperville. Yes, Naperville. (Apparently, gays who work in DuPage county like to live close to work. Who knew?) The trend away from "gayborhoods" started a long time ago (at least it did in Chicago) and keeps picking up steam. @Topseed, Boystown never appealed to me, even when I was recently out. The neighborhood had more character back then, but outside of the gay bars there were better restaurants and shopping to be had elsewhere. It was always the gay version of Lincoln Park. Perhaps it is time to move elsewhere?

Interestingly, the conflicting reports are from a broad range of members who have varying lengths of tenure on the Forum.

As in most, if not all, questions about why person "A" does something, the only one who knows for sure is person "A." The rest of us can only speculate.

One man's hell is another man's heaven. Come to think of it, that statement would describe this thread's topic.