guy7777

I live in NYC and I currently don't mask up much. I'm b/w jobs right now, so I never mask up at the gym & I usually go to a couple of gay bars every other weekend. I don't wear masks at the bars. I even stopped wearing masks on the buses & subways even though I might revert back on public transportation. Depends on how many people are getting covid in the city. 

Ill be leaving for Florida soon to stay there for the next six months or more.  I'll be staying n a more suburban area, so I don't expect to be wearing masks. 

I took Ambien for a while. It helped me a get good night sleep, but I started not liking how it made me feel during the day so I stopped.

I currently take Trazadone & Xanax at night which seems to be a good combo for me, but it's not perfect. 

I received my first dose last week.

One week later I still have what looks like a big pimple on where I got the shot. The first two to three days was definitely itchy

Have to say good looking guys feet because I have a major foot fetish. Hooked up with a 28 year old guy from Peru over this past weekend. He let me lick his feet which was way hot

Also, get very turned on by handsome faces & nice asses/cocks. 

On 9/24/2022 at 8:31 PM, young11 said:

I have been there recently. It is less crowded than one year ago, so I am guessing it is due to the monkeypox. Now it is only worth visiting on the weekend, otherwise, not many boys available. 

Hi I never been to the hiring saunas as of yet. Can you say from your recent visit if the majority of guys are from Spain & South America? Any good looking Eastern European guys working? I was in Barcelona once & I only went to the gay bars. Had a good time, but I enjoyed Madrid more

7 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Definitely it's you

I'm 51 and young guys flock to my Grindr profile.

There are TONS of young guys who have daddy issues who crave the attention of an older man.

The only advice I might give is that you will occasionally find guys looking for a sugar daddy. So be clear about the nature of the hook up. I find the more muscular beauty-boy types will engage in flattery, tell me I'm hot and then ask for cash after they have me setting up a meet. 

Otherwise there are tons of average Joe's and skinny twinks who like to be ripped apart sexually and cuddled afterward and told they were a "good boy" for being such a whore.😉

Hey I'm just curious do you tell guys your real age when they ask you for your age? We are the same age, so what I noticed is that some younger guys might be like wow I never slept with someone in their fifties lol.

It's really interesting because I've been hooking up with several guys between 22 and 30 years old during the past few months, but some of the other guys who I have been interested in are just into men in their 20s/30s age range. I get bummed out sometimes, but it's a fact of life....

It's also inspiring to hear about how many people are interested in your Grindr profile & I totally agree about how some younger guys have father issues & want the attention 

On 8/24/2022 at 12:37 AM, ThetaBeta said:

Has anyone been to the Cock recently?  Curious to know if their dancers are nude?  I do remember being there and seeing a couple of dancers nude but this was 5 years ago?  Planning to visit NYC in October. 

Hey I attended a couple of nights in June. From what I remember there were only couple of dancers, but they were not completely naked. It seems like they will let you get very frisky if you tip them. I've seen the dancers fool around with some of the patrons that they liked

In both June and early July I had oral sex and deep kissing with about six different guys. I think I'm going to wait to have any sex as well until I receive the vaccine. It just sucks because I stopped having sex for over a year to avoid covid. I wind up contracting covid in March anyway at a damn wedding. lol

The Culture of Narcissism by Christopher Lasch (1979).

A very interesting book that seems to reflect the current time we live in

This is a little off topic, but I met a cute guy at a bar several weeks ago. I expressed an interest in him, but he then told me he was transgender. He explained he was born male, but started estrogen a month earlier. He told me that he eventually wants to get a boob job, but keep his penis.

It was an interesting meeting because he presented masculine with male clothing while saying his goal was to look more feminine & a bit androgynous at the same time

I've seen Blessed Boy in several videos. Think he's from Brazil.

He's a passionate & good performer!

I'm a Gen X guy and over the past several months I've put forth fort a lot of effort into eating healthier I combined better eating with lifting weights & cycling both indoors & outdoors.  After a few months I started noticing some positive changes, such as, a few pounds shed, better muscle tone & feeling more positive & energetic. I found that consistency is very important while I work toward my goals. 

Yes some days you will feel like crap and it's easy to break your routine, but you can't allow negative thinking & behavior to sidestep you

I can totally see how these type of clients are annoying AF

I'm probably going out tonight to enjoy myself & see if I can hook up.

I'm not vaccinated, so I'm a little worried, but not that much tbh

On 7/3/2022 at 4:51 PM, JEC said:

@guy7777 I'm sorry for your loss, and can relate.  My own brother took his life 2 weeks ago at 60 after a lifelong battle with alcohol addiction (and resultant depression and mental health challenges). As AA Step 1 says "we are powerless" to do anything: helplessness is the most horrible feeling.  He is finally at peace from what was a daily torturous struggle.   And we the family are at peace after years of constant worry.  RIP brother. 

Awful to hear your brother passed away only two weeks ago.

These terrible situations are unfortunately too common

I would think that the jobs of providers might put some at a higher risk of mental health or addiction issues. I feel badly for those who fall into a rabbit hole of misery & addiction.  Wouldn't wish that on anyone!

My brother passed away in his early fifties from decades use of alcohol & crack/cocaine. It was horrible to witness

I hired a very masculine 23 year old guy a few times. I figured out pretty quickly that was was most likely straight or at least lacked experience with m4m sex. For me personally, he really turned me on! At first I hired for my foot fetish. I found him so hot & he was open to receiving head, but he wouldn't kiss or give head. He also had the most beautiful butthole, but he wouldn't let me touch or lick it.😫

I did teach him how to give a foot job & he was surprisingly really good once he got the hang of it. 

Unfortunately, I lost his contact once I lost my phone without backup. I wish I could find him again. I remember it was on some site that no longer exists. He told me was escorting only temporarily due to financial issues

Life sometimes sucks...

On 6/24/2022 at 12:33 PM, kingsley88 said:

Anyone in NYC get the monkeypox vaccine yet?

https://www.nbcnewyork.com/news/local/nyc-to-offer-monkeypox-vaccine-as-outbreak-expands/3746454/

Looks like demand is sky high.

Not yet but I will mostly likely get vaccinated

This event sounds really good! I'll eventually attend.

I just make it to the Eagle this weekend😁

I went to Paris for the first time several years ago. On the third night of a seven night trip, I made a move on a very handsome bartender right before the bar closed. We fooled around for a while after he locked up it up. For the remainder of the time I was in Paris, I would go to the bar he worked at & fool around with him after he locked up the place.

One of the interesting things is that we never had a conversation. He did not speak a word of English & I did not practice any French before flying out. It was pure mutual attraction. On the last night I was there, I wanted to actually say bye to him in my bad French, but I caught a bad cold & flew out the following morning. 

I recently had a blow up with my sister over her stirring up s**t in the family & feeling disrespected by her. She also is very opinionated & purposely disagreeable with me on any number of things. I said some horrible things to her & I apologized to her for saying those things even though she triggers me so much. I promised myself that I won't allow her or anyone else to trigger me to say or behave in a way that is unacceptable to me. I still love her, but I recognize she has issues & stuck in her ways. I found it healthy to create some distance between us by not speaking as much & not expecting much more from her.

It always been difficult for me to handle family members who are disrespectful. My family is overall well meaning & loving, but I feel they regularly stress me out if I allow them to.  Aging parents has made the situation a bit worse 

Does anyone know where I can find Langley Gold since he took himself off of rent men? I think he's really hot & I wonder how he is in person. Does he still work for Buff boyz?

Thanks guys for any info.....

I just think nail polish looks pretty bad on some of the guys I've seen it on. They seem to be doing it because it's very trendy. It's a turnoff because they appear to be trying too hard.

I have noticed that I like some attractive "alternative" or indie type guys who wear black or blue nail polish. It goes well with their interesting tattoos and aesthetic. Overall, guess it comes down to the individual guy & how he presents himself. We all have different tastes which can be bewildering and interesting at the same time😃

I haven't been to Steamworks in several years, but I liked how it's very large and had some good looking guys for sure.

I can see how you can be apprehensive about attending if there are a significant number of negative reviews about the staff, etc. I wind up reading some of the reviews, but I would still go the next time I'm in Chicago. Hopefully, you'll go on a good night if you do decide to go

2 hours ago, Danny-Darko said:

'Night of the Long Knives: Hitler's excision of Rohm's SA Brownshirts, 30 June - 2 July 1934'

by Phil Carradice 

This looks very interesting. I've read a number of articles about "The night of long knives". It's also fascinating how Ernst Rohm was openly homosexual, and the press and public were aware of his sexual orientation. 

If I'm not mistaken, at one time he was also the second highest ranking official in the Nazi party.