JSchorr

I forgot to mention that tidbit...yes he does! I got concerned that his reaction might permeate the walls of his apartment.

I've hired him multiple times when he has visited my city, which he does on a monthly basis. Nice guy, friendly. Good massage, Nude, MT, HE. He oils his chest and torso and lays on your backside and slides back and forth and does the same on your front side...at least he did with me. Pics are accurate and even though the basketball one is older he looks like that.

I reached out last year and he made some excuse about his old profile being deleted, etc. He also right off the bat called me honey or sweetie and that was just a turnoff…didn’t pursue.

I agree with the comments above about letting the masseur control things…don’t be aggressive or grabby. I have found that honesty is the best policy….I usually now ask upfront if mutual touching is ok (even if it’s stated in their ad) AND are there any limits as I wish to be respectful..for example he might not want his butt touched, etc. I don’t even care about a release for myself most times and I’ve told them so., thinking that might result in them being a bit more relaxed with my touching. That being said, many times I have left a bit unsatisfied as I did not feel like the masseur welcomed it - didn’t put himself in an easily touchable position, was unresponsive to being touched. I didn’t push it and backed off. It’s really one of those things where “it all depends.” I’ve also had the opposite experience, being asked if I wanted to f*** them, etc. The BEST experience for me is to find a repeat guy who is comfortable with the plan and is consistent with it every time….sadly most of those guys for me are sporadic visitors so the meetings are hit and miss.

I don’t remember the year but I hired Sean Xavier once in San Francisco. It was during the time he was engaged to Andrew Justice. I’m older than he and pretty vanilla but he was kind and I had a nice time. Quite expensive for the times. He was a bit stuck on himself…made a few comments that I found off putting.

I would be interested in this type of experience also.

I contacted him in SF. He’s not here yet. I must’ve read the dates wrong. He’ll be here I think on the 7th or around then for 2 weeks. As to the smoking, I’ve never detected any smoking smell when I’ve been around him.

I see he’s back in SF. I’m going to try to see him this weekend. I’ve had probably four sessions with him over the years. Enjoyed them all, but some were more focused on massage than others. I think you just need to be clear about what you’re looking for, both beforehand and at the start of the session. The last time I saw him, over a year ago, he was still sweet, affectionate, all of that, but was not muscled like in the photos - not overweight at all, thin in fact, just not bulked up. The thing that distinguished him from everybody else I’ve seen was that he makes it seem as if he’s into it. Does not come across as faked. I am an older man, clearly not the type he would be physically attracted to, but he made it seem like it just the same without coming across as acting.

I was shocked to find his ad running in Sacramento…he always seemed to travel to larger cities. I’ve only seen him in San Francisco. I suspected a fake ad..the photos are of Ken but there is also an escort ad on RentMen which he never did before that I know of. The massage ad and escort ad display different phone numbers. He used to text me when he was coming to SF so I was suspicious at first when I saw the ad then thought maybe he didn’t remember that I lived in Sacramento. I asked him if he was the Ken who lived on XXX Street and he said yes. Obviously I should have asked him an open ended question. He was nice enough but didn’t seem to recognize my name or number…..I’m suspicious but would love to have a session with him. Hopefully someone can confirm for me that he is THE Ken who I remember fondly?

I saw him a couple of years ago in my city. Nice guy and I probably would repeat (after having a discussion). I'm probably old fashioned but he brought out the poppers at the end and wanted to ride me - no discussion or warning....I was put off a little bit. I should say I am a 70 year old man and though I don't consider myself unattractive I'm hardly a model. I did touch him during the massage (he was nude) and maybe I gave him the wrong idea.

I agree completely. I have found it best to ask POLITELY if the massage is mutual nude, mutual touch etc. I don’t usually go beyond that. The guys I have encountered seem to appreciate the honesty and the non aggressive approach. I am older so I appreciate any attention I can get. Sometimes things progress a little farther, all depends on the chemistry but I don’t go in there expecting that.

I have not met with him but tried to coordinate a time which ultimately did not work out.....but he was very nice in regards to his text conversations.

I have seen him a couple of times but not recently…..years ago. He is very nice, kind, trustworthy, etc. but the photos in his ad are all VERY old. I don’t know about the private ones, perhaps more recent. He was in great shape and I imagine he still is but might be prudent to request current photos before making the final call.

I had an OK time with him but I am pretty vanilla so he didn’t have to work too hard. I will say that he, at the time at least, was quite stuck on himself. For example, asking if I had ever seen a cock as big as his, etc. etc.

I have always had good luck with just being upfront, in respectful terms, with what you are looking for. I ignore only therapeutic ads altogether. My init8al contact is jus5 to say hello and maybe find out where the session would take place, etc. Then I state what I would be interested in or not interested in and if that’s OK with them. Seems to work for me.