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purplekow

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  1. In obituaries the white is known as dead space
  2. You haver to admire a muscle guy who has to dedicate so much time to exercising and yet takes the time to coordinate his mask to his speedo. That kind of attention to detail shows great potential as a lover and an interior designer.
  3. Sporus the details
  4. I hate the use of incorrect gender identification. There may be men who prefer she or they and I am fine with that. But in general, I find referring to gay men as she is off putting.
  5. As Unicorn so correctly stated HPV can cause terrible diseases. The presence of GC or Chlamydia in the rectum may be transmitted to any mucosal surface of the sexual partner who gets in the area. So he may have it in the butt, but you may get it in the throat, in the mouth, or even in the recturm should you be exposed in some way. Why an escort would tell you he has an STI rather than getting it treated is a bit strange. It seems a degrading way of rejecting a partner if that was indeed the intent. Best stay clear. Condoms offer protection from more than just HIV as that graphic picture points out.
  6. Are you a humber braggart? I am considering whether or not I fit into this category and I am leaning toward the idea that I am. When I do something nice or considerate, I feel good about it. Given the opportunity, I mention it in the course of conversation. It is not that I go out of my way to inform people, but if the occasion arises, I do not censor myself. As an example, in caring for a terminally ill patient, a hospital employee learned it was the patient's birthday. Knowing that this was likely to be his last birthday and that the patient did not have any close friends or family, the employee bought the man a birthday cake. The nursing staff and other employees brought to cake to the patient's room and they all sang the birthday song. The patient was quite emotional and said that he had never had a birthday cake. Later, while the employee was having having a conversation, a passing employee thanked him for the cake. In response, the story was related, After hearing the story, it was suggested that the employee was a glory seeker. The employee then related the entire story to me and asked my opinion, My thought is that the story that exemplifies that being nice to someone may have much more meaning to them than the effort you put into it. The story was not brought up de novo only in response to an inquiry. But now I am thinking that perhaps that person was correct and that by relating that story was ia subtle request for validation and glory was expected. So my question is, iwas this a humble brag disguised? If you do something nice for someone, is it self serving to mention it at all, even in a setting of a casual conversation. I think that a bigger person would have brushed off the inquiry and just continued with the conversation at hand. Opinions?
  7. I must say that is one impressive posterior.
  8. Certainly hiring someone for the weekend is a great plan, but remember there will be many escorts attending and you may want to go Ala carte rather than prix fixe.
  9. Ik have not seen it on a box I have not seen it on some rocks. I have not seen it in a tree. I have not seen it on the sea. I have not seen it on a mat I have not see it with.a hat I have not see it on a dam I have not seen it Ram I am
  10. Saw the play with Parsons and the rest. It was interesting to see again with different performers than in the movie. overall it felt a bit forced and mildly dated with typical gay stereotypes. Definitely could have been updated with the same premise. Worth watching but not a don't miss.
  11. You know very well that it is great to be like everyone else but it is better to be an individual. it is more fun to be a member of group which is just like everyone else but with extra flare. If you have flare, you need a place where it can be shown with best appreciation. The gay bar was that stage. And now, the end is near, and we must face the final curtain. My friends I'll say it clear and face the fate of which I'm certain, The bars are gone but not forgot though they are shells along the highway. But more, much more than this, the bars were my Gay.
  12. All this arguing about right and wrong and that is not a legal decision. It is legal and illegal and in that jurisdiction it is illegal, at least in that judge's courtroom. As to whether this is just ruling or an unjust ruling, my opinion is that it is excessive interference and legal overreach. That said, I will bet that the client does not reneg in such a way again, especially if he gets rape jail time instead of theft of services jail time.
  13. That song always lways brings a lump to my throat. "Your girl is lovely Hubbell."
  14. After my wife died, I was celibate for a while and then dated women. I found that I had little or no interest in dating them and sleeping with them was not as enjoyable as it had been. Prior to my 50th birthday, I decided that since women were no longer providing exciting sexual activity, that I would try hiring a man. I had always had an appreciation of well muscled men and decided that there was nothing holding me back from trying sex with men, I stumbled across a site with thumbnail pictures of men who were offering services, no idea what the site name was but I had been browsing Muscle Service and it led me to this site. There were about 500 pictures and I studied them and found only 3 men who were physically appealing to me. Prior to the big 5-0, I rented a room at the Marriott Marquis in Times Square and arranged to meet Tony Pitt. He kept calling to tell me he was delayed (turns out he was dancing at the Gaiety) and he wound up arriving three hours after the appointment time. I was about to back out when he arrived. He looked great in tight jeans and a tight sleeveless shirt. He asked to shower and I talked with him from the door as he did. Finally, he said "You can come over and talk to me from tub." I walked over and he opened the shower curtain and was wet, built, and hard as a stone. He asked if I saw anything I liked and I had to admit that I did. That session was hot and sweaty but I felt remorse and I left him the room and drove home. After a good nights sleep and some soul searching, I/ called him again to meet the next night. And I have not looked back.
  15. Hunksville Alabama or. Fort Laudable Florida
  16. thanks
  17. You should fall in love with an escort but only for the time you have hired him. This is a pay for sex experience, Do not make it more than that. Though it may change in time as you get to know one another, riding off into the sunset is not going to be the outcome. If he did not reply to your thank you texts, he is impolite and probably not a courteous or experienced escort. Drop the idea of being in love and take it for what it is, lust or infatuation.
  18. Well this has resulted in a Negative test for her and a lesson for me. She did get admitted to the hospital and is still being evaluated. Next time I will go with my best instincts irrespective of social niceties, in other words, I would politely exit.
  19. Ben, a thank you note is nice but a thank you moan is better and a thank you gasp is even better.
  20. My precious meal with them had been outdoors and this one would have been too had she not been ill. She is in the ER right now with just the abdominal pain. Her initial blood tests are all normal but the Covid test is not back. She is having other tests as well. I am feeling well and today is day 4. The standard of care at the hospital at which I work is that exposure does not require self quarantine as long as you are asymptomatic. Mask and social distancing are a must. I have been going in a bit late, leaving a bit early, taking meetings from home by Zoom and keeping my time in the hospital to a minimum. I have been home alone otherwise. Fortunately, for these two weeks, I/ do not have patient care responsibilities so it is easier to keep to myself in my office. It is an odd thought that after 3 months of dealing with Cold patients 8 to 10 hours a day each day 7 days a week, that a birthday dinner has presented me with my most worrisome exposure. Hopefully she will test negative and I can just keep going along.
  21. My birthday was last Sunday and a friend called the week before to asked me to come to her home for dinner. She is a good cook. She said she and her husband had not left the house except for food shopping for months. I had been to their home for a meal about 3 weeks ago and we ate out on the porch and kept social distancing. I was not inclined to go but she insisted that it was my birthday and the she would cook whatever it is I wanted. I agreed to go. When I got to her home, she was lying on the couch and was complaining of abdominal pain which had been going on for days. She looked ill but she did not have a high temperature and no cough or shortness of breath. She did have diarrhea. I asked why they did not cancel and was told that as she had been sick for a few days that I might offer them some medical advice. Her husband had done the cooking. I was tempted to just leave but thought it rude, but now three days later she is still ill and having other symptoms that has me concerned that she may have Covid. I am annoyed with myself for not leaving and try annoyed with them for not cancelling. We did social distance but ate indoors. Thoughts?
  22. This is an annual, except for this year, occurrence that is organized by Oliver in Palm Spring. It started as a small get together from some clients and escorts and has grown to about 50 people. It is a weekend fest. Most guys stay at one of the gay resorts in Palm Springs. There is a dinner on Saturday night and a pool party at Oliver's home. The pool party is a luncheon that goes from mild to wild and back again, depending on the year and the inclinations of those men attending. The dinner is at a local restaurant. There are some other organized and spontaneous events, As many of the men are staying at Inndulge or Canyon Club or one or two others, there is daytime meet and greets. It is an opporunity to meet forum members and also to meet escorts off time and of course on time as well. Only a few have left not having had a good time and planning to return the next year. Really an opportunity to meet like minded men with minimal hang ups about hiring or being hired.
  23. Is that the t, the whole t and nothing but the t?
  24. A beach house...bring a beach blanket and throw that over the bed. Later on, at the beach, perhaps you will be able to catch a whiff of prior actiity if that kind of thing is pleasurable for you.
  25. Handsome guy but if he is indifferent to a dog how would he be with a human?
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