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I had a patient the other day diagnosed with prostate cancer. There is every reason to believe the cancer is curable but there is a reasonable chance that he will not be able to have orgasms or obtain an erection after treatment. I do not wish to discuss the ins and out of this man's diagnosis and treatment plan. Rather, his concerns centers around continuing to have a vital sex life with erections and orgasms. He is 70 years old, he has a vigorous sex life for a man of seventy years, having at least 4 sexual encounters reaching orgasm each week. He states that under the right circumstances, that number may double. He is otherwise healthy and his expected average life expectance is about 15 years. Assuming a mild decrease in orgasm frequency, he says he has not slowed down since 55, that would be about 3000 more orgasms, equivalent to a good week for Benjamin Nicholas. He states he would rather live for 10 years without treatment, a reasonable expectancy, rather than give up 10 years worth of orgasms. So, in theory, he is willing to sacrifice 5 years of life for 10 years worth of orgasms. Realizing your mileage may differ regarding frequency and life expectancy, how much time would you be willing to forego at the end of life in order to continue to have orgasms at a reasonable rate for a man of whichever age you are at the time?

Failing that, write out the scenario, translate it into whichever languages you need and then write down and memorize a few key instructions which may be needed and then go from there. Failing that, perhaps finding only English speakers or diverging from your given complicated role play are the other considerations. Or hire a non judgmental translator to stand by and and fill in the gaps you are unable to fill without further instruction.

It seems that facial expression,. reaction to stimulation and of course all types of body language should be enough but if not just learn a few key phrases and plow ahead or play behind as the case may be.

I usually prefer my meat to have a bone and as for steak, I prefer a bit of grizzle and so like the rare to medium rare New York Strip steak. Also you do not have to worry about flavor if you do anything above medium as the flavor has been just about cooked out it by then.

Lots of interesting men in very boring robes. Need to get them out of those things.

I was listening to Sports talk Radio WFAN and one of the sports pjs started talking about which two men he would have a threeway with. Craig Carton also encouraged the other guys on the show to offer up options. One suggested Tim Tebow and John Stamos while Carton himself went with Tebow and Tom Brady. Had never heard sports guys discuss this in the past. Have to admit it was a bit of a turn on.

I just called him and we arranged for a meeting to be finalized for next week. Sounded nice on the phone. Hope he is fun as he lives very near me and prefers outcalls which is my preference as well.

I just had a long text conversation with him which he initiated. He had to cancel a session with me awhile back and we had not spoken since. He texted just to say hello and to apologize for the prior cancellation. While I had not been expecting or needing an apology for the cancellation, it shows his character that he thought enough to do so. He did say he felt bad and was hesitant to contact me as he though I may be irritated with him. For those who look for the ulterior motive here, I did offer to set up an appointment and he said he would contact me when he was in my area. While I do not think that is the reason he contacted me, if it is, I am fine with it because I was strongly considering contacting for a separate meeting prior to The DC Forum event in January and then one during my visit to DC for the event.

I had a regular back in the day who would come into my house on a Sunday while I was watching football and would suck me off without saying a word and then leave. We had other encounters as well, but this Sunday activity was a favorite.

I believe one can have the excitement and spontaneity in a relationship with wings and the support and security of one with roots. You can even have both of those in the same person but you need to allow yourself to accept both of those aspects in that person and not come to pigeonhole your partner. It also helps if you can be both of those things to them as well. So I disagree with your friend one can have roots and wings with one person. It does take work though.

Very much like an ABBA song. Has a nice beat and easy to remember meaningless lyrics. Yes Sir. I can Boogie. Boogie Boogie all night long.

Great move

We stopped dying young. Instead we are giving youthful death to the entire human race.

I recall reading the NY Daily News as a teen. There were two articles placed right next to each other. One was about a Russian pilot who survived a 10000 foot fall from his plane as he landed on a snow covered mountain with a steep angle which allowed the fall to be less damaging. The abutting article was about a NYC woman who fell off her 6 inch platform shoes while walking in the city and stuck her head and died. Have to admit the picture here is astounding.

There is no doubt the team owners make money but the local jurisdiction also makes money. If a team leaves, the jurisdiction is left with a large stadium with very little practical use and loses the income the team generated. So with the owners having the upper hand in regard to staying or going, each jurisdiction should carefully determine if a new stadium makes sense for them. That there is corruption and bribery is an unfortunate aspect of every kind of government transaction from dog licenses to garbage collection to a new stadium. The better and more honest a local government, the more likely that the jurisdiction will do well with the deal.

That is how all government deals get made. A new stadium will provide construction jobs and keeping the team there will generate many ancillary jobs. Professional sports teams have leverage in that way and they use it. And should the government elect not to kick in the team is gone. Witness the Oakland now Vegas Raiders and the San Diego now Los Angeles Chargers and the St Louis now Los Angeles Rams. The St Louis now Arizona Cardinals are another recent example. I do not know if the stadium plan in Buffalo is for a solo use football stadium or if it is planned to be a multi sport stadium for Football and baseball or two connected stadium with two separate playing areas. In any case, Buffalo in the winter has wind, snow and the Bills and only one of them are not making people miserable these days.

I saw him pre pandemic and then after the pandemic. He was totally amazing pre pandemic and he left a sweaty heap and he left me in a sweaty heap. Great encounter. I have had him to my house twice post pandemic and the experiences are very good but not up to the first encounter. However, I would still heartily recommend him. He is a very intelligent and thoughtful individual with a winding path which has gotten him to where he is now. While not quite in the shape he was when I first met him, which was amazing, he is still in very good shape and he is passionate in his approach to the encounter.

Just had him for a visit last week. He is still fit and still horny and still great fun. When he stopped traveling by plane he was able to start traveling locally which is great for me. He did mention possibly coming back to post on the forum.

I do not have a favorite fast food but snails would be my favorite slow food

Just read on line that the reason Andy was cut out had to do with his being lost in the dream section similar to the millions and Dan's death.

I can smell the vanilla from here. Curious if there is any there there.

After gym showering was a bit embarrassing for me even though I had lost a lot of weight and had a growth spurt right before high school. When from 5'4 to 5'9 and from 199 to 149 with a nice physique. Though embarrassing, I always took a quick shower. When I went to college, I lived in an all male dorm and there was a community shower on each floor. I was in ver good shape but I still arranged to take my shower in the afternoon when the community shower was likely to be empty or sometimes late at night. If someone else was there, I showered anyway but always felt a bit unsettled. I went to my first nude beach at age 26 or so and now I do not think much about it though I clearly am no longer in great shape. Of course, though I am not really uncomfortable being nude in a group, I still must bow to Robster who is usually the first one naked in the pool at the Palm Springs get together.