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    BJNYC got a reaction from Muscleking in WillSyd NYC   
    https://rent.men/WillSyd
    anyone try him?
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    BJNYC got a reaction from pubic_assistance in WillSyd NYC   
    https://rent.men/WillSyd
    anyone try him?
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    BJNYC got a reaction from Simon Suraci in Most Annoying Masseur Behavior You've Experienced   
    Masseurs expecting the same tip when they don’t provide a similar experience to the one they have offered before.   If you go above and beyond, the tip reflects that. 
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    BJNYC got a reaction from JamesB in Most Annoying Masseur Behavior You've Experienced   
    Masseurs expecting the same tip when they don’t provide a similar experience to the one they have offered before.   If you go above and beyond, the tip reflects that. 
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    BJNYC got a reaction from Capitano in Most Annoying Masseur Behavior You've Experienced   
    Masseurs expecting the same tip when they don’t provide a similar experience to the one they have offered before.   If you go above and beyond, the tip reflects that. 
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    BJNYC got a reaction from White lotus in Spas in NYC   
    I had that same experience with him and won’t go back to him.  I’m less inclined to go to Shangrila because of it.  
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    BJNYC got a reaction from JUWS in Spas in NYC   
    I had that same experience with him and won’t go back to him.  I’m less inclined to go to Shangrila because of it.  
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    BJNYC got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Frankie / Living Fresh NYC   
    https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/43288/
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    BJNYC got a reaction from tsgarp in Another Alex Newbie in NYC   
    Is that the masseur who used to go by Koss?
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    BJNYC reacted to Nyc2 in Caleb in NYC   
    Don’t want to make this a big deal or go back and forth…like I said before, I wasn’t looking for bubbly and actually prefer quiet. I’ve lived in New York for 5 years so I’m all for minding our own business. He simply came off as “rude” / disinterested, which impacted the massage quality and experience. That’s it.
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    BJNYC got a reaction from Redwine56 in 411 on spa 27   
    I did.  It was an okay massage but wouldn’t repeat.  He wore so much cologne.  My clothes that were hanging on the hook stunk like his cologne all day.  
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    BJNYC got a reaction from GTMike in Caleb in NYC   
    What if the tables were turned?   What if the client leads a carefree life and just schedules an appointment as a suggestion and cancels last minute on Caleb?  Caleb may not want to hear from the client again.   Just like the numerous people on this chain have given up on Caleb after their bad experiences. 
    At the end of the day it’s about respect.  Stuff happens and people need to cancel.  But it’s how you handle it to make up for the cancellation that speaks volumes.  If I was Caleb, I would apologize and proactively try to reschedule with the client another time and maybe offer extra time or a discount for the inconvenience.  
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    BJNYC got a reaction from Marc in Calif in Caleb in NYC   
    What if the tables were turned?   What if the client leads a carefree life and just schedules an appointment as a suggestion and cancels last minute on Caleb?  Caleb may not want to hear from the client again.   Just like the numerous people on this chain have given up on Caleb after their bad experiences. 
    At the end of the day it’s about respect.  Stuff happens and people need to cancel.  But it’s how you handle it to make up for the cancellation that speaks volumes.  If I was Caleb, I would apologize and proactively try to reschedule with the client another time and maybe offer extra time or a discount for the inconvenience.  
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    BJNYC got a reaction from Lewis372NYC in Mpm body hair removal nyc   
    Anyone have any experiences with the guys that are currently working here?
    MPM HAIR REMOVAL STUDIO
    MPM.STUDIO BODY HAIR REMOVAL STUDIO EXCLUSIVELY FOR MEN  
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    BJNYC reacted to Alex.Blessings in Alex/blessings   
    There are those who get off by making fake appointments with the intention of causing financial losses to others. Providers refer to such as “Time Wasters”. 
     
    I once asked such a time waster out of curiosity why they do what they do and he replied that it’s because it’s not fair for people like me to make so much money. A loss of $200 here, another $400 there, it soon adds up to real losses. 
     
    Providers warn each other about such time wasters on a popular app that has already been mentioned on this forum. I find it to be a very useful tool and I use it in my day to day work. 
     
    In the case of @Teddiec, he is flagged as a time waster and worse. He made an appointment with me in the past and canceled shortly before the session causing me a loss as there were others interested in that time slot. The first time he did this, he told me that his name is Peter. 
     
    I have the chat history and will post them here should this guy deny anything that I am disclosing here. 
     
    Last Thursday he messaged me asking for an appointment the next day. He also mentioned that his name is Ted. I have his number saved as Peter so that was another red flag, but I believe in second chances so I scheduled it for Friday, 6pm. 
     
    That Friday, early in the day, I started getting several requests for treatment at 6, 6:30, and 7pm. I suspected that Peter/Ted, or whatever his name is, would try to cause me another loss so I sent him a message at 1pm asking him to confirm our appointment, but there was no response. So I messaged him again at 2pm, asking him to please confirm by 4pm as I have others who want the 6pm time slot. He didn’t respond, so at 4pm, I sent him a message saying that our appointment is canceled because he didn’t confirm. 
     
    Indeed, I gave the time slot to another around 4:30. 
     
    It seems that he didn’t like the fact that I didn’t allow him to cause me another loss so he is trying to cause me losses by other means. 
     
    I would say that more than 96% of people who contact me and visit me are good people. They are very kind to me, but there are always some who have dark personalities. I will never give such people treatments. 
     
    I always ask my clients how they feel after each session to make sure that each and everyone is happy or very happy with the experience, and so far 99.9% of clients have said that it was great, awesome, and used other words of praise. 
     
    I am surprised that @BooBear and @dk582 were not happy with the experience, because it either means that they didn’t tell the truth when I asked them at the end of the session how they felt about it or they are not being truthful after the fact. Regardless of their reasons, I will be sending both of them a private DM shortly and offer each a 60-minute in-call treatment completely free of charge. 
     
    I want to clarify that I don’t offer escort services. When creating the RM profile, it was required to include “Versatile”, or whatever, in order to create the profile. There was no other way. It was a required field that must be filled out, that could not be left blank. 
     
    To the one who alerted me as to what’s happening on this forum, I look forward to seeing you soon! 
     
    To those who defended me against these, I thank you. May you be blessed! I am very grateful to you. 
     
    I wish you a good Labor Day weekend 💙
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    BJNYC reacted to Wanderoz in Stefano in Provincetown   
    Isn't the Mario, another DC masseur on RMasseur his partner or husband?
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    BJNYC got a reaction from Rubscout in Caleb in NYC   
    What if the tables were turned?   What if the client leads a carefree life and just schedules an appointment as a suggestion and cancels last minute on Caleb?  Caleb may not want to hear from the client again.   Just like the numerous people on this chain have given up on Caleb after their bad experiences. 
    At the end of the day it’s about respect.  Stuff happens and people need to cancel.  But it’s how you handle it to make up for the cancellation that speaks volumes.  If I was Caleb, I would apologize and proactively try to reschedule with the client another time and maybe offer extra time or a discount for the inconvenience.  
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    BJNYC got a reaction from Logitcore in Caleb in NYC   
    What if the tables were turned?   What if the client leads a carefree life and just schedules an appointment as a suggestion and cancels last minute on Caleb?  Caleb may not want to hear from the client again.   Just like the numerous people on this chain have given up on Caleb after their bad experiences. 
    At the end of the day it’s about respect.  Stuff happens and people need to cancel.  But it’s how you handle it to make up for the cancellation that speaks volumes.  If I was Caleb, I would apologize and proactively try to reschedule with the client another time and maybe offer extra time or a discount for the inconvenience.  
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    BJNYC got a reaction from mcskill in Caleb in NYC   
    What if the tables were turned?   What if the client leads a carefree life and just schedules an appointment as a suggestion and cancels last minute on Caleb?  Caleb may not want to hear from the client again.   Just like the numerous people on this chain have given up on Caleb after their bad experiences. 
    At the end of the day it’s about respect.  Stuff happens and people need to cancel.  But it’s how you handle it to make up for the cancellation that speaks volumes.  If I was Caleb, I would apologize and proactively try to reschedule with the client another time and maybe offer extra time or a discount for the inconvenience.  
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    BJNYC got a reaction from Redwine56 in Caleb in NYC   
    What if the tables were turned?   What if the client leads a carefree life and just schedules an appointment as a suggestion and cancels last minute on Caleb?  Caleb may not want to hear from the client again.   Just like the numerous people on this chain have given up on Caleb after their bad experiences. 
    At the end of the day it’s about respect.  Stuff happens and people need to cancel.  But it’s how you handle it to make up for the cancellation that speaks volumes.  If I was Caleb, I would apologize and proactively try to reschedule with the client another time and maybe offer extra time or a discount for the inconvenience.  
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    BJNYC got a reaction from TracerMain in Submissive masseur in LA recommendations   
    Anyone have a good experience with a sub masseur with great hands?  
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    BJNYC got a reaction from Harryinny in Jan Kosto   
    Looks pretty painful! 
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    BJNYC reacted to JayinHKNYC in transition from seeing spa to private practice masseurs in NYC   
    Hi, I traditionally have gone to spas when I was in grad school to save money, but for extras, the tip almost reaches the private masseur rate, so I'm thinking of moving away from the spa locations, especially given a lot of turnover and quite a few mediocre experiences lately.
    I'm not looking for guys who shouldn't be on Rentmasseur because they really are just Rentmen in disguise.
    If you have a recommendation for someone who combines some level of massage (either therapeutic or at least good quality) and whatever level of HE, MT, or play that you've experienced (YMMV understood).
    Because you can't cite certain things on the thread, my preference would be if you DM me with your recommendations with some specifics about what might be expected.
    Thanks.
     
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    BJNYC got a reaction from chadLA in Provincetown recommendations   
    Has anyone had any great experiences with masseurs in ptown recently?
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    BJNYC got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Eddiemanhattan - NYC   
    He’s more of an escort than a masseur.  Which explains his rates.   
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