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2 hours ago, Pd1_jap said:

Royal Oak police: Two men arrested for prostitution at hotel; man arrested for aggravated assault on Fifth Street – Daily Tribune

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Two men are facing misdemeanor prostitution charges after one of them rented a hotel room and called police...

Bad things happen. Always keep your wits about you. A situation can go from making out to handcuffs quick if the hire is off in the head. 

That being said, I have hired for a long time. Only twice have things gone sideways. Neither of which resulted in charges but they did involve drugs.

The long and the short of it is this: you both have a lot to lose but if one's lot is much bigger, then the other will want a part of it. 

This is why I hire guys who are quality. If they have as much to lose as you, then you'll likely have minor issues. 

This is very unusual in Michigan and especially in Royal Oak which has a large gay community.   This hotel is used by a lot of escorts so I'm sure the cops were already aware of what often goes on there.  Sounds to me like this was a hire gone bad and the cops were called.  

On 4/24/2024 at 6:52 PM, Rod Hagen said:

Thank you very much, I hadn't read about this study/finding.  Very interesting to me, and it was great that they quoted Dean Hammer at the end.  I loved his study, and I NEVER understood why gays were so opposed to him and his finding/hypothesis.  I have a hard time reconciling Bogaert's Y Chromosome finding/hypothesis, which makes sense, with  Dean Hammer's XQ28 ( I used to have that T-shirt!).  And so I asked Perplexity, which told me this (but I still don't see the connection):

In summary, Bogaert's and Hamer's studies complement each other by providing a more comprehensive understanding of the biological underpinnings of male homosexuality, involving both genetic and maternal immune factors. Their combined research supports the view that sexual orientation has a biological basis, rather than being solely a matter of choice or social/environmental influences. 

 

Thank you for bringing up Dean Hammer.  My ex-partner was part of his original study back in the early 90's because he had a gay brother.  I was asked to be part of the study because I too have an older gay brother but they had enough participants by the time I tried to sign up.  We are both middle children. In the case of my ex, he was the youngest of four brothers and his gay brother was the eldest so they were the opposite.  In regards to the potential maternal connection, my mom had three gay brothers so who knows, maybe there is something to that.   At this point, nobody knows the reason but the topic comes up on this forum every few months with the usual characters insisting they "chose" their sexual orientation vs. "choosing" their actions/reaction to it.  

Can someone also explain the so-called "gay lifestyle" to me?  I'm gay, my brother is gay..we both came out when we were in diapers.  Never had any issues with sexual orientation or identity.  Many or most of my friends and plenty of my family are gay.   None of us (as far as we know) live a "gay lifestyle" and not really sure what that means.  Does that mean we are in a gay relationship?  If yes, then I guess we all live a gay lifestyle.  Does that mean we use the word queer, watch Bravo, are only interested in going to the gym, walk around with our shirts off 90% of the time and call each other "Bitch"?  I've known thousands of gay men during my life but I've never met anyone into that stuff.   Every time I hear that term "gay lifestyle" I cringe-always wondering exactly what is meant by that.  

12 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

He's now back down to 23.

....and to think that two years ago he was 18!   LOL

He's been around for a long time.   'Don't know anyone who has met him though.  Sorry. 

On 3/27/2024 at 1:00 PM, topunderachiever said:

Interesting that we pay $600-$700 for a couple hours of attention.  It's a very expensive orgasm. 

Agreed....and I do consider that a luxury.   Not too many other services we purchase that cost $300+/hour.  

7 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Anally penetrated by what and for how long?  Penetrated by a vibrator or a finger?... Probably not.   Penetrated by a penis wearing a condom?....I say it doesn't count as sex if there is no skin to skin contact.  Penetrated by a tongue?...I say yes!

 

Sex with a condom doesn't count as sex?  That's a new one for me but maybe I'm getting old. 

15 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

I was mistaken. Jordan and Valentin don't offer threesomes, only 4 handed massages. Glad to hear you enjoyed being with one.

Are you sure about that?   They definitely did in the past but maybe they have stopped.  

There is a lot of talk on here that a lower rate will mean a lesser experience, the provider will short you on time, he'll be located in a seedy hotel, etc.    I have never found that to be the case at all.   That's exactly what they want you to think.  Some/most of my best hires were actually with guys that are fairly new to the industry and trying to build up their client base or just simply offer their services at a lower price point.  The rate is definitely not a good indicator of quality in my opinion.   

JFYI-He requires money up front (via Venmo) which he doesn't tell you until you are in his room.   

I've been texting with him.  He wants $250 for a massage only.   Fairly steep for someone without a lot of reviews.   

For what its worth....I haven't met him but know a guy who hired him for years and would drive hours to Cleveland to see him.  It sounded like he's a good guy and a lot of fun.  He's definitely not new and has been around for years.  

For what it's worth, I've contacted him twice and got no reply.   He's been on my list for a while so hopefully you have better luck.  

4 hours ago, queensboroboy said:

Anyone know if he bottoms?

Yes.  

On 3/22/2024 at 7:41 AM, KevinBryan said:

Really? I’ve asked him to bottom for me and he said no. 😂 

Very unusual.  He only ever bottomed until recently as far as I know.  

He is a power bottom.   He is back to using one of his older names.  He generally one of these:  Manlystudd, Manlybuddy and Machostudd.  No idea why he switches between the three though. 

He started out at $300, moved to NYC and increased his rate to $500.   Sounds like that rate increase didn't work out too well and is back to $350 now.  

On 11/14/2023 at 9:32 AM, randeman said:

Also, another poster mentioned using cooking wine.  If that is to the individual's taste, go for it.  However, you should be aware that there is often a lot of sodium in cooking wines and this can completely change the taste of the dish you're using it in, not to mention the health issues high sodium can affect.

Correct.  Cooking wine generally contains preservatives, salt and other ingredients that can change the taste of the finished dish.  I've never heard anyone recommend their use.  Stick with a cheap bottle of your favorite type and you'll be fine.  

This is a forum.   We all have likes/dislikes and I don't find mentioning any of those to be inappropriate.  Some seem to be offended that others find uncircumcised guys gross.  Give me a break.   I happen to find felching, fisting, PAs, and face tattoos to be "gross", but is that also off-limits to mention here?   I also find using loaded language such as "mutilated" gross to describe the vast majority of American men, but I digress. 

On 3/2/2024 at 3:09 PM, south_king said:

Imagine being grossed-out by a natural penis that hasn’t been mutilated… some of you are so weird. And calling it a “preference” or how you’re “wired” to hide prejudices is the worst thing you can do.

Honestly, do you guys ever go out and meet other men in the real world? Before making out with someone do you ask if they’re circumcised or not?

This is a paid service.   When was the last time you went to a restaurant and the menu listed Beef, Chicken, Fish, etc?   Most likely you want the details.   The same goes with escorting.   If I'm paying $300+/hour, I want to know what I'm paying for.   

He quoted me $350 so definitely on the high side for the Midwest.   

3 hours ago, Pd1_jap said:

Howdy y'all,

I'll be traveling to Michigan soon and would like to get a decent massage with a little bit of play. Any suggestions would be appreciated. 

Also, if anyone has cruising recommendations I'd love to know about those too.

https://rentmasseur.com/LoganStone

Real massage and playful as well.  Did some porn a few years back.   We have a lot of travelers come through on a regular basis but not so many locals for massage.  Feel free to DM me if you want more info.  

Jett Wayne is a great looking guy but he definitely did not need the neck tattoos he recently added.  

He changed his name again or back to his original name.  Not sure how many names he uses but was calling himself Weverton (sp?) for a while and now using Thiagoprive again.  Usually a red flag. 

8 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

Why are you wasting soooooo many people’s time?  Stop. 

Responding to client requests is a waste of time?   I thought that was a normal part of business.  In my industry, you end up only getting business from a fraction of the potential clients who request info.  I don't know why escorting would be any different.  

I believe Theodorus is Greek, not Turkish and guessing there probably aren't too many Greek-Turkish couples.  I noticed their schedules too so I think you're onto something.