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I think a provider starting clothed then slowly getting naked is a great thrill IMO it's kind of like a strip tease. 

I'm surprised people wants to hire during the Christmas period. I'd wait until January when the madness is over. 

Being attractive is one thing, being able to deliver on the goods is another matter entirely. 

I get objections to smells but surely you can't be dictating a provider's pubic hair.

I'm curious to know what the best months are for hiring? 

2 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

It’s counter intuitive. Friday night and Saturday people are out socialising, there’s other stuff to do. Plus those kind of clients (the I’m horny now types) aren’t good clients. I think people book early on the week because they want a treat to start the week. Also if you’re hiring on the ‘down low’ then it’s easier to do that on a weekday daytime at start of week. 

That's a good point which I hadn't considered about Friday and Saturday about socialising and indeed I tend to do a lot of my activities on those days as well. 

I'm surprised people do hire during the weekday daytime though even with WFH. 

11 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

Data is valuable! Plus I’m kind of nerdy about keeping records. But really my activity isn’t so busy that I need to keep detailed records to know what’s happening. It’s mostly by feel, and then when I look at the records my ‘feeling’ is verified. 

The figures are fairly steady, I saw a drop during the pandemic but it quickly got back to pre pandemic levels. Earlier in the week is busier than later, and earlier in the month busier than the end. Winter is busier than summer. Regular clients make up 70% of the business. 95% are male. 90% are in calls. 

I do the work part time (it’s better that way for me) and mix in some filming and more conventional work. That all had to be highly flexible because there’s no real pattern as to time of day. 

Summer being less busy than Winter doesn't surprise me as that is when a lot of people go on holiday. Earlier in the week does surprise me though, I would have thought Friday Night or even Saturday would in theory would be busy.

It's now working fine. 

It hasn't been loading for me either, checked both Chrome and Safari on desktop. 

A condom for oral is a bit odd but apparently it's recommended by health professionals but TBH any good provider would be regularly testing and likewise the client as well. 

Putting a condom for fingering is also strange, surely latex gloves would be easier and better?

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I assume those wanting a 11pm hire have just come from a night out or just horny. I prefer to plan in advance personally if i'm hiring. 

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I don't object to anyone having a side hustle but I do wonder how someone balances something like sex work with an equally stressful job like being a nurse, lawyer, doctor etc especially a doctor where depending on your experience it can be very intensive in terms of hours. 

I'm sure a lot of providers who do sensual/erotic massage also do regular massages as well.

Anyone who's doing both a high profile job like nursing, teaching etc and also doing provider work has to have a hectic schedule unless they only do provider work on certain evenings or weekends. 

I've seen massage porn videos where it starts off like a sports massage with the both the masseur and client clothed or partly clothed and then the clothes come off as it progresses. I'm not sure I'd personally want to have my clothes on at the start but I'm sure some do.

Vest/t-shirt and shorts is my preference, I think there's something quite erotic about a masseur taking off their clothes as the massage progresses although undressing rituals are also quite fun as well. 

5 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

My rate reduces slightly for a longer session. The two hour rate is slightly less than double the 1 hour rate. Why? I prefer to do a longer session than an hour, the preparation time etc is same for an hour as it is for two. It’s more efficient for me to see one two hour client than to see two one hour clients. So I price it accordingly to encourage them to trade up to 90m or 2 hours. 

Do first time clients often opt for a shorter session or does it vary? 

16 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

It varies. Some of my regular clients return annually (they live abroad usually). A recent regular has had 7 sessions in the past 3 months. Most of my regulars come between 4 and 6 months. I think it’s important to keep things fresh, especially with sensual massage. 

Maybe it's just me but 7 sessions in 3 months seems like a lot but who am I to judge? 

I suppose it's somewhat like booking a holiday, it's something to look forward to. 

This is a bit of an odd question but what is the ideal length to see a masseur/escort if you want to use their services on a regular or semi regular basis? I imagine there is no single answer but would like to see what the average is.