Eric91

Because I have time today, The red flags listed: 
- I'm new.  (for reasons mentioned above) 
- creating a new profile to reach out. (this is often done by spam bots who create new accounts daily, or seasoned tire kickers who know if we see how old/visit the profile they have had means they wouldn't be messaging this way if they were genuine.)
-Not answering the very simple yet important question, which had to be asked THREE TIMES - what do you want to do? What do you get into? What do you like to do when it comes to gay sex? (could be answered in a non-explicit way, although to be fair I despise when people answer with 'i'm looking to have fun' because what the hell does that mean) For me this was the biggest red flag. 
- asking questions that are already answered on his profile no1 - (do you do bb)  listed on our profiles as safe only/ask me/anything goes. Maybe this provider had 'ask me' as his answer but the following two points would suggest that is not the case. 
- asking questions that are already answered on his profile no2 - (are you neg) If he has taken the time to set up a new profile to reach out, why wouldn't he have read the providers stats?  He was elongating the conversation for interaction. 
- asking questions that are already answered on his profile no3  - asking the provider what THEY are into (this a common theme for the tire kickers trying to elicit free conversation of sexual nature. You tell us what YOU like, what we 'like' other than getting paid is irrelevant and the truthful answer is probably not fucking you)  
- asking sexual questions with obvious answers  - do you like to breed. (find me one top who would say 'no i hate it')
- He asked about traveling and hosting, despite later saying he only wanted to travel.  Why would he ask about both if he only wanted one. If he wanted the provider to host he would have said "i am looking for someone to host, where are you located?'  (example of elongating conversation instead of making a booking) 
- "and other services?" This is a classic way to get conversation instead of booking. Real client would say 'i saw you list available for videos, can i ask what you allow?" or " i would be really interested in filming some of our encounter, is that included in a session?" these questions would provide an answer, but that is not what he wanted - he wanted to explore conversations ABOUT making videos, rather than meeting and actually doing it. 
I hope this illustrates more about how the language of his texts were trying to get a conversation rather than firm down a booking. Does only one of these things mean automatic red flag block and ignore? Of course not. But the sum is greater than the parts, and after a while you start to be able to spot them easier.
 

As I mentioned in my post - it is a regular occurrence that 'clients' message and say 'hey this is my first time reaching out' and then we discover evidence to the contrary. It was the first time-waster red-flag in his messages. Does it automatically mean he is lying? No. But more often than not it is fanciful and makes us proceed with caution. (re-read my post for examples of how we know this) 
You don't see any indication because you are a customer and not a worker. You have seen this message once, we see them daily all the time. We are professionals. A builder can spot defects on a wall much quicker than an untrained eye.
Trust me, there are many that simply looking at his pics while getting to text him and have him text back and just imagine what they could be doing together is sufficient - and best of all: FREE. As someone who  actually has experience and knowledge in these types interactions DAILY, there were things that raise red flags that you wouldn't see but we do. 
Yes you are right the provider COULD have sounded more excited "Oh I LOVE FLEXING MY PECS' 'YOU CREATED THE PROFILE TO MESSAGE ME? WHAT A COMPLIMENT' and the result would have been the same - except the "client" would have continued to ask him about underwear and flexing his pecs, maybe asking for more pics of it (im sure that was his next step) then jerked off to completion and the provider would have spent that energy unpaid.  
Every other person here on this thread who DOES hire has said they would reach out in a different way. Because they are not tire kickers. 
And Hanlons Razor? I would have agreed with this when I was a newbie. But these people are not stupid, they are very very smart. They know exactly what they are doing. 

He seems to have good feedback on the deli side:
https://rent.men/Nicoo_XL
 

LennyStarxx...absolutely hand down the best. However you said escort and I must say I don't know how far he will go but the erotic massage is as good as it gets....and it could lead to deli which was my case because we really clicked and I had a fabulous room with a panoramic view of downtown Chicago. He stayed quite a while admiring the view as did I. And I think I looked out the window once.

I of course can't speak for anyone else on the forum except myself, but I would like to mention I am not annoyed if the location in the title is outdated.  (I mentioned it previously, but even if the location is outdated, it lets me know that the provider has traveled to my city in the past, and may return in the future. This is probably the least important benefit).  I can think of 2 use cases where it affects me more:
1) For masseurs that are on masseurfinder, who do not have a unique user name.  If those providers don't advertise on the other sites, then they are sometimes only referred to be their first name.  Having the city in the title, helps me narrow down if it is the provider in my city.  (Of course, it would be great if the original post provides a link to the masseurfinder page, or to the unique 5 digit number associated with the provider, but sometimes people forget to include those)
2) Helps me find threads that I may be willing to comment on.  I am willing to provide feedback on providers that I have had the pleasure of having a session with.  However, sometimes I won't recognize the user names of each provider I have hired.  If the city is in the title, I can read through the thread, and maybe something will jumpstart my memory. I can now provide some feedback on the provider even if they are in another city that is not my own.

I of course can't speak for anyone else on the forum except myself, but I would like to mention I am not annoyed if the location in the title is outdated.  (I mentioned it previously, but even if the location is outdated, it lets me know that the provider has traveled to my city in the past, and may return in the future. This is probably the least important benefit).  I can think of 2 use cases where it affects me more:
1) For masseurs that are on masseurfinder, who do not have a unique user name.  If those providers don't advertise on the other sites, then they are sometimes only referred to be their first name.  Having the city in the title, helps me narrow down if it is the provider in my city.  (Of course, it would be great if the original post provides a link to the masseurfinder page, or to the unique 5 digit number associated with the provider, but sometimes people forget to include those)
2) Helps me find threads that I may be willing to comment on.  I am willing to provide feedback on providers that I have had the pleasure of having a session with.  However, sometimes I won't recognize the user names of each provider I have hired.  If the city is in the title, I can read through the thread, and maybe something will jumpstart my memory. I can now provide some feedback on the provider even if they are in another city that is not my own.

I of course can't speak for anyone else on the forum except myself, but I would like to mention I am not annoyed if the location in the title is outdated.  (I mentioned it previously, but even if the location is outdated, it lets me know that the provider has traveled to my city in the past, and may return in the future. This is probably the least important benefit).  I can think of 2 use cases where it affects me more:
1) For masseurs that are on masseurfinder, who do not have a unique user name.  If those providers don't advertise on the other sites, then they are sometimes only referred to be their first name.  Having the city in the title, helps me narrow down if it is the provider in my city.  (Of course, it would be great if the original post provides a link to the masseurfinder page, or to the unique 5 digit number associated with the provider, but sometimes people forget to include those)
2) Helps me find threads that I may be willing to comment on.  I am willing to provide feedback on providers that I have had the pleasure of having a session with.  However, sometimes I won't recognize the user names of each provider I have hired.  If the city is in the title, I can read through the thread, and maybe something will jumpstart my memory. I can now provide some feedback on the provider even if they are in another city that is not my own.

I find it really helpful to put the city in the title.  I like to browse the forum and when I see a thread with my city's name in it, I will click on it.  
Even if the provider is not in my city currently, the information is still helpful because then I know that he will occasionally travel to my city and I can be on the lookout for him.
 

I find it really helpful to put the city in the title.  I like to browse the forum and when I see a thread with my city's name in it, I will click on it.  
Even if the provider is not in my city currently, the information is still helpful because then I know that he will occasionally travel to my city and I can be on the lookout for him.
 

I find it really helpful to put the city in the title.  I like to browse the forum and when I see a thread with my city's name in it, I will click on it.  
Even if the provider is not in my city currently, the information is still helpful because then I know that he will occasionally travel to my city and I can be on the lookout for him.
 

I find it really helpful to put the city in the title.  I like to browse the forum and when I see a thread with my city's name in it, I will click on it.  
Even if the provider is not in my city currently, the information is still helpful because then I know that he will occasionally travel to my city and I can be on the lookout for him.
 

I find it really helpful to put the city in the title.  I like to browse the forum and when I see a thread with my city's name in it, I will click on it.  
Even if the provider is not in my city currently, the information is still helpful because then I know that he will occasionally travel to my city and I can be on the lookout for him.
 

While there are valid arguments for/against, I think putting the city in the subject line is a good idea. The OP can always change the title of the thread if it becomes irrelevant or out-of-date. Moderators can do the same if made aware of it.
One thing that does NOT work in the subject title is to enter a URL link to the provider’s ad/site. Looks messy, and the link won’t work.

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Yes, this was a few weeks ago, and I was also draped entire time.

There were no sensual/erotic elements in my session with him.  But his therapeutic massage is excellent with great pressure at a reasonable price.

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I had a good time with him and would repeat.

I have had a massage by him.  His technique is excellent - you can tell he is professionally trained.  The massage table and draping is very similar to what you get at a hotel spa or high end spa.  He checked in with me several times during the massage and was able to adjust the pressure perfectly to my liking.  All in all, it was a superb therapeutic massage.  

I had a good time with him and would repeat.

I've met with him and highly recommend and would repeat.  He has a nice personality and looks just like his pictures.  He gives a great massage as well.  PM for details.

I feel like elevating your legs help relax that area and the water comes out easier.  Try putting some foot stools in front of the toilet and placing your feet on those.  

I've met with him and highly recommend and would repeat.  He has a nice personality and looks just like his pictures.  He gives a great massage as well.  PM for details.

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