LostUpstate

I don’t hire a lot, but I’ve had my share. I think the nicest one I hired was Guy Mitchells, very personable among his other attributes. Sadly retired and I think he moved out of New York, I think he started a new life in Florida.

Yes, I tell my closer gay friends, but I don’t share it with my straight friends, whether male or female.

When I was with him, he was very interactive. I didn’t know much about him, and I told a friend of mine about it afterwards, and he was thrilled that I got it for free, and my friend acted like I had nabbed a big time star!

Yes, that’s him. He was really hot. He had a thing for blond twink types, which is exactly what I was back in the day, although more of what’s now called a twunk.

I was walking back home from the gym and I was passing by Bloomingdale’s in Manhattan in the rain, it was summer of 2000. I noticed a tall hot Latin guy under his umbrella looking at me as I passed by. He smiled and I stopped to talk to him. I ended up bringing him back to my apartment on the Upper East Side for a little fun. He told me he was an escort and also did porn. He gave me his real name, and then his porn star name, Max Grand. Those were the days!

Really handsome face and dirty next door type. I’ve often wondered what he’d be like, have been tempted to hire him, thanks for letting us know a little more about him.

I absolutely cringe when I have to take the subway in NYC. Homeless people in the stations and sleeping on the seats on the trains, rats sometimes even on the platforms, open drug use, erratic behavior. It’s a horror show. Then when I’m in London on the Tube, it’s so civilized. Seats upholstered in fabric, and signs to keep your feet off the seats. Of course, it is more expensive than the NYC subway, but it’s worth it. I’m used to the Metro in Paris, but it sometimes does have its issues similar to those in New York with the homelessness and erratic behavior. Also love the Metro in Montréal and the subway in Tokyo, the one time I was in the Japanese capital.

In the 1980s and working at a branch of the late, great Filene’s in Albany, NY, I wore a variety of fragrances to suit my mood or according to the season. Most of the ones I wore back then don’t exist in their current form. Eau Sauvage by Dior in the summer, L’Homme by Roger & Gallet or Pour Monsieur by Chanel in the winter. The original Obsession by Calvin Klein takes me back to the gay bars of Albany although I never wore it myself. You could smell it everywhere. ln Manhattan in the 1990s, CK One by Calvin Klein was everywhere, another one I never wore but you could smell it everywhere you went. It was the return of fragrances that were considered unisex. The best memory I have of a fragrance is Santal Massoïa by Hermès, it brings me back to when it first came out and was the first cologne I smelled that seemed like it had seratonin actually in the bottle, it made me happy. I’m sure it doesn’t have mood enhancers in it, but it’s definitely happiness in a bottle.

Sorry to hear about Dominic Pacifico, I always thought he was so hot! Although he is adding to his tattoos, which is a turn-off to me. I’ve seen Jaxton Wheeler on Chaturbate and he comes across as a jerk who’s impressed with himself. I don’t think he’s all that anyway. Others who do nothing for me- Dante Colle, Michael Del Rey, Cade Maddox, Dallas Steele, and the Bel Ami boys. The Bel Ami kids all look alike to me.

Grindr absolutely kills my battery, that’s the biggest drawback of the app. Besides so many flakes on it.

I was definitely going to mention that we have previously met beforehand, hopefully that will take away any awkwardness.

I’ve been wondering if this would be awkward. I met a hot guy in a steam room in a spa, and we ended up fooling around at the location, which I won’t disclose here. I recognized him as a masseur that I was seriously considering hiring. I couldn’t believe my luck when I saw him, and it was a good time. I’m still very interested in hiring him, would it be awkward to pay him for a massage? Should I tell him that we have met before? You guys are the experts, so I figured I’d ask here what you all think.

I saw a video of him from the webcam. He was at home wearing an eye mask and waiting for strangers to come into his apartment, on all fours on his couch. Nice body, but not too well endowed. I work in the corporate world, and it’s just not a good idea to mention on social media or elsewhere, your employer. That’s the reason for losing his job. Graphic sexual content is a no-no, and I’m no prude, but it was a lapse of good judgment in his case.

Sexy. I have a Korean boy toy who’s really hot.

It sounds like it was kidney failure due to alcoholism. His family asked in lieu of flowers for donations to the Sunrise Fund, which helps people stay sober. In one of Randy’s posts, he said that he had been clean since November 2021, but the after effects of kidney and liver failure from excessive drinking can be too much. Same thing happened to my mother many years ago. Very sad.

I tried using the “Available Now” feature and it just froze. Wasn’t happy with that. Will have to use rentmen.eu if it continues to be a problem.

My favorites are charlieonline, a thin smooth guy in his 30s in California who’s really handsome and very well hung, he drinks and smokes cigarettes and chats a long time in his living room and is naked most of the time; dcrocket88, a buff hairy Italian guy in his early 30s, straight but friendly and huge where it counts; and hotmartin25, in his 30s, hunky slightly hairy Latin guy with a big uncut piece. I don’t buy tokens anymore, though, I’d rather put that money towards hiring an escort!

You could always try Spa Castle. I went there on a Thursday afternoon in March and it was hot. Though it is less convenient to get to, especially if you’re taking public transportation.

Same here, I only hire if they’re into kissing.

I’ve never made a special request for an escort, I usually tell them to wear whatever makes them comfortable. I hired JacobNYC, a clean cut All-American charmer, and he showed up in a white T-shirt with khaki shorts and sneakers. Most when I’ve made an incall wear gym shorts.

Upon the provider (now since retired) opening the door to his apartment and seeing me for the first time, “Oh, a handsome one!” I was really complemented but wondered if he really meant it or said that to everyone. Although I sure did have a good time with him, probably the best experience I’ve had with an escort.