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Just went to the Blow Buddies event they hold on a Friday night. Not as busy as Thursdays in the other space near Penn Station, but I still had a good time. Cheered myself up after wasting too much money on a mediocre massage yesterday and hooked up with a stunning Asian guy with an incredible body, well endowed and handsome. I couldn’t believe he was into a middle aged white guy. I’d say maybe 20 people were in attendance, but one good hookup like mine can make it worthwhile! I’m going to sleep well tonight!

He’s absolutely gorgeous, he could pursue a career in film or modeling here in the States instead of his native China. He probably gets a high fee based on his looks alone.

I probably wouldn’t repeat with Jay, despite the face and body. I was expecting more of a sensual experience and it was therapeutic, with the happy ending. For $360, I would have appreciated a little more. I wasn’t in the VIP room, and the room we were in didn’t seem to have any air conditioning. But his photos are real.

You sound like a really nice guy! I’m amazed by the statistics of where potential clients come from!

I just had an appointment with Jay at the spa, and his body really is that beautiful. Incredible chest, legs, and nice abs. He was very kind, and he is handsome. We made some small talk and he said he has a personal trainer. I’m always hesitant to take a chance when they don’t show their face,, but he doesn’t disappoint. This was the first provider I met without seeing his face. Thankfully he’s the real deal. Very chiseled features with a strong jawline and high cheekbones. Personally I think the mustache suits him.

This thread is getting a little off-topic, but I’d like to chime in about how I contact a provider. I state my first name and send a few pictures in my first contact message about their availability and rates. I know it’s a business for the provider, but I like to make it a little more personal and I think that they should know who they’re speaking with. My typical first contact is basically like, “Hi there XXXX, my name is XXXX and I was wondering when you’re available and what your rates are. Here are a few pictures so you know who you’re talking to.”

Hot but no reviews and he doesn’t say much about what he does.

Sorry to hear that some guys completely drop the conversation when they find out you’re Asian. I’m Caucasian but I’m attracted to all types, it’s the individual himself that attracts me, not what ethnicity he is. I like White, Black, Hispanic, Asian, Middle Eastern, Indian and anything else that I may have left out. And the stereotypes don’t always apply- I’ve been with some Asian guys who have been very well-endowed. But it’s not just the size of their junk, I’m attracted to guys who aren’t as well-endowed, too, because they have something that I find attractive. I’ve been with Japanese, Chinese, Korean, Thai, Vietnamese, Filipino, Indonesian and Chinese-Caucasian mixed, and I’ve enjoyed them all!

His private pics are two of his back side, and one full frontal. Nice average size endowment, looks uncut. Great glutes.

He’s hot and I’ve watched his videos, but I’m not into the steroid look. I like the guy next door type, usually. When I see PNP in a listing, it’s a non-starter for me. Sad to hear this about him.

He has now branched out into porn as Internet Papi, and a couple videos have been released. I watched one, definitely looks hot. Nice, lean body, I hope he doesn’t ever go the steroid route. Also now has a rentmen profile.

I only hired 2 providers last year. One was with Jae who goes by Massage Bliss by Jae on masseurfinder. He no longer has his profile on rentmasseur. His texting before the meeting was like a form letter- “Please state age, height and weight for table adjustment.” “Rate is $180, tipping is not included.” He kept making sure that I was going to tip in our messaging. I arrived on time for the incall, and he wasn’t very warm or welcoming. It was like a business transaction. When the session was over, he was busy texting on his phone and not engaged in conversation or any small talk, seemed completely disinterested. As I was walking out of his studio, it had been 35 minutes but I had paid for an hour. Wouldn’t recommend or repeat.

I’ve never fallen in love with an escort, but I have fallen in lust.

Thanks for the info. I haven’t seen much about him, but he looks like the type of guy I would like to hire for a session. And we all know you can’t trust the reviews on rentmasseur.

I definitely like to chat, if they’re not interested in a little small talk, I feel like it’s just a transaction. Having a little conversation to me is just being kind to one another. One provider that I really enjoyed, said that he likes to get to know his clients and likes to chat over a beer or two before getting into the main event. So when he came to my apartment, we had a couple beers and then got into the fun part. And after, he stayed a little while longer, had another beer and chatted with me naked before leaving. I paid for an hour, but he was there for an extra 20 minutes, and it felt more like a friend with benefits type situation than a business dealing. When I’ve hired massage therapists, I discuss with them my physical problems, aches and pains, so they can work on that before the massage. And we still talk about whatever comes to mind. I went to one message therapist who really didn’t want to talk much, was a terrible conversationalist and I would never hire him again.

Good idea, thanks!

Sexy guy, and a great personality to boot! He has some newer pictures in his profile.

It depends on the provider and what they can get. My next provider who I’d like to see asks around that much, but he has rave reviews and everyone on here says he’s worth every penny. I live in NYC and there are many who ask for less, in the $150-180 range. It’s probably the same where you are in California.

His attitude was definitely “You need me more than I need you,” in both his communication and his attitude during the session. Still, I thought he might be worth a try because we had fun anonymously before we actually met.

I had already put the cash in an envelope before I got there and then there was no discreet way to take it out, and I didn’t know what time it was until I walked out his door. I had read previous threads about this provider which are locked because they date from 2018, and the client wrote that he experienced the same thing. Lesson learned!

So glad it’s back! This site has been an invaluable source for information about providers and all the protocols involved!

I’ve hired 2 masseurs in the past 4 months. One charged $150 for one hour, plus tip, I tipped an extra $90 because he was really good with the sensual stuff, and a really nice guy. I actually had fooled around with him at my gym’s steam room and I asked him in advance of our meeting if he was okay with that, and it was cool with him. He’s not really much of a massage therapist, but the extras were amazing. The second guy I hired was also a guy that I had casually “met” at a Korean spa, and his rate was $180, and he made sure that “tipping is highly appreciated.” He was quite vague about what the session would entail, and his texts were on the cold side, not especially personal and more like he just sends you a form letter. Still, I went through with it because I think he’s hot. Upon meeting him, I mentioned the Korean spa encounter and he denied ever meeting me. The massage was okay, but he went into the extras very quickly and seemed like he was in a rush to get it over and done with. I tipped an extra $100, because I didn’t know what was appropriate in this situation, and when I left, it had been 35 minutes, not the hour I had paid for. Probably wouldn’t repeat.

I’ve only ever hired for non-penetrative services, with both escorts and for erotic massages, so there’s a market for it. When I’ve hired an escort, I pay the same rate as for escorting and not massage, and I’ve usually been very happy.

I’m surprised that no one answered, but they found a match for him, and so far, he’s doing well. He’s back on RM and has a couple good reviews. He has a picture on his profile of himself with his sexy silver beard and you can see a faint scar on his abdomen. Glad he’s okay!

I’m not so sure Argentina is still as cheap, the combination of inflation and the stronger peso have changed prices there in things like restaurants, hotels, groceries, etc., so I would assume escorts would be more as well.