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I'm going to go the other direction here. Based on the posts by @Coolwave35, I think there can be something more here. Coolwave, you seem like an awesome guy. I'm not sure what you're looking for longer term, but if you truly adore him and he really needs some 'help' perhaps try to offer to bring this past the hiring phase. There is a place to be a mentor and a trusted confidant with people you really like and find attractive. You have to make sure the value exchange is just mutual, no matter what that looks like for you. I'd set some very, very clear boundaries on every future meeting and also sit him down (sober!) and perhaps show him this forum thread. Have him ready it and your text and all the replies. I personally choose to invest not only my money but also my time (as a client) in those escorts who I find worth it. The ROI measure for everyone is different, but it sounds like you may be able to have an impact on this guys life. I don't know him or you, but I wouldn't write him off just yet on strike two. One more, sure. Good luck.

His endgame is to replace the banking system. A much larger play here has been in the making for over 25 years. Anyone who has followed him and has been paying attention knows these are just steps to get to the endgame, much like the paid blue check marks. Think of him what you like, but the guy is brilliant and I would place my bet on him every. single. time. Read more here:

Sadly I don't think you have any influence over Rent Men and more than a seller has influence over Amazon.com. You'd have to have critical mass in order to make them even listen to you. Although as a business owner, I know that ALL feedback is received and analyzed, so keep talking to them and making suggestions. The only way to make a change is to build a better mouse trap and make it so compelling that people use a new platform over Rent Men because it makes sense, can drive additional business, and has the features they want (providers and clients). That can happen, but you're looking at a bank roll of about $1M to $3M to actually try to compete with Rent Men. I have ideas where you could secure the capital for something like this, but don't really have the time to get involved. There are tons of investors out there who will jump at the chance to compete with a company that has a monopoly on something -- which Rent Men has on the largest market in the world (USA). Good luck.

I work full-time, and the main guy I hire also has a full-time career (he does this on the side). We also live in separate cities. We have taken a longer trip out of the country and that requires a lot of planning and a solid commitment. For regular sessions, he visity NYC on a regular schedule that he plans time around his personal and work schedule, tells me when he will be there. Then I schedule time away from my work to meet in NYC. I haven't ever really done the "hire in my city" or last-minute meetups. It works for me this way, but I also know the chances of cancellation (for work, for family, for health) carry a huge monetary loss on his side and on my side. It's an acceptable risk for us both because the rewards are greater.

Oh man, I can close my eyes and listen to his voice forever. There's that hint of Canadian in there too.... EH? 😁🤣

I truly believe we get out of these interactions, the energy we put into them. I’m gonna see him this coming weekend and we’re just gonna go see a Broadway show and have dinner. I dont “need” him for sex anymore. He had turned into someone I truly admire and he has changed my life for the better. It makes me wanna be a better man. They can’t put a price on that. It’s because of him I met the other guy I am going to marry one day. That’s so awesome. He has a gift and deserves all the money in the world for sharing it. And if you can only swing $400 and want someone to fick your lights out he’s the man for that too. 🤣😎 Edit grammar. Sorry voice texting.

Oh, you have no idea. Watch this space. I'll post a story one day. I'm actually writing a book about it. It starts with meeting on Rent Men and ends with the fairytale wedding and everything. Two guys from two different worlds, collide Rent Men, fall in love and live happily ever after and get married and have children and build a family. I'm sitting on a Virgin cruise ship right now typing this while he's snoring away taking a nap. ❤️ Life isn't all rainbows and sunshine. Things can be difficult to navigate and sure, money plays into it. But when you're truly in love and build each other up as people, everything finally clicks. You can go puke now. lol

Be straightforward. Ask him straight out why he is inviting you over again for free. Specifically, "What are you looking for here?" Everything else is speculation.

You know the saying: "If you have to ask the price....." This equation is so complex it and variable down to the two individuals involved, you can't really put a price on it. Let's start with: Are you looking for a full-time "employee" ??

I didn’t meet up with them, but I just wasted probably two hours going back-and-forth with him. He wasn’t clear on where he was in my city which specific location. His responses were short and all over the place. He kept me waiting around. Then when I offered, not a second, but a THIRD chance, “my phone just died” Wow dude. Like, get your shit together. I couldn’t have been more straightforward with everything. Sad because he’s hot and could have made a lot of money off me. Oh well.

Then I guess I misread it as well. There was never a Reese mentioned anywhere in this thread. It’s about Trevor. You are the only one who hauled out that name. Deducting you are trying to out the guy is (was) a valid conclusion given those facts.

Who's Reese? Not his name, but try again. I've seen his passport with my own eyes and know his real name. Trying to out someone who values discretion isn't a good look on you.

He doesn't have face pictures because he has a regular full-time job that is fairly high profile, and he would get into lots of trouble (read: FIRED), and discretion is something he values above all else. But you can also ask him after you have gone back and forth. In fact, after we exchanged a few texts the first time I reached out, he sent one voluntarily without me asking. He has no problem sending once you have engaged him on text -- he just can't show them to the world up-front. And he's a fucking stud, lol So: Invest some time to engage him and he will invest in you. That's how it works.

This dude is the fucking best. Been there more times than I can count and it’s life changing. lol. But really, he is just a fucking awesome dude.

Also don't underestimate the power of a US Passport. At the end of the day, none of these countries want an issue with a random American on their hands. You're too much freaking trouble to mess with. You *DO* carry the full weight of the United States of America and they aren't throwing you in jail unless they want you as a political pawn. I that case like with Russia or Iran, it really doesn't matter if you are gay, or a reporter, or have vapes on you. You're just fucked for breathing the air in that moment.

It's ironic that one of my favorite escorts has hired other guys for himself on a dozen or more occasions. They deal with all the same Grindr/Scruff/Sniffies issues that we have. People not showing up, people being to clingy, wanting more, etc. Sometimes you just want fun sex with no strings and someone who is reliable and on-time. He's the hottest thing walking around the planet in my eyes, but he also pays for it. I totally understand too.

@BiDude420 if you can provide us with a couple of links to guys who are your "type" and you are willing to do what @KensingtonHomo mentioned above about making it a date night, I have someone to refer that will completely blow you out of the water. 100% reliable, awesome, and everything you're looking for. He will be in New York City a lot next month, but that isn't his home base.

I think there should be a distinction between full-time escort work and work on the side. The word "full-time" didn't come into play until @sam.fitzpatrick mentioned it above. Yes, you can make it your career, your identity, and your job. That's awesome. But there are also those who do it just because. The one escort I live and die by does this on the side. Money isn't the primary factor in their motivations. Sure it helps, and it's nice, but they genuinely like to make connections with people and are one of those "people-pleaser" types we have all heard about. He has a full-time professional job in a fairly high-profile industry where this is a hobby. He has over 100+ reviews on RM that are all 5.0 across the board (not 4.8 or 4.9) and obviously, it shows. So in this context, this isn't their "real life" but sure, at this point we are just playing with semantics. Here's a hint: those who do it for the connections are the absolute best out there. Find someone like that and make them your regular. It's completely worth it.

I leave reviews for other providers, which are visible on my profile. I think people find a provider, look at their reviews, see mine, click the link on my profile, and then just message me. It's a vicious circle, lol.

I'm the typical mid-40's, grey hair, beefy, some wrinkles in the face, 5 o'clock shadow, coach/dad type. Textbook definition of a 'daddy'. If I had a nickel for every college baseball player or jock that had daddy issues (hint: they ALL do!), I could buy a new Macbook. I have a client profile on RM with clear pictures, and I get hit up kind of often asking if I escort. Same types. The answer is no (not because I don't think it would work, I simply don't have the time and focus my energy elsewhere) but thank you for the compliment. Yes, I use my look to my advantage. We all should be playing the cards we are dealt in life. lol

Take an inked-up built MAN who is a "hood rat" but an actual nice guy underneath, yea, all about it.

This all boils down to the fundamental structure of how the FedACH system works. If a scammer puts in enough time and effort, they can set up a "fake" relationship with a bank or payment provider directly that will, in fact, allow for direct debit from a checking account with just an account number and bank routing number. There doesn't even need to be a full name match per NACHA standards. You can just say you're authorized to debit and if you have the facility or knowledge on how to do it, it can be done. ACHs are sometimes reversible for up to 30 days, to a maximum of 90. But those funds are long transferred out of the scammer account and gone by the time it is realized. Protect your ABA/Account information just like you would your SSN.

Well, my friends that own a bar in Chicago sell them out of these for $10. They have to make a killing and everyone sees it. So…

I just posted in that other thread above.

As someone who has been everything from 210 and well built to 285 and not well built in my adult life, I can say there are a few parts here: 1. As Jamie says above, there are position limitations and we all have to be realistic. I had them at the time and it sucked to be honest. I think people who are overweight know and want to try, but know their reality too. 2. There were just as many people attracted to me at 285 as there were at 210. Today, I am 220 and not muscular or defined by any stretch of the imagination. People would describe me as "beefy" in general. However, my boyfriend is the textbook Instagram type who looks like he just walked off a fucking bodybuilding competition stage. He's like a walking cinderblock and everyone looks at him everywhere we go. I have people who assume he is an escort and I am paying him, but that isn't the case. He loves me for me, not the time I spend in the gym. The only reason I work out now is to stay healthy so that I can maximize the years I have to spend with him, and that's attractive to anyone. 3. It's all about your energy. Anyone can attract anyone they want with the right mindset and energy. There's also an element of cleanliness and self-care that goes into it. No matter your weight (unless we're talking 400-500+ people who physically cannot manage to get into a shower or wipe their ass -- be clean. Cut your nails. Change your clothes. Use soap. Manage yourself the best you're able with the tools that are available. If you do that, you are good. Hope this helps.