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In the immortal words of Obi-Wan Kenobi, “only a Sith deals in absolutes.” 😁

26 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

It was more heartbreak, than hangups.

You know this or assume it was heartbreak? 

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

Former limitations. New year / new business model

Good for him. Hopefully he got over his hang ups. Have the pics been updated or are these still the old ones? Meaning before gaining 30 pounds…

57 minutes ago, Unicorn said:

I can tell you have a deep admiration for this "good friend" of yours, but sometimes admiration, especially for one person, can lead to excessive trust in their utterances. Fauci wasn't perfect, but I will give him credit for the most part in being able to see the "big picture." HIV is a retrovirus, which means that it functions by inserting its genetic material into the host's cells' nucleus. In other words, once a person is infected by HIV, that virus's genetic material actually becomes a part of that person's own DNA. "Curing" someone of HIV would necessitate actually removing that portion of the DNA from every single cell the virus infected--and it's not just T-cells. While there may be a number of theories as to how that may be done, this has never been done for any virus which inserts its genome into the host's, even in animal models. 

What has been developed successfully is a number of anti-viral therapies, and thankfully that's also happened quite successfully for HIV. This has resulted in turning this illness from a usually fatal one into one which allows most infected to live fairly normal lives. I don't know how much influence Fauci had in directing where research dollars went, but if he has responsibility in assigning HIV medication funds to where they went, then he clearly saved millions of lives. Had the funds gone mostly into basic/theoretical research, countless people would have been lost. Any possibility of cures is probably years away. 

Some people have a very strong talent in certain areas, but this doesn't necessarily translate into other areas of life. This appears to be the case for your friend. A good example which comes immediately to mind is Linus Pauling. He obviously was a genius in the fields of quantum chemistry and molecular biology, and was justly awarded the Nobel Prize for chemistry. However, he was a doofus when it came to medicine, and strongly suggested lots of useless therapies, and refused to acknowledge he was wrong, even after multiple studies proved his errors. Most famously, he promoted large doses of vitamin C to treat colds and cancers, among other silly ideas, and many were swayed by his ideas simply because they gave blind trust to a man they admired because of other work.

Thank you very much for explaining this so clearly and kindly. You really drew for us the big picture yet outlining several insightful nuances. I gather you’re a scientist or professor yourself.

it is so important to understand  that even people who are brilliant and knowledgeable in a particular field can be plainly ignorant or just misguided when venturing into areas outside of  their research. True intelligence lies in acknowledging one’s limitations beyond a chosen field of expertise. No matter how much of a genius someone might be, it’s not humanly possible to know everything even within their  own field. 

On 11/22/2022 at 1:39 AM, Coolwave35 said:

Who says romance is dead????

 

Awww, romance is alive and kicking indeed. Not since Jane Austen’s novels have I read such a romantic and sweet exchange between two love birds. It warms my heart and fills me with hope about the future of gay love relationships in the 21st century! 👍🤣 Congrats, Coolwave. Let us know when you two tie the knot ❤️

On 11/26/2022 at 1:20 AM, MaybeMaybeNot said:

Thank God my dad never had the talk with me.  It would have been way, way too awkward. Instead, my parents were happy when they were going to talk about sex at youth group at church. All we heard about, though, was to wait until marriage. I guess I already knew most of the rest. And the sermon must have helped. I was a virgin until I was 32, though I am still not married. 

Thanks for sharing your story, I can totally relate. I was also a virgin until I was 32.  My parents were not church goers and I never had “the talk” with my father. I grew up in a very small town and I learned everything from friends in school starting in 5th grade. We’d masturbate together and teach each other whatever we figured out about the female anatomy and heterosexual intercourse. I guess I got fixated in my friends’s own anatomy rather than bothering to actually explore women’s, too much work I thought. Maybe that explains why I’m gay? 🤣 j/k  

 I did engage in mutual masturbation sporadically and even occasional oral sex with a few guys throughout my late teens and 20s, especially with a very hot, muscular cousin of mine. I guess technically I was not a “total virgin” until 32 if these sporadic, furtive experiences count.  I sometimes look at young gay men today, who are so wonderfully comfortable and happy enjoying their sexuality the way it must be, and I so wish I had been able to do the same in my twenties. All this just underscores yet again how unfair and ridiculous religious and cultural prejudices are, and how much precious time and energy they make us waste restraining our freedom to live and enjoy our sexuality to its fullest potential. 

Great photos indeed. Whoever that was. The account on rentmasseur is now “temporarily frozen.” 

Bingo! Quite a specimen. Based in Atlanta. Anyone got to meet him?

https://rent.men/Ultraocean

He was in New York a couple of weeks ago. I contacted him for a massage appointment but he was checking out from his hotel the next morning and I couldn’t make it, unfortunately. He is also on rentmasseur. An impressive muscular body:

https://rentmasseur.com/Uno/

He offered full escort service too so I got the vibe he’s not a licensed masseur. “Therapeutic massage” is greyed out. I wonder if he also has a profile on rent.men. 

On 5/13/2022 at 1:37 PM, Rand said:

And just like that all dreams crumbled down lol

Oh well...

I hear Carrie’s voice over reading your words… 🤣

I never quite liked her. She impressed me as a person who was ruthlessly ambitious, advancing her career at any cost. What really turned me off was to find out that she was very close friends with Roy Cohn, even posed as his fiancée for a while. She was also a character witness vouchsafing for Cohn’s morality at his disbarment case, together with Donald J. Trump. In any case, RIP.

On 12/27/2022 at 5:12 PM, Marc in Calif said:

In my opinion, that's not acceptable. The only think I ask about is if he is nude during the massage and if there's a HE. To me, that's an erotic massage.

Anything beyond those two things depends on chemistry and willingness. Nobody can predict chemistry and willingness. It's NOT RentMen. 

However, my "erotic" massages have included mutual touching, oral, kissing, embracing, and rimming. I've never asked for anything more than that. 

I completely agree about having low expectations with erotic massage and respecting the fact the provider’s ad is on a massage app. Unless you found out the provider also has an ad on rentmen. Anything beyond nudity, MT and HE depends on chemistry and mutual agreement with the masseur. If you and the masseur click, anything can happen. I have had some of the best sexual experiences of my life that way, involving kissing, embracing, rimming, oral, and yes, even anal sex. There’s nothing like the spontaneity and the intensity of going with the flow when two people explore their mutual sexual attraction by starting with sensual touch. 

Thanks to dutchal for linking the threads. I just read the other thread and thought it was important to share here this comment about Hipolito/Alex, pretty creepy experience: 

Potential clients be warned. 

On 5/3/2022 at 3:45 PM, wDarling said:

I wanted to mention something that happened with him (Brazzilianboyy/Hipolito/Alex) recently. I went for my first session earlier in the day and had a good time. He’s more outgoing than I was expecting and was overall very friendly (I am a quiet/shy person myself). And he’s really hot. Massage/etc. was good and I honestly would have repeated and was planning on leaving a positive comment here.

So then late in the evening he sent me a weird message saying “I know what you did” and he hasn’t replied back to me ever since. No explanation, nothing. I tried texting him and messaging on Rent Masseur, but he hasn’t replied to my texts and he blocked me on RM (and my message to him got marked as “seen”). 

I honestly have no idea what he’s accusing me of. Does he think I stole something or broke something in his apartment? Did I accidentally give him the wrong bundle of money and now he thinks I underpaid (but I counted in front of him and gave it to him so I don’t think so)? I did see on Instagram that he seems to have gotten into some sort of fight with his ex and someone taped it, but does he think I was involved somehow? Or did I just accidentally pee on his toilet when I used his bathroom and that really pissed him off? Does he just have some mental health issues and imagined me doing something? I don’t know!

When I came in he asked me to remind him of our conversation because he wasn’t sure which one of the people I was and what we had agreed to. So I do wonder if he could have just mixed up my number with someone else. But then if any of these are true why not at least have the decency to tell someone what you’re accusing them of?

If he doesn’t want to see me again as a client, that’s cool, but I just feel weird about the whole thing (plus he could have just denied or ignored me IF I tried making another appointment instead of sending a weird text and playing games). I’ve seen him at the gym before and am wondering if he’s going to do something to me if I ever run into him again. He’s a big dude, what if he’s violent??

I debated on whether I should say something on here or not (I did post earlier but deleted my message), because I really liked him when I saw him and think he could just have made a big mistake. But if he’s not mature enough to tell someone what’s going on, let that be a warning to anyone else that ends up seeing him.

So sorry you had to go through this. It is incredibly unfair to you and frankly, very creepy. What kind of person sends a cryptic, rather threatening message to a client and then ghosts him? It’s kind of mafia like. As I said in my post on the linked thread, I did get a weird, paranoid vibe from him and that’s why although my massage went okay I never hired him again. You absolutely did the right thing  by sharing this pretty scary experience here. It’s important that we as potential clients are warned against mentally unstable providers. Thank you. 

Wow, 30 pounds more. Too bad that so many of them get on the steroids craze just to look bigger. He was sexy and pretty muscular before.  I had a massage with him more than a year ago. The massage itself was just okay but the whole time there was this weird, passive-aggressive vibe. The MT and HE was good though and he was generous with his body. I think he has a chip on his shoulder and  is not comfortable with the fact he does erotic massage for a living. Hopefully he will manage to overcome that and be happy with himself. 

46 minutes ago, cany10011 said:

I remember going to the Academy of Music when I was a student in Philadelphia and there were all these nice looking guys in ripped jeans loitering behind the dark streets around the concert hall after the show... I wonder if they were offering help to improve certain skills? Though I'm not one for street or outdoor sex...

Ha, how intriguing,  one does wonder what went on there. Unfortunately it’s all neatly gentrified around Carnegie Hall now. Not a chance. It’d be interesting to do research and see if anything like that went on around CH in the old days. I bet Lenny Bernstein would have gladly partaken in any post concert street activities. 😉

1 hour ago, Bucky said:

How do you get to Carnegie Hall? 

I was just at Carnegie Hall last night! Do you mean I’ll just get better at whatever sexual skills I need to improve by going to concerts? 🤣. J/k. It’s all about practice. Also, the more the merrier. 

11 hours ago, Charlie said:

That Frenchie must work out with him, because it is BIG.

Such a beautiful muscular man. He’s also a sweet guy. He’s on Instagram, lives in Indianapolis. 

1 hour ago, MmM said:

1 hour ago, MmM said:

https://rentmasseur.com/Leo_NYCBest

I think he is on a hiatus, but this guy gives a strong massage and is also muscular and handsome and generous with himself. Can't wait to see him again. 

Thanks for sharing but it looks like he has deactivated his account. The link does not work.

3 hours ago, Terpmaniac said:

Me too. I love interracial porn. Black skin on white skin. White skin on yellow skin. Yellow skin on Black skin. YES!!!

Yes, I cannot agree more. Interracial porn is the hottest. Lately I’ve been watching any interracial scenes done by Max Konnor, Rhyheim Shabazz or DeAngelo Jackson. Some of the best gay porn being done today. Cade Maddox has also done some hot interracial scenes. Here is an oldie with Liam Cyber, he’s amazing at going very deep while kissing/holding tight his bottoms.  
https://m.boyfriendtv.com/videos/832263/cade-maddox-breeds-liam-cyber/

7 hours ago, Italiano said:

I SO regret not to have hired him before he left NYC!...😒

Sorry to hear that. Keep him in mind for whenever you make it to the LA area. Thanks for your post about your favorite masseur. Never saw Willthetrill so I’m going to give it a try in the new year. 

I noticed MarcoBR wrote in his  profile that they’re coming to Boston, NYC and DC  starting tomorrow. NYE in NYC, then DC on January 2nd. See dates on his profile. Catch him/them if you are curious. 

I had several massages in 2022 but I regret that I cannot say any of those masseurs merits a “best of the year” award. Some of them were good enough but nothing that would make me want to become a regular client, to my own chagrin. I have been looking for a masseur that would check all the boxes for me since before the pandemic but no luck yet. Granted, I have high standards 😉. My go to masseur was El (Eldred) who moved from NYC to LA a while ago. I haven’t found anyone that lives up to his preternatural skills both as therapeutic and sensual masseur. It was heaven on earth. If you’re in the LA area, don’t miss him! Best masseur ever and nicest, beautiful man. 
https://rentmasseur.com/El_Massage

7 hours ago, Occhiverdi said:

To give you an idea of the guy…. He puts on surgical gloves to touch your genitals… apparently using the same excuse… that he has cuts in his hands. Anyway.. the worst experience. I’ve ever had. After multiple attempts to write a proper review, the site finally allowed me to do so. The guy began texting and calling trying to pay me in order to remove such a negative review. 

Wow, being massaged with surgical gloves totally feels like a nightmare scenario to me, pretty creepy too. Sorry you had to go through that. It’s like saying “you’re too disgusting for me to even touch you.” I would’ve gotten up and left right there. I had a massage with him like 6 years ago. He didn’t wear gloves and he was actually very nice and in amazing shape. The weird thing was that he did not use any lotion at all. Just his bare hands.  And the massage itself was mediocre at best. MT and HE however were hot and I really enjoyed it. But I never went back for a repeat because he obviously has no idea how to massage properly. 

6 hours ago, JayinHKNYC said:

For some escorts, not meats, but "peaches galore".

And we all know how delicious peaches can be, YUM!