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  1. he's very clear about what he wants. The fin-dom thing makes me think he's absorbed something that's very common in Atlanta---being a grifter looking for suckers. The grifters often are suckers themselves, but that shouldn't distract us from the grift. he probably thinks he's being "honest" about wanting to screw with people and come out ahead, but it's just a grift and there's no reason to treat it as anything else.

  2. It's always interesting when people persist even though red flags appear early because you can get a really good picture of why the persistence probably should stop. Just looking at his ad, I see red flags, his astrological sign (Is this the 70s?), results from a personality test that has limited predictive validity--you might like his "type" but still find out he's a jerk. It's all about stuff that's not really relevant to the hire. I could care less if someone is a nudist. And it's inconsistent---he talks about empathy, but asks for pics in boldfaced type. He's spending a lot of money to advertise widely but lacks the intuition (which is supposedly part of his personality type) to know how to present himself.

  3. It’s a shame he didn’t post travel dates—unlike IsaacX who seems to be his travel buddy. I might have been able to open up some time with more notice. He seems like he would hav even worth the gamble, esp. because we finally got one firsthand experience with him.

  4. Saw him several years ago when he lived in the DC area. Had a good time. He's an Interesting guy--into the arts. At that time, he was planning to join a commune in Maine. He occasionally turns up in DC and has been based in a couple different Maine locations. Not your typical provider.

  5. Hudson is a well-off suburb that looks more like a New England town than most New England towns. I'm guessing that even the local Republicans found him gauche and embarrassing.

  6. 19 hours ago, JEC said:

    I generally prefer visiting providers because:

    1. Boston has a limited talent pool, the better talent tend to be visitors

    2. I need the provider to host, and visiting travelers almost always stay in hotels and can host

    3.  I generally meet during the day, and traveling providers by definition are traveling and not working another job during the day (as many of our local providers do).

     

    Pretty much a ditto for me in DC

  7. When I'm interested in hiring someone, I look to see if they have social media, OF, etc. Nate is clearly into some very specific kinks that have no interest for me. If he's being explicit about who he wants, he's probably trying to screen out people who can't spend 15 minutes on line researching what he's about.

  8. OP, You're noticing this now? The number of ads plummeted a year and half ago. They've gradually come back, but they went down a bit during the Delta outbreak and they've declined a bit recently. This is a slow time of year in most places and travel usually decreases by mid-December. This also is not a time of year when new guys appear.

     

     

  9. Trend? At most, it probably depends where you are. There is a fairly limited number of guys who have made a long-term go of OF and usually they are in large metros where it’s easy to find “collaborators”. They also tend to be past/present porn guys.
     

    With unfamiliar guys, I routinely look to see if they OF. It’s just part of doing research. The majority of guys with OF seem to have stopped after a fairly short time, like a lot of online stuff.

  10. The tone hasn't exactly "invited" a response. You can look up the poster's history--they've been around and don't appear to be a sock puppet. If you want actual dialogue, you should ask for it. This happens over and over again---someone has a dissenting opinion and it's treated as though its no more or less valid than anything positive. There have been popular guys who turned out to be not so nice to clients, but their critics had to put up with this nonsense before that became apparent.

  11. His most recent pic looks photoshopped in the face. Depending on the bio, he's pushing 45-50, so maintaining that body is probably getting more difficult. I don't get the point of lusting after someone with such an arrogant track record. I'm surprised he escorts given that he seems able to crank out OF content (the only way that pays). Maybe he's really just looking for long appointments. Unless he has stocks, bonds, or real estate somewhere, he's stuck on a treadmill at this point without a really viable career to see him into retirement. Knocking forum members for having to buy companionship begs the question of having to sell it. The niches for older porn guys seem limited but, ironically, there seem to be a decent number of guys his age who have made companionship into a career. I'm guessing that they cultivate practices based on newbies, DILF or other fantasies, or have plenty of long-term clients. Meanwhile, I'm guessing he can only manage his un-natural physique so long and by this point may have such a distorted body image that something more natural may be difficult to achieve.

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