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Any intel on MascMarineMason and can the moderators give Ata his own thread?

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there seem to be guys who appeal to someone so much that they want that one post that says "this provider really delivered" despite lots of negative feedback otherwise. Chasing this little bit of hope seems to happen on a lot of threads.

There were multiple negative experiences expressed on another thread about him.

Can someone delete the references to Channing Flynn and any other off task guys?

I tend not to spend a lot of time thinking about compliments from anyone I don’t know well. Giving compliments is, to some extent, just being polite. Yes. It may keep you as a client but you shouldn’t assume every compliment is simply manipulative. The polite response is to thank the person giving the compliment. Beyond that, I think you move on to whatever happens next.

I’m surprised that he’s advertising. His OF has PPV for up to $50. I was guessing that he sees himself as a special commodity, although the short term arrangement comment makes me think that a short term sugar daddy might be of interest. He advertises as vers/top, so not bottoming for clients is no surprise. What people do as escorts, profits and in their personal life often varies, anyway.

His ad is here and still works.

I usually avoid posting low quality info, but this seems relevant....I saw Ian years ago when he was traveling with someone else. His traveling partner was a dud but Ian exudes sex even in passing. I followed him on social media for awhile and it was evident that he was into extreme receptive anal sex, which often overlaps with certain kinds of drug use, and his posts seemed a little "messy". He had little social media for awhile (?rehab) but lately has been back and its mostly getting fisted. BTW--probably too old for early schizophrenia.

The interviewers may wonder about your social background (family relationships, abuse, etc.), whether drug use is common, and whether you or your clients experience stings or other legal issues. Many gays assume the most dark aspects of sex work and sex workers and you may get some “well meaning” version questions that seem naive or more likely to come from a straight person.

Following-up my other post, PROCESS is often more important than specifics. 1.) Are they prompt in their communication? Prompt doesn't have to mean right away. If someone is in another time zone. take that into consideration. 2.) Is the communication smooth? Do they volunteer potential deal breakers like not being able to host relatively early in the discussion? Is there a flow to the conversation (no big breaks in time w/o explanation)? There was a guy who had some positive reviews who nonetheless broke off communication mid-sentence with multiple members of the board. Do they answer basic questions directly? Do they ask reasonable questions clearly? 3.) Do the drapes match the carpet?--Experienced guys hate answering questions that are addressed in the ad and don't appreciate an interrogation of what they've made public, but if you pick up inconsistencies, do they have a reasonable explanation? 4.) Be weary of upselling. Also, be weary if someone you've never met proposes bringing in a third. Unless you're asking that's clearly out of their usual wheelhouse (like video), the pricing should be all inclusive and they shouldn't be brining in things you might find questionable. You might like the idea of a 3-way, but those work best if the parameters are discussed and you've met at least one of them already. 5.) If someone isn't a "perfect" fit, what are the deal breakers for you? Be clear with yourself and be willing to say--"sorry, that doesn't work for me" and end the conversation. Some clients are too horny, needy, or whatever and then regret an encounter that probably was doomed. You can't blame the provider, if you knew it probably was doomed. 6.) Be concerned if you can't nail down a time. There is a subset of guys who simply show up in town and and ask "can do tonight". Politely let them know you have to have a time and, if they can't do that, then it's time to end the communication.

Missing here is having clarity on how to handle confirmation and related logistics. I used to think it was me and not having the right wording (so I've tried different ways of asking), but some of the experienced guys seem to know exactly what I'm asking and have a protocol for this---usually they will plan to message the day before or the day of the appointment to confirm and provide location, if they're hosting. If they do that but have to adjust a little at the actual appointment, things go well. Ditto if they suggest my messaging the day or morning before. I had made an appointment recently with a visitor. The communication had gone OK and he even sent some pics after making the appointment. But then I heard nothing the morning of the multi-hour appointment, so I took the initiative to message him about 4 hours ahead. Nothing until 45 min before the appointment. I've had similar scenarios in the past and have gone along with them, but usually it's been associated with a not-great appointment. This time I said, "sorry, it's gotten too late and I have other plans". He offered new times--maybe a half our or hour later, but I stuck to my guns. I pointed out that I treat this like any other professional interaction and that by the time he responded, I had no idea whether I needed to prepare and I also had no idea where I had to go. I told him I would have been more willing and able to be flexible if he had given me more notice. He came back with saying that I was in his schedule and claimed that 45 minutes was enough (not if I have no idea where I have to go). Interestingly, there was no apology and the excuse for being late (going to the gym) didn't preclude looking at messages earlier. There also was no offer to schedule on another day. My guess is that he had a late night (based on his last RM login) and a long, disorganized trip to the gym. None of that boded well for a good appointment. So...while most of the questions raised here make sense, a good profile covers most of them, and what may be pivotal is how they want to handle confirmation and ultimately handle the time leading up to the actual appointment. If they can't articulate that, they probably aren't thinking about how best to organize and carry out their work.

Lower tech versions have been a round for a long time. In Thai food courts, you buy tokens which you use like cash. It's so that the landlord gets an accurate count of the the till for calculating rents.

Hired him a couple months ago. The communication was a bit on the minimal side and he had to reschedule the same day. He basically did nothing but suggested he’d do more if the appointment was extended. I was tired and didn’t appreciate the tactic so I didn’t pursue it. He apparently is having some success as a legit model and had had to reschedule as he had a costume fitting for a small role in a streaming series. Perhaps he sees more on the horizon than being a working guy. He seems a bit on the old side and not tall enough for a long-term modeling career but whatever.