tonithick

Perhaps try explaining the context and fuller story to the admins of RM? It takes a while, but they usually do get to all messages that are sent to them. Their main income is escort ads, so it would be in their interest to keep the ad up if your side of the story is accurate. 

What’s up guys, so recently my AD on RM was deleted due to lies about my ad being fake,scammer etc I always try to provide the best services to my clients especially around this time of year due to my birthday and the passion I have for the community and business. However this client wanted me to come in a hotel with people in the room which is a big discretion issue for me. I told him come to where I am and he insisted he would. Flash hours later he’s saying he is outside no where to be found and gets angry asking for a refund. To me time is money. You waste my time it’s your lost. I don’t know if it’s a big deal to reach out to them and if so who… or any other sites that bring clients because at this point it’s a toxic waste of time.

Well…I can tell you just the other week when I was in an area of Florida that is very under-served by providers, a client did book me from there. I personally been using it on and off for many years and it has its place. Sometimes it’s necessary to tap into that “unintended market”.
 
Even though RentMen is top of line, reality is…it’s not really even giving me all that much “more” business than even adam4adam. I’ve had this discussion before.
 
And truth be told: RentMen has become a little more than a high end hookup site. That’s why I don’t bother unlocking private pics anymore, and took down most of my videos. I see people from Grindr, hitting me up cruising RM, knowing damn well they’re not paying anybody. Just voyeuring around. 
I also use A4A because majority of the other escort and massage sites don’t really work in very small markets. For example: Overland Park Kansas which is a sleepy suburb yet business hub of Kansas City has like no providers that list on either RM site. A4A on the other hand has about 50-60 members in the area.
But for the most part, A4A continues to underperform more and more each year, as far as getting bookings. I pretty much just have a pre template set up and send it out. All the round the clock chit chat, I stopped doing way back last year.

Are serious inquiry appointments secured by a non refundable deposit like women’s salons tend to do~?
 

Welcome. I learned by trial and error (and still am learning). Biggest learning for me is know what your strength is, and understand your market. Don’t try to be something you’re not; you can’t be all things to all clients. Just be yourself and you’ll find your way. 

This one!! Yes buddy 

3 situations:
Bad spelling. ‘Your’ when they mean you’re, ‘of’ when they mean have…that sort of thing. If your going to do that you should of asked someone else. 
After the conversation transitions from discussion about the meeting to sexting …then I know 100% he’s a Timewaster.
If the opening message is a dick pic or one word such as “massage”, or “pic” or “fuck”. 
 

 

Current pics more important than number of them. Vids - I’m more likely to be swayed by OF content than 45sec on RM page. You get a closeup of two guys with same coloring/hairiness? Leaves me not knowing what belongs to whom…

I love when a provider has videos. Gives a great look at the provider's physique & sexual skills. There is no such thing to me as too many videos or too long of a video. Same for photos. The more the better. Just make sure you keep them up to date. It's a turnoff at least for me if a provider's videos and pics are all over 2 or 3 years old.