This is how it's done, no muss, no fuss

[Guest Dan]

Over the year's there's been the debate about contacting escorts in advance of an appointment via e-mail. I've always found that the phone is a more efficient and PERSONAL method of making a connection. What's more, most of the e-mailers never came through, theough admittedly, it's been getting better. The sincere client will acquiesce to the escort's request to speak directly to them.

 

 

Dan Dare

http://www.geocities.com/dandare_laca/DanDare4Hire.html

[Guest Dan]

Whoops, posted this before finishing it. I got hung up on spelling "acquiese" correctly. (Speaking of spelling, my favorite escort ad that I saw recently read "Thanks for reading my add. Hot sexy collage student..." Maybe he's an art student???) Anyway, last night I got a call from a client visiting from out of town. He was looking for last night, I was able to accomodate and the deal was done. As Kramer would say "No muss, no fuss. Just our little secret."

 

>Over the year's there's been the debate about contacting

>escorts in advance of an appointment via e-mail. I've always

>found that the phone is a more efficient and PERSONAL method

>of making a connection. What's more, most of the e-mailers

>never came through, theough admittedly, it's been getting

>better. The sincere client will acquiesce to the escort's

>request to speak directly to them.

>

>

Dan Dare

http://www.geocities.com/dandare_laca/DanDare4Hire.html

>

[+ Lucky]

Dan, we are all very happy for you. We told you to stick with it and someone would ultimately hire you. Now don't rest on your laurels; start working on getting a second client now!

[Steven_Draker]

Dan,

You're somewhat right. Many clients use email as initial contact and then will call to firm up the meeting closer to the time or get the final details on the phone. Some will write and won't follow up. Others will call if they're looking for right now and of course there is Okie who would email but never call ... That's why an escort should be flexible and accommodating and return all emails and calls.

 

Steven Draker ~

http://www.hotsexystud.com/uk

[Chuck50]

I like a few email exhanges and then phone follow-up to get to them each other. I has always worked for me. HUGS

[Guest TNT Ted]

From my perspective, there's no debate. If an escort insists on telephone contact (other than from a public phone), I'll move on.

 

Yes, phone calls can be more personal, but emails are usually far more informative -- and there's a record of the agreement.

 

I like to believe that an accommodating escort will acquiesce to the client's request.

[SAdler]

>From my perspective, there's no debate. If an escort insists

>on telephone contact (other than from a public phone), I'll

>move on.

 

I agree likewise with a client. I simply tell them that if they NEED to speak with me on the telephone before working out ANY details then I'm not the right guy for them. I only give out my phone number after an appointment and all the details have been worked out.

 

>Yes, phone calls can be more personal, but emails are usually

>far more informative -- and there's a record of the agreement.

 

Indeed. The one or two times there was a rate discrepency I simply referred to an email which one or both of us had access to at that moment and showed them it was agreed upon clearly.

 

This is also important for ESCORTS especially as the commonality of fake reviews and such.

[JT Brooklyn]

TNT..Very True. I have met many guys who were "Call Me", But after I just emailed them back, with General Questions most answered. The Ones that couldn't be bothered, I didn't bother hooking up with.

 

There are now quite a few guys in NYC,especially on Rentboy, where English is not their First language, those guys I understand the hesitency about emailing back and forth. But then the phone conversation isn't going to be all that informative either, Other than, Do you Kiss, Suck & Fuck? I guess those 3 Questions..being the Universal Language! LOL :7

[JT Brooklyn]

p.s. I do always CONFIRM the Day of the Hookup, with email & Phone!

Some of these guys do need a "Social Secretary" sometimes, especially the Flyers! LOL :7

[Rick Munroe and Derek Ross]

We accept emails, phone calls, smoke signals, sign language and two-cans-and-a-string. It's all good.

[+ deej]

Wouldn't that be two-cans-and-a-g-string?

[Rick Munroe and Derek Ross]

2 cans, no string.

 

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[+ deej]

Toucans?

 

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[RockHard]

Email mostly, please.

 

The number of emails that go unanswered is amazing to me. Why some of these guys bother to place ads is not worth contemplating.

 

Email is absolutely crucial to me! Frankly, it's the only TRUE privacy I get and the ONLY way you and I can cut a deal. If the bathroom had better acoustics, maybe I could manage a call from there. But when you're gifted with a voice that belongs to a career in the theater, no telephone conversation can be discreet enough for me. I'm never alone.

 

Most of my encounters take place post workout. I have no problem contacting you before I step foot in the gym to confirm. Beyond that, email is the only route to my wallet.

[+ ArVaGuy]

All my initial contacts are by e-mail. I have never had much decent luck with the "phone me" guys. E-mail allows me to give some details about why I am looking at hiring them (a review on this site) and I always give my stats. The best guys always respond in 24 hours or less based on my experience over the years.

 

With a "phone only" guy I have found that if I dont' get them right then and there they are even less likely to respond to a voice mail as with e-mail. And as Scott has wisely pointed out there is no detail of the exchanges in case there is an issue down the road.

 

Once I get into town or the day of the appointment, I will give the guy a call and give my cell number. If on the rare instance I do an in call in my home base area I call the escort about 30 minutes before I arrive to give him the courtesy. That sometimes gives the escort a bit of a surprise because clients don't always do that.

 

Once a contact has been established by e-mail, I am not looking for 24 hour responses, such is not practical. But it is funny how it can be a week or more with replies after that just like at my office.:-)

[+ Charlie]

I started hiring long before email was invented, and I am very thankful that it was, because I always found making the initial contact by phone rather stressful. I much prefer approaching an escort with an email inquiry, to find out if he is available when I want him. Then I can sit down and carefully write out what I am interested in, and he can consider it and make a careful response. I do want to hear his voice before I meet him, but only after the basic details have been worked out in writing. Now that we have post-appointment reviews as well, it is important to have some sort of written record in the event that I have to write a negative review and he wishes to contest it, otherwise it is just "you said...," "no, you said...."

[LeeOz]

Initial contact using email is most helpful. There are certain questions or requests you may be embarassed to ask on the phone. You can get your thoughts more organized too. I still get flustered everytime I talk with an escort. But the final confirmation should still be done by phone. It is mostl important to hear that voice.

[Guest Dan]

>Dan, we are all very happy for you. We told you to stick with

>it and someone would ultimately hire you. Now don't rest on

>your laurels; start working on getting a second client now!

>

 

Lucks,

 

Only if it's you, Babycakes! :9

 

XOXO,

Dan Dare

 

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