Just got screened by another escort - WTF?

[muscmtl]

how about approached or cruised by escort on rentmen. When I look for escorts, some of them will send me a message after theytl checked my profile and pics. I love this, and too bad most of them are too far. Love solitation by escorts, ast it is a sure bet that he wants to please, and not the opposite

[+ freecahill1965]

Ub

how about approached or cruised by escort on rentmen. When I look for escorts, some of them will send me a message after theytl checked my profile and pics. I love this, and too bad most of them are too far. Love solitation by escorts, ast it is a sure bet that he wants to please, and not the opposite

Funny, I keep the detect me off on RM. If I find a few escorts, I really like I will turn it on in hope's that he will read my profile and contact. I go with the RM that contacts me first. It is good to reward initiative.

[MisterMike]

This is the photo I send if a potential hire requests one...

 

[+ freecahill1965]

This is the photo I send if a potential hire requests one...

 

LMAO

[snogaholic]

What does WHP mean?

[BabyBoomer]

What does WHP mean?

 

Weight Height Proportionate.

 

~Boomer~

[adventurous old guy]

I think this is relevant to this thread: The last two people whose services I retained each expressed concern about whether I'm a cop. I'm very direct in both an RM profile and an initial text about what I'm looking for to make sure my preferences are clear, and if I get a response that looks promising I usually send a g-rated pic just to level the playing field. I worry about privacy less than some others I think, because I now just assume that privacy is gone, that anyone with a little work can find out who I am if inclined to search.

 

Anyway, I'm wondering now if those communications of expectations and pic sharing are triggering increased fear/caution about entrapment growing out there.

[Guest TheOtherGuy]

This recently happened to me again while chatting with a younger gay escort. When I asked why he wanted a picture of me, he told me flat out "guys that I am attracted to get a lower rate and if I don't find the guy at least a bit attractive, I won't make a date with him".

Seems like some of the newer (younger) providers have decided that on top of $300 they also want to be at least a little attracted to you.

[+ freecahill1965]

This recently happened to me again while chatting with a younger gay escort. When I asked why he wanted a picture of me, he told me flat out "guys that I am attracted to get a lower rate and if I don't find the guy at least a bit attractive, I won't make a date with him".

Seems like some of the newer (younger) providers have decided that on top of $300 they also want to be at least a little attracted to you.

If you are attractive, it is awesome if you are not

[Guest TheOtherGuy]

If you are attractive, it is awesome if you are not

LOL! Yes, luckily I am not hideous.

[+ freecahill1965]

LOL! Yes, luckily I am not hideous.

And you are young. I am sure escorts must love you as a client.

[Guest TheOtherGuy]

And you are young. I am sure escorts must love you as a client.

If not, they're at least good at pretending - At least most of them

[+ freecahill1965]

If not, they're at least good at pretending - At least most of them

Those are the best providers. I have a few regulars like [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER] that make me feel 25 again. Those providers are so awesome.

[caliguy]

And you are young. I am sure escorts must love you as a client.

If that picture is any indication they would jump through hoops to get him as a client.

[sexymonk]

We all have our different views on this. I can see both sides. But I tend to err on the side of @youngboldone . I think if you are in the escort business you sign up to be open to all. The first thing that comes to my mind is if the escort is white. He asks for a pic and you send it. (and you are black.) He answers you back and says he is not into black guys, and you are not welcome to avail of his services. (?) This is flat out discrimination. And it can apply to Asians, Mexicans, etc. Then it goes a step further to overweight guys, unattractive guys, etc. Discrimination is a slippery slope. If you sign up to be an escort, all should be welcome. Escorts are not machines, and if the attraction is not there, you just do the best you can. I think the client will appreciate just being with you, and your effort. I think he will be MORE offended and unhappy if you start asking for photos and he feels you are vetting him, and he is being screened for your "stamp" of approval. We all need to be realistic.....most guys that hire escorts are not supermodels. Reality check. So escorts need to be realistic also and not ask for photos to approve of the appearance of the client. Bottom line is that discrimination in ANY form sucks.

I would say, simply move on! There are plenty of other guys! No point in holding back !!!

[GTMike]

I don't see this as debatable. There is no Escort Board of Ethics. Escorts don't take an oath upon receipt of their certification. They aren't employed by a government agency, airline, hospital, or even spa that requires equitable treatment and legal nondiscriminatory practices.

 

An escort has the right to employ whatever rules, terms, preferences, quirks, or biases for who they choose to meet. You have the right to have nothing to do with that escort.

Hahaha. Really funny but more seriously it is the reality whether people like it and/or accept it or not. Hahaha

[caliguy]

Seems like some of the newer (younger) providers have decided that on top of $300 they also want to be at least a little attracted to you.

You said your preference is 25 and under so that actually makes allot of sense. One part immaturity and the other the diva effect.

[sexymonk]

So I guess the escorts that ask for a pic, stats, etc. are the ones that are picking and choosing who they want to be with. I get that now. The consensus from the majority of posters is that they are okay with this and defend that practice. You are the clients, and if you are all okay with that, that is all that matters. You all stated your views clearly, and from reading thru the posts the takeaway is most ( but not all) think it is fine for escorts to pick and choose who they work with based on appearance. For myself personally, it is kind of funny, since I am 6'1"...185 lbs. lean muscle....VGL....and hire escorts on business trips for some quick action instead of wasting time on apps, etc. Even though most any escort that would request a pic would grab me once they saw me, I would not send a pic, and would move on. Personal preference. The pic thing just turns me off. But thanks for the education, and I respect how you guys stick up for escorts that do this. If you guys are okay with it, at the end of the day, that is all that matters.

Dimitri, as you have mentioned that you are vgl and escorts grab you after seeing you. Then grindr/ planetromeo will be best and you don't have to pay even. Don't waste resources on these boys in RM.

[Guest TheOtherGuy]

You said your preference is 25 and under so that actually makes allot of sense. One part immaturity and the other the diva effect.

I have a lot of types. My list of attractions is a very complex algorithm, each with their own requirements. SEriously, I need a spreadsheet! LOL!

The younger, muscley, pretty boys are one of my types. I don't mind the diva attitude. I was in the fashion industry for 20+ years, so these young boys trying to cop attitude are amusing to me. They don't even know the half of what diva behaviour is!