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I didn't realize it would be so annoying up until today. But I don't know why some guys think I put all this work into my body, so I can be used as a punching bag.

 

Had a (fairly muscular/in shape) client piss me off after getting along great, until he punched my chest (I guess in a kind of playful fetish way) while I was off guard. He was doing it a couple of times before that, and I didn't mind. It didn't hurt, because it's all muscle. But then he did it after I came, surprised me and made me clinch/slip my teeth, and I told him to back off me and don't fucking do it again. I'm not getting paid for that shit, these front crowns cost $1,800 and my gum felt kinda sore after that. I was going to let him slide with a slight discount, but after that I told him needs to pay up.

 

Why do some guys do that? Next time it happens once, they're going to get 1 warning, then I'm walking out. Mother fuckers take it too far and don't know when to stop.

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Wish I could help explain why someone would do that, but can't think of a valid reason. I wouldn't do it for a few reasons:

  • I don't like getting punched and so it would seem like others would feel the same way
  • It is easy to catch someone off guard and prompt them t react in a way that causes injury to one or both of us
  • It is just weird

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Many years ago I worked with a short, muscular Latino guy who used to like to punch my shoulder. It took me several requests to get him to stop. I'm not sure why he thought it was appropriate behavior with someone he ostensibly liked, but at the time I simply attributed it to him wanting to appear macho even though he was a short muscle queen.

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As a serious admirer of serious muscle, I can see the appeal of slamming into some muscle that's hard as granite. *BUT* I cannot imagine doing something like that without asking permission. To punch an escort unexpectedly and outside the bounds of the guy's limits is incredibly rude and disrespectful.

A bit risky, too, if all that muscle decided to punch back. ;)

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I thought these kinda activities were discussed with escorts/partners for S&M scenes.

Sometimes you get the urge. Once I was with a very hot sexy Asian studly masseur who was turning me on and I really felt like punching his abs -never did that before. I asked , he said he wasn't into that stuff and we continued and we went back to a sexy massage. I still would like to get into S/M , but I am really scared of hurting somebody-a good teacher for hire would be great!

 

Hitting/punching somebody without asking/discussion could invoke retaliation if they mistook it for assault?

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I didn't realize it would be so annoying up until today. But I don't know why some guys think I put all this work into my body, so I can be used as a punching bag.

 

Had a (fairly muscular/in shape) client piss me off after getting along great, until he punched my chest (I guess in a kind of playful fetish way) while I was off guard. He was doing it a couple of times before that, and I didn't mind. It didn't hurt, because it's all muscle. But then he did it after I came, surprised me and made me clinch/slip my teeth, and I told him to back off me and don't fucking do it again. I'm not getting paid for that shit, these front crowns cost $1,800 and my gum felt kinda sore after that. I was going to let him slide with a slight discount, but after that I told him needs to pay up.

 

Why do some guys do that? Next time it happens once, they're going to get 1 warning, then I'm walking out. Mother fuckers take it too far and don't know when to stop.

Sounds like guys like this are into domination over physical specimens like yourself. Makes them feel into control. What I don't get is boundaries or asking an escort what their fetish is and then see if it's reciprocal. You can dominate me any time babe.

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It's painful after a few punches. I told him to stop but he didn't listen cause he claimed, "You're the cutest thing ever and I love your body." He could love my body but don't abuse it. :(

 

Mocha

 

I regret that you were subjected to this. Paying for a providers time is no excuse to assault him or her

 

Was not Mocha === Was Caramel who got hit and wanted to Choke the client and then leave the Hotel --- Why not just leave . . .

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Was not Mocha === Was Caramel who got hit and wanted to Choke the client and then leave the Hotel --- Why not just leave . . .

 

I'd driven 2 hours plus crossed a Bay of water, and communicated with him for 2-3 days prior. He was a good host, beautiful apartment, and overall sexy looking for a client lol. But I did leave, after that 3rd time. Also, to be clarify...there was no discount as I put it. It was simply that he did one of those thing that @VictorPowers explained a few days ago: The ole short on a $20 thing. I wasn't going to bring it up, but after that...I went ahead and brought it up. You're not going to beat me up AND short me money. Hell, if Floyd Mayweather can get $365,000,000 to get punched in the chest, my body is worth $365,000,000 as well.

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Sounds like guys like this are into domination over physical specimens like yourself. Makes them feel into control. What I don't get is boundaries or asking an escort what their fetish is and then see if it's reciprocal. You can dominate me any time babe.

 

That's exactly how I felt. Which is what bothered me. A lot of guys have this sense of entitlement because they're older or wealthier or whatever the case may be. That's bullshit. Mother foes do not have a free pass to belittle or humiliate someone.

 

Overall he was a good client, but I think he got too playful and pissed me off a bit. I remember a similar situation where, during a 3 way, guy reached out to signal to me to do some thing. He was trying to be too controlling of the situation. He should have just chilled. Unfortunately, he scratched/cut the side of my face like 1/2 an inch from my eye! I was done at that point. I took the money, got dressed and walked the fuck out. Our time was already winding down anyway, so it wasn't a runner so to speak.

 

Hitting/punching somebody without asking/discussion could invoke retaliation if they mistook it for assault?

 

Similar to how @Caramel_Finest973 explained, it's a blurred line between admiration and assault. Usually starts with admiration, which makes it not seem like assault. Like I said, I've had other guys do it...and even though it was with good intent, the cumulation of such shenanigans is going to make me react differently going forward.

 

But definitely, next time I'll be like: Did I give you permission to do that? Look em in the face real serious like, "do it again, my rate QUADRUPLES".

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I didn't realize it would be so annoying up until today. But I don't know why some guys think I put all this work into my body, so I can be used as a punching bag.

Had a (fairly muscular/in shape) client piss me off after getting along great, until he punched my chest (I guess in a kind of playful fetish way) while I was off guard. He was doing it a couple of times before that, and I didn't mind. It didn't hurt, because it's all muscle. But then he did it after I came, surprised me and made me clinch/slip my teeth, and I told him to back off me and don't fucking do it again. I'm not getting paid for that shit, these front crowns cost $1,800 and my gum felt kinda sore after that. I was going to let him slide with a slight discount, but after that I told him needs to pay up.

Why do some guys do that? Next time it happens once, they're going to get 1 warning, then I'm walking out. Mother fuckers take it too far and don't know when to stop.

 

As a preface let me say that I do not understand the whole punching fetish anyway but everyone likes what they like. However, you say that he punched you a couple of times and you let it go (I would imagine in consideration of the decent way that the session was going). But then he did it again and you suddenly were upset about it. How could the client not know that he needed to moderate his behavior unless you warned him to begin with. If he did it after the third punch and the warning then I would say you had a right to become angry but sorry to say I do not believe before.

Believe it or not, I have something medically that makes it imperative that people not punch me in the chest. So because I know that it is somehow sexually stimulating for some people to do so I make sure I tell people to absolutely not do it. If they did it after that then a punch to the mouth might be the answer (not really but they would definitely get pushed off the bed.)

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As a preface let me say that I do not understand the whole punching fetish anyway but everyone likes what they like. However, you say that he punched you a couple of times and you let it go (I would imagine in consideration of the decent way that the session was going). But then he did it again and you suddenly were upset about it. How could the client not know that he needed to moderate his behavior unless you warned him to begin with. If he did it after the third punch and the warning then I would say you had a right to become angry but sorry to say I do not believe before.

Believe it or not, I have something medically that makes it imperative that people not punch me in the chest. So because I know that it is somehow sexually stimulating for some people to do so I make sure I tell people to absolutely not do it. If they did it after that then a punch to the mouth might be the answer (not really but they would definitely get pushed off the bed.)

 

Because the 3rd time he did it off guard, but the first 2 times weren't. I certainly did feel a need to be upset, anybody else would. I'm am escort, not some fucking junior in high school. I like to be treated professionally. After that 3rd time he got the hint. 4th time, he would of seen a side of me that I really don't like to display:

 

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(Kidding, I would never let it escalate to that situation. He was a sweet guy and I'm sure didn't mean to come off like an ass. But still, some guys need to not treat their escort like they treat their kids (he has kids). At the end of the day, I'm still a professional and we're both strangers. Better to avoid some shit than to face an unintended consequence.

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I didn't realize it would be so annoying up until today. But I don't know why some guys think I put all this work into my body, so I can be used as a punching bag.

 

Had a (fairly muscular/in shape) client piss me off after getting along great, until he punched my chest (I guess in a kind of playful fetish way) while I was off guard. He was doing it a couple of times before that, and I didn't mind. It didn't hurt, because it's all muscle. But then he did it after I came, surprised me and made me clinch/slip my teeth, and I told him to back off me and don't fucking do it again. I'm not getting paid for that shit, these front crowns cost $1,800 and my gum felt kinda sore after that. I was going to let him slide with a slight discount, but after that I told him needs to pay up.

 

Why do some guys do that? Next time it happens once, they're going to get 1 warning, then I'm walking out. Mother fuckers take it too far and don't know when to stop.

 

I'm sorry to hear you met this creep! Most clients are nice and want to have a good time, a few have issues like this guy.

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My mandatory random comment:

 

My personal trainer had a habit of helping me get up from certain positions, like lying on a weight bench. One day, he proffered his arm to me, and I bit it ... not breaking the skin, more of a pussy cat "Stop that!" kinda bite. Scared the hell out of him, but we both laughed.

 

Same guy that once offered to pick me up off the floor, after I missed the bench. He gave me his arms. i thought he was anchored. I pulled, and he went ass-over-teakettle over me.

 

The other three people in the room thought it was hilarious.

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For some people, punching like that isn't a fetish....it's more about showing their dominance/power. Sometimes, its about being an abuser, and they think they can get away with it easier if it's done to an escort than if it were done to their wife/boyfriend/whatever.

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