Clark Redford

[+ JEC]

Gents, Clark is a delicious piece of prime, tall, corn-fed midwestern beef. Hot and sweet, smart and deliciously dirty. And when it comes to playing tops-n-bottoms, well I always say....the bigger they are the harder they fall. Feel free to PM me for details, Jack

[jonnychgo]

I was in NYC about a year ago and texted him to ask if he was available the next evening. He responded back and said he was, so i gave him the info of where I would be staying and never heard back. Tried texting and calling, but never got a reply. I really like his look and what he writes, but decided to move on.

I just had a similar experience. We texted the day before and made arrangements. He said he would text in the morning to confirm and send address. Never heard back, totally ghosted.

[former lurker]

I just had a similar experience. We texted the day before and made arrangements. He said he would text in the morning to confirm and send address. Never heard back, totally ghosted.

 

I read this as a miscommunication, not a ghosting. As you say, he was to "confirm" the next morning, thus you did not have an arrangement made, you had a proposal yet to be finalized. He should have let you know anyway, but I don't see this as the same as flaking on a set appointment.

 

Also, your scenario differs from the earlier poster who was to confirm and did not do so until perilously close to the appointed time.

 

I understand that delays happen. I tend to hire for multiple hours. If I am running late, I always contact the escort to let him know I've been delayed, and to alert him to my ETA. Because they've set aside more hours for the appointment, I've never had a problem so long as I promptly communicate about the delay.

[Poincare]

He reminds me of Ryan Gosling a bit.....

 

I hope he visits Philly some time....

[ClarkRedford]

I read this as a miscommunication, not a ghosting. As you say, he was to "confirm" the next morning, thus you did not have an arrangement made, you had a proposal yet to be finalized. He should have let you know anyway, but I don't see this as the same as flaking on a set appointment.

 

Also, your scenario differs from the earlier poster who was to confirm and did not do so until perilously close to the appointed time.

 

I understand that delays happen. I tend to hire for multiple hours. If I am running late, I always contact the escort to let him know I've been delayed, and to alert him to my ETA. Because they've set aside more hours for the appointment, I've never had a problem so long as I promptly communicate about the delay.

 

Turns out it was in fact a miscommunication. I had thought I had said he should text in the AM to confirm. Either way, miscommunication aside, a new appointment has been arranged.