Why do you hire an escort?

[+ g56whiz]

So downer alert, this thread topic has been on my mind. At a conscious level I hire for the thrill of the experience -- doing something I love with interesting, handsome partners that makes me feel alive and human in a way that no other activity comes close to by comparison. The business relationship serves two purposes -- (1) keeps expectations clear and defined because I'm not looking for a relationship; and (2) enables me to connect with men motivated to perform who I'm too old to otherwise motivate.

 

But there's a subconscious driver of this behavior too, and I think that's aging/death. Although still healthy, fit, high energy and horny, at 63 I'm 3 years past the age when my dad died and I've lost both parents and 3 of 4 grandparents to cancer. Bottom line, I have a deep sense that my remaining time as a healthy, energetic, horny adventurer in life is limited.

 

I hope this post doesn't come across as totally depressing -- bottom line, fear of cancer haunts me and drives me to have fun! While the sun still shines. And it feels like late afternoon.

 

I think it was Winston Churchill who said “The fear of dying is not so much the fear of death as the fear of not having lived.”

[adventurous old guy]

I think it was Winston Churchill who said “The fear of dying is not so much the fear of death as the fear of not having lived.”

Love this, thx!. He had a way with words. My fave: If you're going through hell, keep going.

[adventurous old guy]

One of the reasons I like this board is because of posts like yours. so honest and revealing. We are anonymous here but it's like a kinship. As to your age and your outlook keep doing what your doing and enjoy yourself..

I really agree with you -- there's a thoughtfulness that runs through many of the threads on this forum, and as you say it feels honest and revealing. This particular topic was thought-provoking for me.

[+ othermanc]

Having just overcome a health crisis (not life threatening, thankfully, but altering my life style for 3 months) I realize more fully that escorts have made a positive impact on my life. I have had a lot of wonderful intimacy and companionship with some very cool guys and now that I'm back I will continue to indulge my self. I hire because it helps make my life worth living, especially as I am now in my "golden years!"

[Man Crush Morris]

I have very particular and narrow tastes in men. Very few men excite me. I find many, many more women attractive.

 

It's just easier (but not easy) for me to find a man to my taste by going the male escort route.

[Rudynate]

Love this, thx!. He had a way with words. My fave: If you're going through hell, keep going.

 

My favorite is "Most of the world's work is done by people who don't feel very well."

[johnjohn]

I read somewhere it can be a fetish , not sure I can be out somewhere or on line, there will be guy trying to hookup with or , and also escort I choose the escort. But seems as i get older i am changing. I am on Growlr ad Bigger City app. I have so many hot guys after me , for free , naturally i try to do my duty and accommadate them.

[adventurous old guy]

One simple question: A thousand personalized answers

Bumping to underscore Benjamin's eloquent page 1 prediction of how this thread would unfold.

[+ Avalon]

Love this, thx!. He had a way with words. My fave: If you're going through hell, keep going.

 

Virgil and Dante did just that.

[adventurous old guy]

Virgil and Dante did just that.

And Robin Williams! In that odd movie where he chases his wife's soul into the inferno.

[Rudynate]

It's willing to stay in its own comparment.

[TBearTX]

Like many, I've been seeing escorts so that I can be with guys I think I would otherwise never be able to be with based on my looks, weight, age, blah blah blah. But what has been the most important result of all this is the boost of confidence I've gotten! Now I realize that feeling is being "paid" for, but it still has as profound an impact on me as as any therapy or medication. And... I LOVE IT!!!! I mean, really...

[+ Avalon]

And Robin Williams! In that odd movie where he chases his wife's soul into the inferno.

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/What_Dreams_May_Come_(film)

[Prettyboysyndrome]

The taboo factor.plus im love dick and like to try new stuff some great positions come out of a weekend

And i have a dirty kinda submissive side i wanna explore everyone expects alpha male but sometimes you just want some big strong arms to scoop you up and fuck u .Im like an animal in my group weakness is a sign to move in for the kill.plus im not comfortable showing weakness.i have so much pressure i feel im gonna explode i need someone to take care of me sometime amd just be ok and if i want a piece of cake im not called fat or i have to entertain clients tommorrow so i havw to look my best.my biggest sin to my family and friends isnt recreational drugs its thw fact i sneaked off and spent a week in Paris in my favorite hotel having the best pastry chefs send over selections i gained 5 pounds and didnt work out for a week youd of thought i shot up heroin with the pope.you can be anyone from anywhere no backstory no baggage and its hard but theres a few guys over 6"4 who make me feel like im normal and almost kinda if im drunk think somebody cares s little bit.ive dated a guy who set me up to be raped.dated 5 months thats my world.im on prep so nothing but enotional stuff a normal person might work through i was just foscused on revenge once i got it i tooo a break i would like to hire a guy as a full time companion

Still do.i get much more than sex if i wanted sex id go sit at a bar for 10 minutes

[Prettyboysyndrome]

Because they wouldn't be with me otherwise, even if I was their age. I've tried hard to be with guys (apps, bars/nightclubs) and failed. I've also tried losing weight and getting a new look (new haircut and stuff). Losing weight & getting a new look helped a bit, but I still have very little luck. I'm convinced that I will be forever alone, and I've already planned my life accordingly.

 

Before I started doing this, I thought that I would never enjoy it because it's all a show. But surprisingly, it works and makes me so happy. So, I continue doing it, even though it all ends when the time ends.

 

Im no save the animals guy but if your older switching to.a more plant based diet and a detox can help you lose weight.a guy at my gym asked ne for help.i was calories in equal calories out but studing the hornone build up of todays food it kills testoterone.detox no red meat chickem or fish you xan use a protein supplement.and have your blood work done and adrenals tested i got a 46 5"8 230 lb guy down to a buff big chested 160.he was my.project.he would never be a god but a hot buff bear i paid for lose skin and abs and even designed his waist tattoo and a few more for him

Shaved his head grew beard restyled him.got him confident he never even cruised b4 .i gladly cruised the locker room and underwear gotta have a pouch and wear a cock ring.if ur dick shows through mission accomplished.he said he needed a goal to work for so he asked me if when he was done if we could fuck so you see my intetest.he turned out so adorable and he was packin a DICK.i told guys he bragged to id make him whip it out that did it.hes 5'8 9.5 cut massive head girth its like sitting on a tree stump in a good way.hes a new man weve fucked many times hes a friend but that dick.it waa all down to chemicals.a decent body shaved head beard jusr says butch hot fucker.you know how to work ur dick any guy can get dates.number one is body.just tone bulk chest arms if you have tummy a big chest is key and confidence people say it but look your best and be a little cocky till you get the guy

Then be u.i.wear nothing for about a week and slowly i do pajama bottoms by week three im in winnie the pooh flannel..i get so cold at night and hopefully they atleast if not like im kinda a big kid.i am still the tom ford sex clone but only when i need to i have to slowly break them in to nadja my cat having a pink aristocats themed disney princess playroom or im positive she knows the difference between a cheap rhinestone collar and a diamond one.i didnt pay for it i told mom i took it before she could say no.i have the other pieces to make it whole but mom was cool she gifted to her granddaughter.getting men is about one moment.dating us about revealing you something im fine when its fun i hit a road block when its ok time to get deep and instead of accepting i dont talk about my past they wont stop so six months a year.im sure your emotionally well adjusted so while i dont advise making every trick into a bf we all have the urge.always lwt them call you by purposefully giving ur # and even if they want to give you theirs say i wanma see how long youll wait to call.i also add i have too many balls im my court you take this one.apps are fun but i cant work magic unless at a club or gym the human connect the intensity of the moment gpod lighting.most people on apps just wanna talk and see pics if its a kid 18 tp 23 dont bother they try to act so blaise yet in person cant even look at u to have a conversation.any guy can get laid unless your nursing home territory you can be cute.start with adrenals metabolics no package food and no cheap meat.if you wamt a steak kobe beef.i do an alkaline diet and cleanse twice a year.im actually cleansing now before i ramp up for summer.i take test and hgh to gain lean muscle.im tall that built like a tank is cute till you see they are little tanks.im not a genius but i know the body how to get fit proper proportions to go for and ive dated god since high school too many men im good at the getting and first part not so much revealing soul if u need any help.my longest relationship was a football player at my college i met him end of jr yr high school i was being scouted to play and showed me around we dated till i graduated college with lots of flings and break ups it was simple.we were best friends and crazy about each other .i still think about calling him and saying lets get married ill never replace him..my only true deep i cant breathe without you type love.

[Prettyboysyndrome]

Because they wouldn't be with me otherwise, even if I was their age. I've tried hard to be with guys (apps, bars/nightclubs) and failed. I've also tried losing weight and getting a new look (new haircut and stuff). Losing weight & getting a new look helped a bit, but I still have very little luck. I'm convinced that I will be forever alone, and I've already planned my life accordingly.

 

Before I started doing this, I thought that I would never enjoy it because it's all a show. But surprisingly, it works and makes me so happy. So, I continue doing it, even though it all ends when the time ends.

 

Im no save the animals guy but if your older switching to.a more plant based diet and a detox can help you lose weight.a guy at my gym asked ne for help.i was calories in equal calories out but studing the hornone build up of todays food it kills testoterone.detox no red meat chickem or fish you xan use a protein supplement.and have your blood work done and adrenals tested i got a 46 5"8 230 lb guy down to a buff big chested 160.he was my.project.he would never be a god but a hot buff bear i paid for lose skin and abs and even designed his waist tattoo and a few more for him

Shaved his head grew beard restyled him.got him confident he never even cruised b4 .i gladly cruised the locker room and underwear gotta have a pouch and wear a cock ring.if ur dick shows through mission accomplished.he said he needed a goal to work for so he asked me if when he was done if we could fuck so you see my intetest.he turned out so adorable and he was packin a DICK.i told guys he bragged to id make him whip it out that did it.hes 5'8 9.5 cut massive head girth its like sitting on a tree stump in a good way.hes a new man weve fucked many times hes a friend but that dick.it waa all down to chemicals.a decent body shaved head beard jusr says butch hot fucker.you know how to work ur dick any guy can get dates.number one is body.just tone bulk chest arms if you have tummy a big chest is key and confidence people say it but look your best and be a little cocky till you get the guy

Then be u.i.wear nothing for about a week and slowly i do pajama bottoms by week three im in winnie the pooh flannel..i get so cold at night and hopefully they atleast if not like im kinda a big kid.i am still the tom ford sex clone but only when i need to i have to slowly break them in to nadja my cat having a pink aristocats themed disney princess playroom or im positive she knows the difference between a cheap rhinestone collar and a diamond one.i didnt pay for it i told mom i took it before she could say no.i have the other pieces to make it whole but mom was cool she gifted to her granddaughter.getting men is about one moment.dating us about revealing you something im fine when its fun i hit a road block when its ok time to get deep and instead of accepting i dont talk about my past they wont stop so six months a year.im sure your emotionally well adjusted so while i dont advise making every trick into a bf we all have the urge.always lwt them call you by purposefully giving ur # and even if they want to give you theirs say i wanma see how long youll wait to call.i also add i have too many balls im my court you take this one.apps are fun but i cant work magic unless at a club or gym the human connect the intensity of the moment gpod lighting.most people on apps just wanna talk and see pics if its a kid 18 tp 23 dont bother they try to act so blaise yet in person cant even look at u to have a conversation.any guy can get laid unless your nursing home territory you can be cute.start with adrenals metabolics no package food and no cheap meat.if you wamt a steak kobe beef.i do an alkaline diet and cleanse twice a year.im actually cleansing now before i ramp up for summer.i take test and hgh to gain lean muscle.im tall that built like a tank is cute till you see they are little tanks.im not a genius but i know the body how to get fit proper proportions to go for and ive dated god since high school too many men im good at the getting and first part not so much revealing soul if u need any help.my longest relationship was a football player at my college i met him end of jr yr high school i was being scouted to play and showed me around we dated till i graduated college with lots of flings and break ups it was simple.we were best friends and crazy about each other .i still think about calling him and saying lets get married ill never replace him..my only true deep i cant breathe without you type love.