Should I include this in my profile?

[Michael Paul]

Okay guys, Escort here. Might be risking a lot by exposing this part of me, however I need some opinions. I have had some major surgery to improve my sex life. I am just not sure if I should include this change in my profile. Some might find it to interesting, while other may not fully understand and get turn off because of it. I have had Penile Implant surgery done over the summer, to help with my Erectile Dysfunction. No need to take pills or injections any longer. I now have a Hard Dick on Demand. I pump it up externally and can stay hard forever. Would this be something a client would want to know in advance or would it be a negative thing?

MP

[jjkrkwood]

Okay guys, Escort here. Might be risking a lot by exposing this part of me, however I need some opinions. I have had some major surgery to improve my sex life. I am just not sure if I should include this change in my profile. Some might find it to interesting, while other may not fully understand and get turn off because of it. I have had Penile Implant surgery done over the summer, to help with my Erectile Dysfunction. No need to take pills or injections any longer. I now have a Hard Dick on Demand. I pump it up externally and can stay hard forever. Would this be something a client would want to know in advance or would it be a negative thing?

MP

 

I dont think its important they know that in advance, as long as it doesnt disappoint in person. Let it be part of your "mystique"...

[Michael Paul]

I dont think its important they know that in advance, as long as it doesnt disappoint in person. Let it be part of your "mystique"...

Thanks for your thought on m new found toy..LOL.... still trying to figure out to make it fun with out them finding out, so I wasn't sure I should tell upfront, or just pump up while I have their attention else where.

[LADoug1]

I don’t think you need to include the information in your profile but there may be times you will want to disclose it when communicating with a prospective client.

[Marcus G vulcan]

I see nothing wrong with it. As far as I'm concerned it makes You feel better and life easier for you ..no meds. As for a business stand you are ready on demand! Congratulations to you on this.

[LaffingBear]

C'mon. It might not be polite, or sensitive.

 

But really... is a client engaged in trying to arouse you always going to be understanding that their manual or oral ministrations dont do it - that you need to reach for the pump? Some people resent paying for surprises.

 

Nothing wrong or judgement-worthy in your solution. Its not a reason I'd use to avoid having sex with a guy. But I believe you'll avoid some unnecessary negative reactions by disclosing in advance. Perhaps not in profile, but before finalizing appointment.

[Rudynate]

To me, that's a fairly major thing. I would like to have been given an opportunity to decide in advance whether that was something I was willing to experience. I think it's wise to mention in your profile. A mention in your profile will automatically weed those prospects who might have a problem with it.

[+ Travis69]

I would NOT mention it unless they ask. Do you have to tell them if you take viagra, etc to keep it up? Some of these guys are too insecure to begin with and thinking you need to "pump" to have an erection for them will kill the mood.

[Rudynate]

Not long ago, I got together with a guy who alerted me at the time I booked that he would be wearing a Holter monitor because he was being evaluated for a-fib. I said that was fine with me. The day of the appointment, he texted me a photograph of the device taped in place on his chest. It was a tiny thing the size of a small wristwatch -absolutely no issue for me. Nonetheless, I appreciated his being completely candid and transparent.

[escortrod]

Will you pre-pump, or do it in front of the client? Is the client likely to notice the valve during play? Unless it is invisible to the client I would either mention it on your profile, or at least in a message before you meet.

[niceandthick]

I had a session with a masseur recently that had a penile implant. This was my second session with him. One of the attractions to him was that he was aroused during the session. However, I was disappointed when feeling around a bit and felt the hydraulics. I thought he was arouse because of me, but learned otherwise. Yeah...shallow...but that was my reaction. Not that he needed to disclose that since it was a massage session...but there was disappointment. I probably would have felt differently if I was told up front.

[+ Travis69]

"Rock hard erection 100% of the time or your money back". Could put this in your profile.

[+ poolboy48220]

Personally, I would appreciate knowing that before I hire.

[+ Seaninsf]

Agree with candor, but I don't know that it needs to be in your profile. It seems to me sharing the information during pre-booking communication provides the opportunity for the client to ask questions... like, "can I help?"

 

Not long ago, I got together with a guy who alerted me at the time I booked that he would be wearing a Holter monitor because he was being evaluated for a-fib. I said that was fine with me. The day of the appointment, he texted me a photograph of the device taped in place on his chest. It was a tiny thing the size of a small wristwatch -absolutely no issue for me. Nonetheless, I appreciated his being completely candid and transparent.

 

Rudy - the burning question I have is were you able to trigger an event that was captured on his monitor! I think he was presenting you a challenge

[Rudynate]

Agree with candor, but I don't know that it needs to be in your profile. It seems to me sharing the information during pre-booking communication provides the opportunity for the client to ask questions... like, "can I help?"

 

 

 

Rudy - the burning question I have is were you able to trigger an event that was captured on his monitor! I think he was presenting you a challenge

 

 

One of my all-time best experiences with an escort. We both agreed that another date was just a question of "when," not "if." Haven't had bandwidth since, though.

[TruthBTold]

Not long ago, I got together with a guy who alerted me at the time I booked that he would be wearing a Holter monitor because he was being evaluated for a-fib. I said that was fine with me. The day of the appointment, he texted me a photograph of the device taped in place on his chest. It was a tiny thing the size of a small wristwatch -absolutely no issue for me. Nonetheless, I appreciated his being completely candid and transparent.

 

I am not an escort but I have a small pacemaker-size device (another words half dollar size) implanted under my skin. Because I have a hairy chest you can hardly see but you can feel it if you rub you fingers over that portion of my chest. Besides that you have to make sure you don't pound on my chest. Considering the two, changes my appearance and a small need for caution, I make sure I have a discussion (no matter how brief) with any escort. So, I guess my answer to you would be the same (I think it would apply for escorts equally). If it does not alter your appearance or alter what can or cannot be done in bed then I don't believe you have to tell him. The client is not entitled to every bit of info about you.

[+ sf westcoaster]

I would not place that information in your profile, but would make it known prior to actually meeting.

[BluDay]

I have had Penile Implant surgery done over the summer

 

As a client, I'd want to know about something like this if there are external parts (I have no idea if there are or not). Viagra isn't externally visible (it's effects _are_, but once the pill is taken, it's gone).

 

It's a bit like hiring someone who is well know for having a very hairy chest, has years of pictures with the hairy chest, markets on their hairy chest and when they show up they are shaved down. Not what the client was expecting. It's a bit of an extension of the beard thing - if an escort goes back and forth with a beard a client may want the beard present or not depending on what they are looking for.

[+ José Soplanucas]

If the erection and the pumping process look natural, if no one would notice, I would not say anything. Not only I would not mention it in my ad, I would keep it for myself.

Of course, as @escortrod mentioned before, if your partner would notice that the erection is not natural, a disclaimer is necessary sometime during the conversation, it does not have to be in your ad.

As a client, if I read in your ad that you have one of those implants, I would not contact you. A natural erection is an important sign for my enjoying the experience. Knowing that you can push a button and get a boner would be a total turn off (to me).

Edited January 4, 2018 by latbear4blk

[TruHart1]

Yet, again there may be a case made for the fact that you might be super-exciting to the client if you pre-pump and greet him at your door with a raging hard-on! I know I would not be thinking of the mechanics involved were I greeted by an escort in his full glory!!! It would, in fact, be pretty HOT for me!

 

TruHart1

[+ Travis69]

I think if you tell them in your profile or in communication prior to the meeting many will not know what to expect and be scared off. I played with a guy who had one and didn't realize it until the 2nd or 3rd time we played. I never mentioned it and neither did he.

[Bearofdistinction]

Yet, again there may be a case made for the fact that you might be super-exciting to the client if you pre-pump and greet him at your door with a raging hard-on! I know I would not be thinking of the mechanics involved were I greeted by an escort in his full glory!!! It would, in fact, be pretty HOT for me!

 

TruHart1

 

Do You Need to Go to the Gas Station and Hookup to the Tire Air Pump? Cause when you came back to the car,with a Pine Air Freshener and a Hard On you can steer the car with Id like to know -- What the f. . .

[Beancounter]

https://www.urologicalcare.com/patient-resources/ed-photo-gallery/no-touch-technique-inflatable-penile-prosthesis/

 

I decided to educate myself of penile implants. Photo gallery is not for the faint of heart. Very interesting process.

[jjkrkwood]

If its something that would be undetectable, I see no reason to mention it. However, if it looks obviously "enhanced", it might be worth mentioning since some people might have a problem with OBVIOUS genital modifications that appear "unnatural".... I once posted a thread about an escort i had hired with an extreme genital modification, and the guys here ripped the guy (and me) to shreds....

[Michael Paul]

Do You Need to Go to the Gas Station and Hookup to the Tire Air Pump? Cause when you came back to the car,with a Pine Air Freshener and a Hard On you can steer the car with Id like to know -- What the f. . .

Sorry ..Im not even going to answer this insane thought process.