Service provider with BF in the next room

[Chelo]

i’ve had hired masseurs/escorts that has partners/boyfriends in their apt. While on session the bf was just in the other room to give us privacy. I know what we are doing is just purely business but i can’t help to feel the awkwardness knowing that his love of his life is just in the next room and can hear us moaning. :/

[Beancounter]

That’s poor form on the escort’s part and I’d let him know about it. If he can’t accommodate your privacy needs then I’d move on or schedule an outcall to your place.

[dfw2sfo]

The bf joining in is something that would be on my mind.

[+ glutes]

I think there was a story of a masseur having his GF wrapped in a curtain in same room while service was being conducted...

[+ BlueSky]

It always makes me uncomfortable if a meeting isn't completely private, just me and the escort. I kind of agree that it's on the escort to make sure you don't encounter anyone else when you come over. But not all escorts can host so you may want to cut him some slack if meeting at his place is the only alternative. That is if you want to see him again.

[+ José Soplanucas]

i’ve had hired masseurs/escorts that has partners/boyfriends in their apt. While on session the bf was just in the other room to give us privacy. I know what we are doing is just purely business but i can’t help to feel the awkwardness knowing that his love of his life is just in the next room and can hear us moaning. :/

 

Love of his life? I do not think that is necessarily true.

[Ganymede255]

“My roommate’s asleep in the other bedroom” when in fact there is no roommate behind the closed door is sometimes a way of ensuring that the client causes no trouble.

[Guest MikeThomas]

I have on occassion told a new escort that my roommate will be home in 90 minutes (for first time appts in my home) or that a friend dropped me off (for appts in the escorts hotel). Or I will let the new escort know that I've told a friend that we are meeting and he is hoping to hire him as well.

[Gadfly22]

I kind of agree that it's on the escort to make sure you don't encounter anyone else when you come over. But not all escorts can host so you may want to cut him some slack if meeting at his place is the only alternative.

 

I agree. It's very impractical for me to host so as long as they don't hold anything back I cut them some slack. I've never had a BF in the next room but I did once have a brother-in-law in the next room! It was bizarre. When I walked in and saw him I just assumed they were buds but he told me after we were done that he was married (tho separated from his wife) and the guy was his bro-in-law. I didn't ask for any further clarification. He must have known what was going on but he seemed totally cool with it. I was so hot for the massage guy I didn't really care though. The funny thing is he did tell me we had to be quiet during the massage so I only let out a muffled moan when I came. But when he came he let out a loud almost primal scream! I laughed. Have seen the guy many times after that - always just the 2 of us, no company in the next room.

[+ EVdude]

I once went to a masseur’s place and I could hear his “whatever” in the next room pecking away on the computer, very distracting, and inhibiting!

[Nvr2Thick]

I used to meet a local masseur who lived with his girlfriend. Sometimes the girlfriend was in the living room of their condo when I arrived or left. The masseur was an entrepreneur, rotating several little startup businesses from web design to landscaping to massage to rap performance (new age Christian, life-affirming rap) and event DJ'ing. I took him at his word that his massage business was M4M because his girlfriend wouldn't let him massage women. He always wore a uniform of well-fitting scrubs. He was trained and his license was up-to-date, and the massage was an excellent blend of skilled therapeutic and sensual techniques. At the end of the first session he made a move toward HE by stating that, "this is probably what you're hoping for since you decided not to drape." He did, however, point out that I needed to keep quiet so that his girlfriend wouldn't know what was going on, and that I'd be welcome to come back for repeats if we could keep things low key. The masseur was quite good at coaxing out a terrific HE every time even though he remained clothed and did not facilitate any mutual touching. I never figured out whether he was even the slightest bit bi, or whether he just determined that a satisfying male massage was good business.

 

Later he opened up a massage business out of a storefront, with some male and female LMTs. I met him for one massage at his new place even though the rates were higher. He draped me when he came into the room, and he did not make a move toward a HE. Last time I looked him up the massage studio was gone and he seemed to have really ramped up the DJ business. I really used to look forward to getting discreetly drained while his girlfriend was in the next room, but I've been around the block enough to get a kick out of odd situations.

 

 

 

I also used to regularly service a mid-40s married hung black guy who would take me upstairs to the guest room while his wife was home. I met him through a Backpage ad, and he was completely upfront about his situation. He wanted me to let his wife observe and "get some pointers", but he respected my preference for a private one-on-one scene.

[Gadfly22]

I also used to regularly service a mid-40s married hung black guy who would take me upstairs to the guest room while his wife was home. I met him through a Backpage ad, and he was completely upfront about his situation. He wanted me to let his wife observe and "get some pointers", but he respected my preference for a private one-on-one scene.

 

So his wife was ok with him getting a bj from a guy he met on backpage and not getting any "pointers"? Or did she not know what was going on?

[Nvr2Thick]

So his wife was ok with him getting a bj from a guy he met on backpage and not getting any "pointers"? Or did she not know what was going on?

 

The wife knew what was going on. I believe that they both liked the extra income, and I think that they were both proud of his oversexed demeanor and his big dick. It became clear to me over time that they were into a lot of different scenes, and also as a couple. I'm pretty sure that he advertised on Craigslist M4MW ads offering to dominate white couples.

[Dmitri]

I had a really bizarre "person in the next room" massage situation about 2 years ago that turned out VERY well. I contacted a masseur (Andy) for a massage at his house. I showed up at 8pm and he opened the door....a good looking guy about 45 y/o. I assumed he lived alone. As we were walking upstairs to his massage room that was on the second story of his house, a hot guy in his early 20's was walking downstairs,and passed us. Andy then introduced me to his son, Tyler! I was a bit shocked, but continued up to the massage room. During the massage, I could hear his son downstairs. Andy explained he was divorced and his son had just moved back in with him, was 22 y/o....and going to college. It was a great massage, and at one point Tyler had to use the bathroom, and walked past our open massage room door. He poked his head in, and asked his dad if he needed help. (?) Andy asked if it was okay, so I agreed. It was a great 4 hands massage, plus very hot being massaged by a hot dad and his sexy 22 y/o son. At the end, we were all chatting, and Tyler said he found me very hot.....and asked me if we could go into his bedroom for some fun. Tyler was VERY hot and hung.....so with his dad's approval...(believe me, asking for his dad's approval was surreal!) ...I left the massage room and went to Tyler's bedroom, and had a helluva good time! We were in bed for over 2 hours, full on sex. Very memorable......he was a newbie but still knew some things. VERY hot sex. So sometimes these "person in the other room" situations turn out well!

Edited December 31, 2017 by Dmitri

[BabyBoomer]

I had a really bizarre "person in the next room" massage situation about 2 years ago that turned out VERY well. I contacted a masseur (Andy) for a massage at his house. I showed up at 8pm and he opened the door....a good looking guy about 45 y/o. I assumed he lived alone. As we were walking upstairs to his massage room that was on the second story of his house, a hot guy in his early 20's was walking downstairs,and passed us. Andy then introduced me to his son, Tyler! I was a bit shocked, but continued up to the massage room. During the massage, I could hear his son downstairs. Andy explained he was divorced and his son had just moved back in with him, was 22 y/o....and going to college. It was a great massage, and at one point Tyler had to use the bathroom, and walked past our open massage room door. He poked his head in, and asked his dad if he needed help. (?) Andy asked if it was okay, so I agreed. It was a great 4 hands massage, plus very hot being massaged by a hot dad and his sexy 22 y/o son. At the end, we were all chatting, and Tyler said he found me very hot.....and asked me if we could go into his bedroom for some fun. Tyler was VERY hot and hung.....so with his dad's approval...(believe me, asking for his dad's approval was surreal!) ...I left the massage room and went to Tyler's bedroom, and had a helluva good time! We were in bed for over 2 hours, full on sex. Very memorable......he was a newbie but still knew some things. VERY hot sex. So sometimes these "person in the other room" situations turn out well!

 

This sounds like a scene from an Icon Male film.

 

~Boomer~

[braintser]

I had a really bizarre "person in the next room" massage situation about 2 years ago that turned out VERY well. I contacted a masseur (Andy) for a massage at his house. I showed up at 8pm and he opened the door....a good looking guy about 45 y/o. I assumed he lived alone. As we were walking upstairs to his massage room that was on the second story of his house, a hot guy in his early 20's was walking downstairs,and passed us. Andy then introduced me to his son, Tyler! I was a bit shocked, but continued up to the massage room. During the massage, I could hear his son downstairs. Andy explained he was divorced and his son had just moved back in with him, was 22 y/o....and going to college. It was a great massage, and at one point Tyler had to use the bathroom, and walked past our open massage room door. He poked his head in, and asked his dad if he needed help. (?) Andy asked if it was okay, so I agreed. It was a great 4 hands massage, plus very hot being massaged by a hot dad and his sexy 22 y/o son. At the end, we were all chatting, and Tyler said he found me very hot.....and asked me if we could go into his bedroom for some fun. Tyler was VERY hot and hung.....so with his dad's approval...(believe me, asking for his dad's approval was surreal!) ...I left the massage room and went to Tyler's bedroom, and had a helluva good time! We were in bed for over 2 hours, full on sex. Very memorable......he was a newbie but still knew some things. VERY hot sex. So sometimes these "person in the other room" situations turn out well!

 

Wow, this is a last minute entry for post of the year.

[Redwine56]

Wow, this is a last minute entry for post of the year.

Yes, agree! A father/son unplanned 4-handed message that leads into full on wild sex with the young son after the father gives him permission is definitely noteworthy to say the least. Sounds like the son deserved an extra tip for his services. You can't make this stuff up.

[nsguy45]

A bit off topic, but I once hooked up with a smoking hot young dad on gay.com . . . if anyone remembers that site. We'd been flirting for about two weeks and finally met up at his house when he swore his wife and two young daughters were away. We were really going at it when suddenly a child's voice from a bedroom down the hall called out "Daddy!". Yes, his wife was out of town on business, but the two young daughters were in their bedrooms down the hall. I dressed and left immediately and never saw him again. Shame, because he was super cute, could have been Greg Kinnear's twin.

[ontheroad]

I had this happen several times over the years. One guy in Philly used to do it with his wife and son at home. He would always say just keep it quiet and he was always the one who would initiate the fun with his big Dick. I always felt really awkward. He then moved to a studio and still screwed around there. And then he and his wife moved to a new house and he continued. I guess I found it hot because I kept returning. On another occasion, also in Philly, a guy hopped on top of me and rode me while his boyfriend was downstairs. Afterwards, the three of us chatted in the kitchen and clearly the bf knew what went on. I’ve had a roommate of bf join the massage before too.

[JBrian72]

Once, many years ago in Santa Monica, when I was a young, fairly attractive student, I received a massage from a big-dicked daddy. He told me that his bf (whom I'd never met) was sleeping in the next room and that I should climb in bed with him. I don't know why I did it, but I crawled into bed with a very cute guy who'd never seen me before.

 

He woke up and, once he got over his surprise (although I got the impression that I was not the first person invited into this bed) we enjoyed each other's company, then the daddy joined us and then I watched the daddy fuck his boy raw, doggy style.

 

After we all came we had some delicious chicken salad that the masseur had made!

[ontheroad]

 

After we all came we had some delicious chicken salad that the masseur had made!

 

Who supplied the mayonnaise?

[JBrian72]

Who supplied the mayonnaise?

One wonders

[Ajac]

Wow I remember being made uncomfortable by photos of wife and children on the nightstand. Hearing Daddy being called out from down the hall would kill a boner for sure.

[+ BritSD]

One of my regular therapist has a bf. Whenever i go to his place at night, his BF is always there. Sometimes, towards the end, He tells me to be quiet since his BF is there. One time, I crossed paths with his BF as I entered the house and his BF was leaving. Sometime about that is always interesting knowing someone is in the other room

[bigvalboy]

Met a cutie pie in LA and the massage transcended into fun between the sheets. When I had arrived we were alone in his apartment, so when we were finished, and he invited me to shower with him, I left the bedroom in my birthday suit. You can imagine my surprise when I ran into the gf cooking dinner in the kitchen. She covered her face with the cook book and mumbled some greeting...

Edited January 3, 2018 by bigvalboy