Ever had an escort divorce u?

[Jomo]

I think my regular just divorced me. I have no idea why

[Boy4]

I think my regular just divorced me. I have no idea why

You mean from being a regular?

[nsguy45]

And I just "divorced" an escort I've been seeing exclusively since May.

[Boy4]

And I just "divorced" an escort I've been seeing exclusively since May.

was he cheating on you.?

 

JK

[Jomo]

You mean from being a regular?

Yes sir

Seen the dudte 4 times this year. Spent a lot of money. Got drunk, googled his name. He's in a little trouble with the law, actually a lot..felony battery. I texted him and said basically I'll help if I can. Crickets from him since then

[GLEE]

Yes sir

Seen the dudte 4 times this year. Spent a lot of money. Got drunk, googled his name. He's in a little trouble with the law, felony battery. I texted him and said basically I'll help if I can. Crickets from him since then

 

Maybe he just doesn’t know how to respond to this so give him some time before talking to him again if you may? I do know some people see this as their privacy so you reaching out may be a sign of you crossing the line. But whatever the reason is, wait patiently, maybe a day or two before reaching out to him again. If he responds then you two can conversation about this. If he doesn’t, or he explicitly suggests you two should never contact again, moving on won’t be a bad idea as well. I know it’s hard, but if he sees the fact you offering help as an offense, it’s hard to change his mind. There’re other fish in the sea though.

[Jomo]

Maybe he just doesn’t know how to respond to this so give him some time before talking to him again if you may? I do know some people see this as their privacy so you reaching out may be a sign of you crossing the line. But whatever the reason is, wait patiently, maybe a day or two before reaching out to him again. If he responds then you two can conversation about this. If he doesn’t, or he explicitly suggests you two should never contact again, moving on won’t be a bad idea as well. I know it’s hard, but if he sees the fact you offering help as an offense, it’s hard to change his mind. There’re other fish in the sea though.

You are correct. There are plenty of fish in the sea. I hate it for him, he pled guilty for the charge. Then skipped on his charge hearing. Warrant out for his arrest at this point. Online records can be a birch. I guess he's probably embarrassed. I'd help him out, but oh well.

[nsguy45]

was he cheating on you.?

 

JK

No, we just got bored with each other.

[+ Topseed]

Yes, I have. One of the happiest days of my life.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

No, we just got bored with each other.

Lol.

Is this 3rd level humour?

Or didn’t you get the second level humour from @Boy4 ?

Or was @Boy4 not joking?

 

Now I am unsure of anything.... arrggg!

[BabyBoomer]

He's in a little trouble with the law, actually a lot..felony battery.

 

he pled guilty for the charge. Then skipped on his charge hearing. Warrant out for his arrest at this point

 

He's looking at jail time. It's time to find someone new.

 

~Boomer~

[Jomo]

Yep yep

[nsguy45]

Lol.

Is this 3rd level humour?

Or didn’t you get the second level humour from @Boy4 ?

Or was @Boy4 not joking?

 

Now I am unsure of anything.... arrggg!

I blame myself for hiring him too often, as much as 4 times a week. Since May, we're talking $10K, with overnights and all.

[Boy4]

I blame myself for hiring him too often, as much as 4 times a week. Since May, we're talking $10K, with overnights and all.

Don't blame yourself... with that many calls sound like it should have kept him out of trouble.

[Jomo]

and what is stoopid on my part, I'd help him out. Y'all are right, move on. And yes, I spelled stoopid correctly

[Jomo]

I blame myself for hiring him too often, as much as 4 times a week. Since May, we're talking $10K, with overnights and all.

I'm n deeper thN that

[BabyBoomer]

Don't blame yourself... with that many calls sound like it should have kept him out of trouble.

 

@Jomo & @nsguy45 are talking about 2 different escorts. You're getting them confused.

 

~Boomer~

[nsguy45]

@Jomo & @nsguy45 are talking about 2 different escorts. You're getting them confused.

 

~Boomer~

Correct. My guy was never in any trouble, except on a couple of our overnights, lol.

[BluDay]

I think my regular just divorced me. I have no idea why

 

Got drunk, googled his name

 

You do have an idea why It's often considered an invasion of privacy to check into the life of an escort - anything he doesn't tell you himself. Just like better escorts don't go digging into who their clients are.

 

And what you found is a bit embarrassing for him, and he seems to be in over his head, so his life seems a mess just now. Since you've been a good client for a while, apologizing to him and promising to leave that boundary up from now on may bring him back. We all make mistakes, hopefully he'll understand.

 

In those rare cases I've found out something private about an escort, always by accident, I've keep it to myself. I'm sure my regular knows things about me I didn't intend, again just by accident, but he keeps it close as well, and I prefer it.

[+ ArVaGuy]

I think my regular just divorced me. I have no idea why

 

Yes sir

Seen the dudte 4 times this year. Spent a lot of money. Got drunk, googled his name. He's in a little trouble with the law, actually a lot..felony battery. I texted him and said basically I'll help if I can. Crickets from him since then

 

You invaded his privacy. Then you informed him you knew all the messy details. IMO offering to “help” doesn’t begin to make up for the intrusion into his personal business. If he wanted you to know about his situation or needed your assistance he would have told you and asked for help. He obviously has some complexities occurring in his life at the moment. He may feel that the last thing he needs right now is a needy client who doesn’t respect boundaries.

[MikeBiDude]

You invaded his privacy. Then you informed him you knew all the messy details.

Yup....there it is, you should have kept out of his business.

[rvwnsd]

Count me among those who believe the escort stopped contacting you because you mentioned his legal troubles. That was really a bad idea. Time to move on.

[jawjateck]

I've been divorced several times. Every one of my ex's owes me $$$.

[LADoug1]

Yes sir

Seen the dudte 4 times this year. Spent a lot of money. Got drunk, googled his name. He's in a little trouble with the law, actually a lot..felony battery. I texted him and said basically I'll help if I can. Crickets from him since then

 

Crickets?

[LADoug1]

He's looking at jail time. It's time to find someone new.

 

~Boomer~

 

A MAJOR understatement to say the least!