Just curious to know, why the love for massage?

[NYMassageAddict]

I, like many on the board, Love love a really good massage.

 

Outside of the obvious (it feels good), just curious to know why some of you are hooked on the massage scene.

 

Curious to know what got you started on the massage path, and what in particular draws you to love a massage so much.

 

For me, I kinda hate to admit it but I think I love the thought of having someone treat me like a king. The thought that someone is there simply to provide me pleasure with no expectation of reciprocation. All the way from the beginning (a couple masseurs have undressed me from their knees) to being washed up when it’s over.

 

I know it’s ridiculous (especially as I type this) but it’s kinda hot to me.

 

Others?

[+ nycman]

Touch is massively important.

 

Sometimes (perhaps even most) it’s even more important than Sex.

 

Also, it’s nice to be pampered.

 

You want the muscle man of your dreams to be your whimpering little bitch for the night?

Here’s a hint....spend two hours giving him a non-sexual massage....he will end up BEGGING for it.

[MartyB]

A great sensual massage I many ways can be as gratifying as a pure escort session. Love the idea of a great man who is also I the nude working over your entire body. Knowing your trigger points and searching and working your most erogenous zones. Love when my dick gets hard and it's stroked and played with and when I'm told to turn over I am more than ready. Yes it's a great experience

[510guy]

A hot guy exploring my bodies and finding what areas want/need special attention. I know some masseur want to make sure they get their massage routine in but I just found that I am just not into people who want to stick to their routine. For example some masseur want to see spend a lot of time on the legs but that just doesn't do it for me. Now if it is a reason to tease me I am very into that. Several times I have had to tell the guy enough with the legs or not so much time next time with the legs.

I also like the feeling of mystery of what is he going to do next. This is a reason I don't repeat very often. If I find a guy is to methodical and I will basically get the same thing next time I don't return. But if I can tell that each session will be a different experience then I will repeat.

[fratphysicals]

Agree with everything above.

 

I prefer sensual massage hands down instead of escorting. In fact I’m not into hiring escorts at all and find it disgusting.

 

The perfect sensual massage which starts therapeutic and feels great, slowly and gradually becomes sensual, ending with a slow and full release. I don’t want sex, humping, too much talking, etc. - just a pure sensual massage with both of us nude creating a very sensual and intimate experience that to me feels much better and exceeds anything I expect from sex. In fact I hate when a masseur gets too much into it and starts shoving their piece into my face or tries to sit on me. I’m probably different than most guys on here in that sense but part of me also thinks I’m mostly straight or at least bi, but who knows or really cares haha.

 

There’s also an intrigue of a clothed masseur v. a nude client that I’ve tried a few times. While I rather seeing what my masseur has to offer, the idea of a masseur fully clothed seeing a client with everything out can also be just as exciting as it creates a dominant side to the equation and leaves things to imagination.

 

My first hire was in Las Vegas about 5 years agoafter a spontaneous solo trip to the strip following a bit of a 1/4 life crisis. I hired a masseur off of masseurfinder without much research and not knowing what to expect. Luckily this masculine good-looking black guy in his 30’s showed up to my hotel with a full setup. I was 23 at the time and had no idea what to expect. I left my boxers on and after about 30mins into the massage and talking with the masseur, I told him he could remove my boxers if it was easier for him. They were quickly slid off from me and the massage continued. When I flipped over I started to get hard, and he mentioned I was turning him on haha. I told him he could take his shorts off if he wanted and he did. The massage finished with him slowly and perfectly releasing me while I played with his piece. That was the start of it for me and I probably hire every other week now and every time I travel, especially if I’m in a stacked city (Miami, NYC).

 

I also gave massages when I lived in Texas for about a year. It still amazes me how many married men in their 30’s who are straight get into m4m massage. I really think it’s compleyeky natural for straight guys to get curious right around that age and start experimenting with massage.

Edited November 13, 2017 by fratphysicals

[MikeyGMin]

In fact I’m not into hiring escorts at all and find it disgusting.

Disgusting?

[+ sniper]

I also gave massages when I lived in Texas for about a year. It still amazes me how many married men in their 30’s who are straight get into m4m massage. I really think it’s compleyeky natural for straight guys to get curious right around that age and start experimenting with massage.

Well, judging from my straight friends, that's about the time a lot of their wives stop touching them and they are looking for any outlet they can find short of actually fucking another woman.

[MikeBiDude]

In fact I’m not into hiring escorts at all and find it disgusting.

Nice....really pleasant comment

[+ not2rowdy]

I’m pretty much in agreement with the love for pampering comments above. As I age I have much less interest in the the escort side of the equation - and much more interest in therapeutic and sensual massage for body relaxation.

 

I have less interest in playing the field and like my regulars. I relax better if I have a sense of the routine that will take place.

 

One thing I really, really like is developing a relationship that offers the opportunity to do mutual massage. Although a bit lacking in stamina I’m not too bad at it - and love when I can get the masseur to nod off in relaxed slumber for a bit.

[Walker1]

I love massage. For me though, I need a real good strong massage with the massauer getting in deep. I have had massage from women-but really prefer strong muscled men. I typically like 90 min or more with the last part turning sensual. But without a solid massage, I don't like the rub and tug. I would rather go to an escort. Massage keeps me healthy and nice and have always loved a good massage with a sensual/teasing element to it-of course with the HE.

 

When I hire a massage therapist, I am in the massage zone, usually with a few mild aches and pains and by the end come out great with a nice HE. Escorting is different-after trying to mix the two-have kept the two separate.

[fratphysicals]

Nice....really pleasant comment

That’s my opinion. You’re entitled to disagree.

[+ HornyRetiree]

Disgusting?

Yes, I noticed that too and wondered what/why!

[MikeBiDude]

That’s my opinion. You’re entitled to disagree.

Of course you’re entitled to your opinion.

 

Just seems odd to voice that here on this forum where the majority of posters are hiring escorts, and a goodly number of posters are escorts themselves. Seems you’re dissing a huge majority here, including the subset of masseurs who also escort.

[+ sniper]

Massage and handjobs are certainly safer from an STD standpoint than full-on sex, but if you hire erotic masseurs, it's kind of a rude thing to describe people one step further on the same slippery slope you are on as "disgusting" and not expect some pushback.

[LookingAround]

Of course you’re entitled to your opinion.

 

Just seems odd to voice that here on this forum where the majority of posters are hiring escorts, and a goodly number of posters are escorts themselves. Seems you’re dissing a huge majority here, including the subset of masseurs who also escort.

He’s not dissing anybody. He’s expressing his opinion. Let him express himself. Geez.

[fratphysicals]

Exactly.

[MikeBiDude]

He’s not dissing anybody. He’s expressing his opinion. Let him express himself. Geez.

That hiring escorts is “disgusting”. thats ok with you?

[MartyB]

That hiring escorts is “disgusting”. thats ok with you?

Agree. To use the term disgusting on this forum? Seriously? Not concerned that this remarkable comment was made but the tenor and the balls to put that out on this forum insults the vast majority of the men on both sides client/escort.

[LookingAround]

That hiring escorts is “disgusting”. thats ok with you?

It’s ok with me that he feels that way because he isn’t a robot and I don’t program his feelings. I’m fine with him expressing his feeling.

[+ sniper]

It’s ok with me that he feels that way because he isn’t a robot and I don’t program his feelings. I’m fine with him expressing his feeling.

If you're talking with a friend who has a tattoo, do you say, "I think tattoos are disgusting" or something a tad more diplomatic like "I don't care for them myself, but whatever floats your boat?" There's a difference between expressing an opinion and casting aspersions while you do it.

[LookingAround]

You wanna beat him up go beat him up. Personally I like people who express themselves but you wanna tear him a new one go ahead. He can defend himself.

 

Why don’t you go through all the posts on the forum and rewrite them so they meet your politeness standards in the way you would express them?

Edited November 14, 2017 by LookingAround

[Ludo]

I find the funniest part of what @fratphysicals said to be "I’m probably different than most guys on here in that sense but part of me also thinks I’m mostly straight or at least bi, but who knows..." Gurl, honey- you spend a lot of time on here thinking and talking about having men jerk your junk. 3 pages full of just threads you started asking about guys who can make you jizz. So while you may not think you are hiring an escort (ewww, gross!) you're paying for a dude to get you off. So which part is "mostly straight"? HAHAHAH Just giving you a hard time. Your life is your life.

[MikeBiDude]

I find the funniest part of what @fratphysicals said to be "I’m probably different than most guys on here in that sense but part of me also thinks I’m mostly straight or at least bi, but who knows..." Gurl, honey- you spend a lot of time on here thinking and talking about having men jerk your junk. 3 pages full of just threads you started asking about guys who can make you jizz. So while you may not think you are hiring an escort (ewww, gross!) you're paying for a dude to get you off. So which part is "mostly straight"? HAHAHAH Just giving you a hard time. Your life is your life.

Well said!

[Guest fm0322]

Massage helped me overcome sexual abuse by a woman when I was an adolescent. I was determined to get over being freaked out when I was touched (a definite factor in an intimate relationship). A therapist suggested that a massage would be a great place to start. Being naked in a dimly lit room felt safe and the masseur was completely respectful. After a couple of massages with a masseur I quickly liked, when things turned sensual it was super exciting. It took time, but I am a total massage devotee. I love being touched, I enjoy the way my body feels afterward, and the sensual parts fit as a complete package.