Less than an hour

[kaboom35]

I recently met with a particular escort for the 2nd time. I had a great time the first go round. It was a full hour and he was not a clock watcher. I knew that I would eventually hire him again. Well that 2nd time happened. We were fooling around and about 20-30 minutes into our meeting he orgasmed. (In his defense, he asked me if I wanted him too and I said yes). I orgasmed as well. However after that I guess it seemed to him that we were done but we still had 30 minutes or so left to play if going based on an hourly rate. I paid him the whole hour reluctantly but didn’t say anything. Should I have only paid him half and/or should he have only offered for me to pay half? Just wondering protocol. I’ve hired a lot and this rarely happens that the escort doesn’t fulfill his hour. One time a popular NYC escort came pretty quick with me (about 30 minutes in) and offered that I could do another 30 minute session with him at another time since I paid him the full hour. And I though that was nice. Thoughts?

[Pulgasari1991]

Two 30 minutes sessions are not the same as a 1 hour session; hence my say is that the NYC escort kind of made the extra step, though maybe a small one, nothing life-changing; but of course that's nice.

 

Then, I say there's no protocol. Why you expect to there be one, anyway? It's supposed to be a personal experience.

You should decide by yourself if lastly you were either satisfied or disappointed, taking a bit of both (even if there are, in fact, good sides and bad sides) isn't going to make things clear.

[Kevin Slater]

He asked if you wanted him to cum and you sad yes, then came yourself. That's usually code for things wrapping up. If you felt compelled to stretch out the hour you could have suggested what else you'd like to do with that time. I suspect if you had suggested chatting or cuddling, he'd have been happy to, but in no case do you short him on his fee.

 

It sounds like you've had two good sessions with him and are focusing on the wrong part. If you want to be sure to get every last minute, maybe don't bring events to a climax prematurely. Not watching the clock goes both directions.

 

Kevin Slater

[mike carey]

He asked if you wanted him to cum and you sad yes, then came yourself. That's usually code for things wrapping up. If you felt compelled to stretch out the hour you could have suggested what else you'd like to do with that time. I suspect if you had suggested chatting or cuddling, he'd have been happy to, but in no case do you short him on his fee.

From reading here, rather than my personal experience, it seems that there is a view that regardless of time, coming marks the end of a session. I'm not sure how that would translate if the initial passion of an overnight was that one or other came after 30 minutes, but I'll leave that aside. It may be an escort's view that that is the case, or it may be his assumption that the client sees it that way. As in so many situations, communication is the key. Tell him, either at the outset or when one of you comes that you don't see that as the end of the session if that is what you think. For the record, I love the whole range of experiences in a meeting and don't see coming as the pivotal point of it.

[+ Keith30309]

I generally think in terms of paying for someone’s time rather than completion of some work effort. If I were looking for ejaculations then I’d hire some to sit in my car with me behind a dumpster for 10 minutes.

 

I had a visit from a semi-regular last night - 2-hours - and climaxes came fairly early. We spent the rest of our time talking and laughing and cuddling... the really rewarding part.

I try very hard to be respectful of my companions’ time and not run over and I appreciate the same consideration in return.

[MikeyGMin]

You don't get to cut the fee in half, but you do need to speak up.

 

"How about we take a shower with the rest of the time left?"

 

"How about we lay here and get to know each other a little better?"

 

Any number of things to let him know that you'd like to spend the remaining time with him. Some clients actually prefer the "cum and done" sessions themselves and you can't expect your guy to be a mind reader. Now, after making your preference known, he still insists on leaving immediately, I would pay him the whole fee but probably never hire him again.+

[Guest]

Theirs many things that escort could have done to extend the session. Like give you a massage, make out, cuddle, shower together. If I'm being paid an hour fee Im going to stay the entire hour unless that client is in a rush. Even taking a 5-10 minute break and then returning to try to make you cum a 2nd time hehe

[+ Funguy]

And what about us lucky ones who cum more than once!?

In a 2 hour meeting, without seeing a clock I can judge 45 min or so into the meeting I want to cum. Then I've got time for another BASED ON AGREED 2 HOURS.

I rarely have a 1 hour meeting but in those I'll cum pretty early on so I can again at the end. If I cum at 15 minutes there is NO way I'm going to end it then!

[+ VictorPowers]

In my experience, both of us cumming signals an end to the session. If I was in your situation, I would have lingered a bit and gauged how the conversation went. Sometimes I can tell they don't want it to end yet. On others occasions the client get dressed immediately and I take the hint.

 

Then there is the extreme where the client literally has the goal to cum as soon as physically able and I'm out the door in 15 minutes or less.

[mike carey]

Then there is the extreme where the client literally has the goal to cum as soon as physically able and I'm out the door in 15 minutes or less.

They want to come and run? With you? I guess, whatever they want. I wouldn't want to let you leave.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

Theirs many things that escort could have done to extend the session. Like give you a massage, make out, cuddle, shower together. If I'm being paid an hour fee Im going to stay the entire hour unless that client is in a rush. Even taking a 5-10 minute break and then returning to try to make you cum a 2nd time hehe

And I now know for certain that dominiking is indeed an expert at giving seconds, or even thirds!

But yeah, I agree with with @Kevin Slater, @kaboom35 owes him the full hour, and if he wants to spend all of the time with his escort, he can spend it cuddling, stroking his beautiful body, making-out, talking.

[Kevin Slater]

he can spend it cuddling, stroking his beautiful body, making-out, talking.

 

Walk the dog, some light dusting...

 

Kevin Slater

[BluDay]

An escort, especially with someone they have met only once or a few times, doesn't have all the clients desires down yet. He has to make his best guess as to what you want. A lot of people would want the escort to wrap up after an orgasm, so your guy did that. As a client, you have the help the escort know what you want. Tell him something like "we've still got time, lay here with me" or whatever. He'll comply.

 

I've found it's much better to tell the escort what you like (while he's doing it, or to encourage him to start something), than to hope he's going to read my mind.

[LADoug1]

Most of these responses reinforce the that COMMUNICATION is key.

[topinla]

If I were looking for ejaculations then I’d hire some to sit in my car with me behind a dumpster for 10 minutes.

 

 

Hands up who’s done this?! :D

[KennF]

The communication doesn't even need to be verbal. The events immediately following can say everything. Non-verbal cues are so important.

 

For example, after orgasm, I pull someone closer to me to enjoy the feel of their body and lips. If they try to get away or complain about the mess, I simply pull them in closer and kiss them deeply. I don't need to say "we still have 13 1/2 minutes".

 

I'm very interested in the quiet or tender moments after the passion. An escort who got up and dressed would be depriving me of my satisfaction.

[corndog]

More than once, I've had the impression that an escort has rushed me to an orgasm quickly so that he can get out of there. Alas, I'm fairly helpless if someone is intent on making this happen. I tell them to slow down, and I try to change the focus to them, but sometimes they're out in 30 minutes. I feel taken advantage of, and I don't rehire.

[tenderloin]

If you want to be sure to get every last minute, maybe don't bring events to a climax prematurely. Not watching the clock goes both directions.

 

Kevin Slater

 

How does the client know that the climax is premature if he is not watching the clock? In a good session, I lose track of time and place, and I am just in the action. The notion of ejaculation as being the end of the session gives lie to the concept of "you're paying for my time and companionship only."

 

It is true that communication is key in both directions; I always say at the beginning of the session that I like to cuddle afterwards. When some guy leaps out of bed the minute the cum flies, that is my signal not to hire again.

[MartyB]

In my experience, both of us cumming signals an end to the session. If I was in your situation, I would have lingered a bit and gauged how the conversation went. Sometimes I can tell they don't want it to end yet. On others occasions the client get dressed immediately and I take the hint.

 

Then there is the extreme where the client literally has the goal to cum as soon as physically able and I'm out the door in 15 minutes or less.

Cumming in 15 minutes with you and running out the door would never happen. You are seriously amazing and I would savor every moment I could...

[+ VictorPowers]

Cumming in 15 minutes with you and running out the door would never happen. You are seriously amazing and I would savor every moment I could...

Do me a favor and savor the flavor of this endeavor.

[BluDay]

More than once, I've had the impression that an escort has rushed me to an orgasm quickly so that he can get out of there. Alas, I'm fairly helpless if someone is intent on making this happen. I tell them to slow down, and I try to change the focus to them, but sometimes they're out in 30 minutes. I feel taken advantage of, and I don't rehire.

 

Next time you hire, tell the guy during the initial set up that after you orgasm you would like him to stick around and hold you, kiss, or whatever. Giving those instructions before the meeting will put it in his mind and you won't feel as awkward in the moment.

 

A lot of clients want to orgasm during a session, and some escorts will work to have that happen, and they want to get it done so it does happen during the session, not finish up the hour without that 'piece of work' incomplete.

 

No doubt some do want to get out, since it's more per minute, but as the client you can set the length expectation.

[Kevin Slater]

but as the client you can set the length expectation.

 

Might I recommend nothing under nine inches.

 

Kevin Slater

[rvwnsd]

Next time you hire, tell the guy during the initial set up that after you orgasm you would like him to stick around and hold you, kiss, or whatever. Giving those instructions before the meeting will put it in his mind and you won't feel as awkward in the moment...

I have done (and still do) what you are suggesting and it worked like a charm. Case in point, an escort I hired frequently who could make me cum in minutes if we weren't careful. We typically did not kiss and cuddle after we came and that was typically perfectly fine. After getting dressed we would chit chat and eventually whoever visited the other would go on their merry way.

 

One time, I mentioned in advance that we should save time for post-orgasm kissing and cuddling because I was in the mood for it that day. Well, he came first (at almost the one-hour mark) and then I came and he proceeded to kiss and cuddle with me and would not let go. When I left it had been almost two hours since I arrived. He refused extra money. Later, he texted that it was one of the hottest appointments he had ever had. Looking back, it was for me too!

 

I mention this not because you will have an almost two-hour session for the price of one but because communication is key.

[+ BlueSky]

At the start of most every session, I tell the escort what I'm in the mood for and how I'd like the ending to go. It seems to be well-received and makes things hotter (for me).

[LADoug1]

The communication doesn't even need to be verbal. The events immediately following can say everything. Non-verbal cues are so important.

 

For example, after orgasm, I pull someone closer to me to enjoy the feel of their body and lips. If they try to get away or complain about the mess, I simply pull them in closer and kiss them deeply. I don't need to say "we still have 13 1/2 minutes".

 

I'm very interested in the quiet or tender moments after the passion. An escort who got up and dressed would be depriving me of my satisfaction.

If they complain about the mess I’d say “wait here while I get you a damp towel and a dry towel. Then I’d like to cuddle.” If they refuse I’d say they’re probably not a professional.