Two times a mess up so no more

[Smurof]

The first time I arranged to meet this particular escort who lives 90 miles from my home, they cancelled at the last minute. He had an emergency that sounded legit, so I waited several months to try again.

 

Tonight, I texted a confirmation of our meeting, and he said I had the wrong day and he would see me on Thursday. I said he was mistaken. He offered many other days and times, but that wasn't the point. He messed up, and I shouldn't have to change my busy week when I already set aside time with him tonight.

 

I will not attempt to see him a third time, as I am disappointed first in a 180 mile non-meet-up, followed by a scheduling error. I don't delete sent texts, so I verified I made the appointment for tonight.

[BabyBoomer]

I don't delete sent texts, so I verified I made the appointment for tonight.

 

Did you resend the text(s) to him to prove that you were correct?

 

~Boomer~

[Dmitri]

The first time I arranged to meet this particular escort who lives 90 miles from my home, they cancelled at the last minute. He had an emergency that sounded legit, so I waited several months to try again.

 

Tonight, I texted a confirmation of our meeting, and he said I had the wrong day and he would see me on Thursday. I said he was mistaken. He offered many other days and times, but that wasn't the point. He messed up, and I shouldn't have to change my busy week when I already set aside time with him tonight.

 

I will not attempt to see him a third time, as I am disappointed first in a 180 mile non-meet-up, followed by a scheduling error. I don't delete sent texts, so I verified I made the appointment for tonight.

 

@Smurof , I would have played it just the way you did. The first time I give the masseur or escort a pass if the excuse sounds legit. If they fuck up a second time, I am done with them. I don't even try to "prove" I was right and they were wrong. It is just a waste of my time and energy. And really, what is the point? I am never going to use them again. The escort you describe sounds like he does not know how to run a business, and deleting him from your phone and life is the best move. What a flake. My rule is 2 strikes and you are out.

[Mocha]

He offered many other days and times, but that wasn't the point. He messed up, and I shouldn't have to change my busy week when I already set aside time with him tonight.

 

I will not attempt to see him a third time, as I am disappointed first in a 180 mile non-meet-up, followed by a scheduling error.

 

Ok, I'll give it to you that cancelling last minute especially if you traveled 90 miles to see him is an ultimate Fk up.

 

However, I'm a bit on the fence on the rest. He counter-offered different times. It does gets me that some clients are so busy, too busy...to meet, but have all the time in the world to txt and email.

 

Sometimes as an escort, we're pressured to try and meet the busy, extremely minuscule time window that a client has. It's like, if I can't meet between 5 and 6 pm on Thursday, and if it dare changes by an hour or 2, then the client gets angry and doesn't contact again for several months next time they're free or never at all. Well guess what, we're people too. It's 1 person, running 1 show, trying to serve a multitude. I know 2 fish and 5 loaves of bread fed 5,000 people, but I can't just instantly turn 1 dick and 2 balls into a shower of dildos.

 

In cases such as this; it's not his fault, and not necessarily yours either. But sounds like 2 incompatible schedules trying to make something happen, and unless he either gets his schedule straight or you have a broader time window, it just seems like a big Grindr-like mind fuck. Spending all that time typing and scheduling, but lacking the coordination to actually meet.

[+ sync]

I don't delete sent texts, so I verified I made the appointment for tonight.

 

Him blatantly lying about the verification of the time of the appointment to shift the blame for his failure onto you validates your decision to move on from him.

[wklucas]

However, I'm a bit on the fence on the rest. He counter-offered different times. It does gets me that some clients are so busy, too busy...to meet, but have all the time in the world to txt and email.

 

A definite contender for the top 10 list of your ridiculous, negative, offensive & ignorant rants directed toward clients.

[+ Funguy]

I have been ridiculously fortunate. Because of my work schedule, the fact that i am VERY MUCH a morning person, and other reasons which are simply preferences, I book in advance, often 1-2 months. This allows for me, the client, to get the most opportune time slot for me.

I also keep in touch and I confirm during the week prior.

 

I won't say that there has never been a last minute cancellation, but the very few times it has happened to me the escorts have been forthright and honest and, shit happens. I have never been given bullshit reasons and have always believed what the escorts have said. We simply reschedule, even if it is another month or two and, believe me when I say this, those "re-meets" blow my sox off!

 

So Mocha, there are some clients out there who are busy, busy OR have a particular desire to be scheduled WHEN THEY ARE GOING TO BE AT THEIR HORNIEST AND AT THEIR BEST! We also recognize this and are willing to schedule way ahead to get who we want and when we want him.

[KennF]

I'm confused at some of the responses. It doesn't matter who is right or wrong.

 

You are engaging someone to have an enjoyable non-stressed encounter. You can no longer have that type of encounter.

 

The vetting, scheduling, and communication are part of the customer experience. Regardless of fault and blame, the provider has failed at that part. It isn't a question of blame or recognizing that escorts are people.

 

Customer service is part of every business. Whether we want it or not, if there is a mix up, regardless of who is at fault, the provider has to make a choice to either accept the mistake, attempt to correct it and move on, or, lose the client. Which is more important, being right or keeping a client?

 

This is especially true when dealing with a luxury.

[Guest InthePines]

I'm confused at some of the responses. It doesn't matter who is right or wrong.

 

You are engaging someone to have an enjoyable non-stressed encounter. You can no longer have that type of encounter.

 

The vetting, scheduling, and communication are part of the customer experience. Regardless of fault and blame, the provider has failed at that part. It isn't a question of blame or recognizing that escorts are people.

 

Customer service is part of every business. Whether we want it or not, if there is a mix up, regardless of who is at fault, the provider has to make a choice to either accept the mistake, attempt to correct it and move on, or, lose the client. Which is more important, being right or keeping a client?

 

This is especially true when dealing with a luxury.

 

 

Well Put! The principle element that separates the Pros from the Amateurs is an understanding that client's are not going to their wallets to purchase drama, but rather an attempt to avoid it.